If you’re at that point where NOTHING ever seems to change for you in your love life, like you’re stuck a pattern that just keeps on repeating itself…

…you just keep attracting men that do NOT want kids (and you do)

…you end up in the same kind of relationship where 6 months in, you still don’t know where you stand with them

…you can’t seem to stop going to back to the ex you know isn’t right for you

…love is happening all around you, but never for you

…you can’t shake the doubts, the fear, the worry that you’ll never have your dream relationship

Then my beautiful girl, there is programming in your unconscious mind (so it’s not something that you’re actually aware of), that is keeping you stuck where you are and is stopping you from moving forward into your dream relationship.

Your reality is always a perfect reflection of what is happening deep in your unconscious mind.

Reality never lies.  

So, if you don’t like what you’re experiencing and you want to have that dream relationship of yours then you HAVE to stop, become aware of what’s being playing on repeat in your unconscious mind and take steps to change that.

Otherwise, you can spend 24/7 online dating, you can be the hottest, most attractive woman on the planet, follow every dating rule to perfection, never set a foot wrong and STILLLLL be single AF.

Regardless of what action you take, what’s happening in your unconscious mind is ALWAYS going to be the reality you experience.

It wins every single time.

Inside this episode I'm walking you through exactly how you become aware of what’s happening in your unconscious mind and how to change this so that finally you break through all the patterns you’re stuck in and that big old brick wall if feels like you’re up against…and finally have your dream relationship.

LINKS & RESOURCES:

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove 

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If you want more information about Step #1 of The Loved-Up Effect, Release Yourself, click here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/release-yourself-info-request

You'll find the second part of the Karma Cleanse here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/karma-cleanse 

And if you haven't already, be sure to complete the Self-Love Self-Assessment, which you'll find here: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/64983a55fac0d8001429e40d 

Inside this episode I'm breaking down your first step in creating the kind of deep, transformational self-love that is ESSENTIAL if you want to have your dream relationship.

This is a NON-NEGOTIABLE first step when you work with me, because without this step, nothing else you do will be as effective.

This is where self-love (and having your dream love!) starts.

If you’re feeling:

- Unloved, alone, invisible, like no one could care less about you, or will ever care less about you

- You get triggered really easily by things like your friend’s announcing their engagement, seeing your ex in a new relationship, comments your family makes about you still being single

- Or it feels like what you’re experiencing in your love life is only ever getting worse; like there are fewer and fewer decent men to date, if there are any at all, the dates you go on never seem to go anywhere and it’s all feeling really hopeless

Then what you’re going to learn inside this episode as the power to change that all.

You're going to learn: 

- What this first step in creating deep and transformational self-love is and what makes it so FREAIN' important

- What you can expect to happen when you implement this step and it becomes your new way of being

- And what exactly this means that you need to do

PLUS I’ll also be walking you through part of an insanely powerful practice that is going to give you some insanely powerful insights… I won’t say much more because I don’t want to ruin the fun!!

Get listening now! And if you find what you hear helpful, please leave me a review xx

LINKS & RESOURCES:

Come hang with me on Instagram

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove  

Take the Self-Love Self-Assessment and gain unexpected insights into how self-loving you are and in doing so, discover your path from here into the relationship of your dreams.

Click here to complete the Self-Assessment now: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/64983a55fac0d8001429e40d 

If you’ve been putting your all into having the loving relationship of your dreams, yet no matter how much you want it, what you do, or how hard you try, you’re still single, so now…

…it feels like there’s something wrong with you, that you’re not good enough and that you’re failing at life because you can’t seem to find your dream relationship

…or when you get ghosted by a guy you barely know, it throws you into despair, overthinking and anxiety about your future that never really goes away

…and as more time passes, it feels less and less likely that you’ll ever find love

Then I want you to know that self-love is the answer to allll your prayers.

Most likely it’s the unexpected answer...but it 100%, is the thing that is going to change this all for you and get you into the relationship of your dreams. 

Self-love is one of the most underrated and misunderstood concepts of all time.

I plan to change that with this 5-part podcast series, completely dedicated to self-love.

Inside this series you’re going to learn exactly how is self-love can and will get you into the relationships of your dreams:

💫 Starting by clearing up the myriad of misconceptions and misinformation about self-love, because I guarantee that what you’re thinking self-love is right now, isn’t what it actually is

💫 You’re going to learn what advice to stop listening to and what action to stop taking because it’s having the opposite effect than you intended as it actually stopping you from having your dream relationship

💫 Understand what deep, transformational self-love is and the 3 steps to take to get there, so you know exactly what action you need to focus on taking from here on out in order to ACTUALLY have your dream relationship

💫 Which also includes a way of knowing if the action you taking will get you closer to love or not, so you’re no longer blindly taking action and simply hoping and praying that it works for you.

