Dating & Money Podcast

Most men are using the wrong manual for dating, and it keeps making them chase, overgive, and lose attraction.

Gidon and Alp break down the psychology behind why women lose interest, what actually makes someone magnetic, and how building your own life changes everything.What starts as a raw conversation between two longtime friends becomes a sharp, practical look at dating, relationships, business, and the strange incentives of modern life. Gidon brings the business side, from building a company generating over $10 million a year to thinking about money, freedom, and self-mastery. Alp brings years of dating experience, relationship insight, and a more traditional perspective after nearly eight years in a long-term relationship and a recent transition into commitment.You’ll discover:

• Why “being too available” kills attraction.
• The difference between confidence and chasing validation.
• Why the stereotypical “asshole” often seems attractive, and how to get the upside without becoming one.
• How modern media, movies, and songs quietly shape the dating script most men follow.
• Why dating apps can actually work when you use them with the right filters and intention.
  

We also break down the bigger life shift underneath it all: how remote work, AI, investing, social media, and the creator economy have changed what men can build, earn, and attract. The conversation explores the reality of long-term relationships, why simplicity and moderation matter, and what a healthy partner actually looks like when you’re no longer chasing surface-level status.If you’ve ever wondered why the advice you’re given about women feels backwards, or why success in business doesn’t automatically translate into success in love, this episode offers a clearer manual. It’s essential listening for anyone who wants better relationships, stronger self-direction, and a more grounded approach to dating in today’s world.