In this episode of Dating Made Simple, Tom, Bob, and Harley dive into real talk about dating, engagement, and relationships with two BYU Cougars football players and their batter halves. The couples talk about how they met, what their first dates were like, how they got engaged, and the extra pressures that come with dating a student-athlete. Along the way, they open up about expectations, dealing withloneliness, and trends like “throning,” while giving us an honest, relatable look at modern relationships. You don’t want to miss this episode.

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In this episode of Dating Made Simple, hosts Tom andBob are joined by guest host Harley to break down “Hot Take Dating” and why being real about your opinions—especially controversial ones—can save you a lot of future drama. They mention that differing opinions can be a deal breaker,but why understanding someone’s core values matters even more than winning a debate. The crew also unpacks dating trends like throning (dating for status) and shrekking (dating for better treatment, not attraction), and what they reveal about modern dating. Plus, they explore whether attraction can grow over time, why chemistry still matters, and how shared values, goals, and honest communication set relationships up for the long haul.

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In this episode, hosts Tom and Bob break down Robert Walz’s article “3 Keys to a Lifelong Loving Relationship” in a way that actually makes sense for Gen Z dating and relationships. Drawing from years of counseling experience, they unpack the three non-negotiables for lasting love: selflessness, owning your mistakes and asking for forgiveness, and real communication (not just texting “k”). The conversation dives into why gratitude and validation matter, how small everyday choices build trust, and what healthy conflict really looks like. If you want better relationships—not just more situationships—this episode offers practical, real-world advice you can use right now.

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What if dating didn’t have to feel so overwhelming? Thisepisode challenges the idea that every date needs to be perfect—or lead directly to marriage. Tom, Bob, and Harley explore how social media, dating apps, and cultural pressure have turned dating into a comparison game instead of a process of connection. They talk about why people avoid second dates, how fear disguises itself as pickiness, and why sustainable relationships are built on shared values—not curated highlight reels. With humor, honesty, and real-life examples, this conversation reframes dating as relationship development, reminding listeners that it’s okay to slow down, tune out the noise, and just get to know someone.

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In this episode, we dig into why so many Gen Z men are hesitant to approach women—and it all comes down to one word: creepy. A staggering 69% of men fear being labeled creepy, and 44% say that fear actively stops them from interacting with women at all. We break down what “creepy” behavior actually looks like—think controlling tendencies, not taking no for an answer, and clinginess—and why awareness matters. But don’t worry, it’s not all doom and awkward silences. We talk practical, human solutions: approach in person, read the room, walk away if it’s not working, listen more, and be authentically you. Plus, meet our new host, Harley, joining the conversation with fresh insight and real talk. 🎙️

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We’re bringing back one of our most popular episodes because the advice in it is just too good not to hear again! In this replay, Kristen Metzger from Latter-Day Matchmaker joins us to talk about the art of matchmaking and dating. Kristen is an expert at helping you prepare for that all-important moment of asking someone out. She shares practical guidance on what to say, what to wear, where to go, and how to carry yourself with confidence. Packed with dating tips, real-life insights, and a little humor, this episode will leave you ready—and excited—for your next date.

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In this episode, we hang out with Utah's Governor SpencerCox and First Lady Abby Cox. They kick things off by sharing their dating and courtship story and then shift to more serious topics, like the loneliness epidemic and the health risks associated with being alone. They discuss the effects that phones and social media have on human interaction, emphasizing the importance of getting out and connecting with people. They stress that true happiness comes from having positive relationships. And, in a thrilling endorsement – yes, you read that right, they express their support for this podcast! Tune in for an insightful discussion and practical advice on building meaningful connections.

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This week’s Dating Made Simple takes a lighter but honest look at a heavy topic: the loneliness epidemic. We break down what loneliness really is, how it differs from isolation, and why half of U.S. adults say they’ve struggled with it. You’ll hear surprising stats, personal stories, and the very real health risks tied to chronic disconnection—heart disease, stroke, even depression. But it’s not all gloom: We share practical, everyday ideas for building connection, from simple check-ins with friends, trying new groups and activities, and of course, just going out to dinner. Tune in for laughs, insight, and encouragement to get reconnected.

In this episode, relationship coach Kristi Reeves dives into the power of vulnerability in dating and relationships. She shares why true connection starts with the courage to be open, honest, and real—first with yourself, and then with others. Kristi explains that healing and healthy love aren’t about convincing someone you’re lovable, but about showing up authentically so connection can grow naturally. From self-work to emotional openness, she offers practical insights on how to break down walls, embrace vulnerability, and create the kind of relationships that feel safe, meaningful, and deeply fulfilling. Find Kristi at ⁠https://www.coachkristi.life⁠ and listen to her podcast "Do the Work with Kristi"

#DatingAdvice #RelationshipTips #Vulnerability #AuthenticConnection #KristiReeves #DatingCoach #RelationshipCoach #LoveYourselfFirst #DoTheWorkWith Kristi #coachkristi

Dating after 40? You're not alone—and you're not too late.With nearly half the U.S. population single and 70% of dating app users finding genuine connections, it's time to embrace the swipe! We break down why you should be on three apps, how to keep your photos honest (no 10-year-old selfies!), and why your first meetup should always be “just dinner.” It turns out that “Just dinner” isn’t just low pressure—it’s a smart strategy. Whether you're testing the waters or jumping back in, we’ve got tips to make midlife dating less intimidating and more exciting.

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