If you’re serious about having your dream relationship, you’re ready to learn something new, to let go of what you have been doing to find love, to let go of how you have been feeling about yourself and your future, then get listening now!

The answer to your prayers is finally here.

And if you find what you learn here helpful, please reach out and let me know by leaving a review xx

LINKS & RESOURCES:

Questions, comment, wanna chat about your Self-Love Self-Assessment results, send me a DM on Instagram

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove 

I feel like I’ve come home.

Self-love was something I used to speak about constantly when I first started a dating coach 5 years ago...that self-love is the absolute key, all you need to focus on in order to have your dream relationship.

Because it truly is.

Like Lucille Ball said, ‘Love yourself first and everything falls into line’ …including your love life.

I’m not sure when or why I really stopped speaking explicitly about self-love, but just as this message came to me time and time and time again about 5 years ago, it’s done the same thing in the last few months and I know I have to pay attention.

As of this podcast episode, expect to hear me talking A LOT more about self-love…

…why self-love is ESSENTIAL if you want to have your dream relationship

…how to know if you are self-loving

…how to be more self-loving

…all the misconceptions and misinformation out there about self-love

…ultimately have the epic love you’ve always wanted through self-love.

Inside this episode you’ll find both a really powerful practice to do and a bunch of questions for you to ask yourself and journal on that are going to illuminate just how self-loving you are…and why that matters so much when you want to have your dream relationship.

I’m really excited to be having this conversation with you and to be speaking about self-love again, because it truly is the least complicated and fastest way into having your dream relationship.

LINKS & RESOURCES:

If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily

Send me a DM on Instagram

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove  

The last thing you want to do is waste your time in a relationship that isn’t going where you want it to go, right?

It’s the worst, when you spend 6 months with someone, you feel like you’re their girlfriend and when you finally build up the courage to get the clarity you want, you learn they aren’t actually sure what they want/they aren’t looking for commitment/they don’t see themselves having kids ever/or they say they’re in and then ghost you a few weeks later…and BOOM, you find out you’ve just spent 6 months with someone who wasn’t ever going to give you what you want!

Inside this episode, I’m going to give you 4 super empowering (and potentially scary, in the best possible way) steps to take that will stop you getting stuck in dead end relationships, where you’re confused, not really sure where you stand and that leave you disappointed and heartbroken.

If you’re asking any of these questions…

- When do you have the ‘where’s this going’ conversation?

- When do you bring up that you want a committed relationship and a family one day?

- How do you know where you stand with someone?

Then you’re going to find this episode extremely helpful, because not only will I be giving you the answers to these questions, you’re also going to get a clear plan to use straight up when you’re dating and in those early states of a relationship.

LINKS & RESOURCES:

If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily

Send me a DM on Instagram

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove 

Maybe you're just not meant to find love...is that something you're thinking more and more?

Have you hit that point where you're seriously doubting that you'll ever find love?

That even though you have this deep desire to love someone and be loved in return, you’re now at a point where you’re thinking that perhaps it's just not meant to be?

Have you spent the last 5 or more years, looking everywhere for answers, taking on the endless dating advice; to online date, be on Bumble instead of Tinder, on the lookout for single men anytime you're out and about, to flirt with your eyes, give off the 'girl next-door vibe' be more in your feminine energy, to not initiate contact, wear red dresses on first dates...so it feels like there’s literally isn’t much left that you have tried to find love.

And despite taking all this action and putting your heart and soul into trying to find love…here you are, without the love you so badly want.

If that’s where you’re at, then it’s completely understandable that you’re questioning whether it is possible for you to have love.

There’s quote from Einstein that I love to remind myself of anytime I’m faced with a problem that seems impossible to overcome. 

“No problem can be solved by the same level of consciousness that created it.”

Every single problem out there (including the relationship sized hole in your life) as a solution.

You are meant to have love.

The fact that you have this desire, means it's 100% possible for you to experience it, otherwise you simply wouldn't desire it. 

That dream relationship of yours, doesn’t have to remain just a dream.

All we gotta do (thank you Einstein) is approach this problem of trying to find love from an entirely different perspective. 

That's exactly what you're going to get inside this episode...

...a whole new mindset, new perspective to finding love that is going to change everything for you. 

What I'm about to walk you through is going to give your hope and optimism back, that you can have love, because it's going to become clear what you need to focus on and what action you need to take in order to have love. 

Action that is aligned with the way the Universe works.

Action that is WILL work. 

Get ready for the biggest breath of fresh air your soul has ever taken!!

Enjoy xx

...and if you do enjoy this episode and find it helpful, please let me know by leaving a review!

LINKS & RESOURCES:

If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily

Or send me a DM on Instagram xx

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove 

How do you feel about online dating? ...and I ask that with a giant smile on my face because does anyone actually like online dating!?!?

If you don’t like online dating because it feels like a soul-destroying chore that you’re putting all this effort into and getting very little in return, then this episode was made for you!

Inside this episode I’ll be talking all the pros and cons of online dating, including my own personal opinion.

But even more important is the conversation that this question opens up...

What action do you need to take to find love?

Like, what action is ACTUALLY going to get you the results you want?

There is endless action to take to find love, whether it’s online dating, speed dating, going to single’s events, tweaking your online dating profile, the way you look, the way you interact with men, not to mention the 89,342,456 dating rules you’ll find to follow…

It’s no wonder then that you feel like deciding what action to take to find love is like throwing spaghetti at the wall, hoping that eventually something sticks, you meet your dream man and ride off into the sunset together.

It doesn’t have to feel so hit and miss (or so miss and miss!).

Inside this episode I touch on a mindset shift that is ESSENTIAL for you to make if you want to find love.

It’s through this shift that you’ll find the clarity you’re looking for. You’ll know what action YOU need to take to find YOUR dream love.

LINKS & RESOURCES:

If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily

Send me a DM on Instagram

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove  

If you have a biological click that is TICKING!!!! and you’re feeling all the fear, worry, anxiety, desperation, like you’re running out of time to have the family you always wanted, then this episode is going to give you an entirely new way forward.

Your biological clocks seem like an insurmountable problem, doesn’t it? Because you can’t change science, the fact that you’re getting older and that the window for you to reproduce is getting smaller.

Inside this episode, we’re going to let the science be what it is.

Instead we’re going to focus on what you can change and start working WITH life (following the 5 steps that I’m going to walk you through), which will enable you to create the life you truly want…partner, family, it all.

LINKS & RESOURCES:

If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily

Or send me a DM on Instagram

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove 

This episode is super exciting to me because from a personal perspective, this is me FINALLY moving past a lot of my own stuff when it comes to the Law of Attraction.

When I first learned about the Law of Attraction back when The Secret came out and Oprah was all about it, my immediate thoughts were ‘what total BS…like as if you can sit around and think of what you want and it appears.’

I didn’t know that some years later I’d meet the Law of Attraction through my never ending and horribly painful journey to find love…and that my understanding of it would change everything for me.

Because for real, understanding all the Universal Laws (including the Law of Attraction!) has been life changing.

It’s why I now have the incredible relationship with my husband, the family, the whole life that for a while there I thought would never be mine.

And it's why SOOOOO many of the women I've had the pleasure of working with over the last 5 years have had the same experience.

The principles of the Universal Laws underpin EVERYTHING I teach.

Until now I’ve never explicitly said that.

Why?

Mainly because of my own stuff.

I used to see the people that ‘believed’ (I now know it isn’t actually something you believe in or not!) in the Law of Attraction and manifestation as weirdos and crazy people and I didn’t want to be thought about like that as well.

And it’s definitely never been something anyone around talks about…and who likes to be the odd one out?!

The other reason is because honestly, I haven’t wanted to put you off what I teach either. I’ve had these beliefs that if I was all ‘come use the Law of Attraction’ with me, then immediately you’d shut down and say no thank you.

So this episode is my ‘f!@# it’ moment…understanding and working with the Law of Attraction (and all the other Universal Laws) will get you into your dream relationship.

Like for real. No ifs, ands or buts about it.

Get listening now to learn exactly how the Law of Attraction works, why it works and how to get it working for you so that you're finally able to attract your dream man into your life!

LINKS & RESOURCES:

If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily

Or send me a DM on Instagram

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove 

‘How to be more attractive to men’ 

‘What do men find attractive in women’

How many times have you asked Google those questions? Because these (and many variations of these!) were on steady rotation for me back in the day, when I was trying my hardest to attract the quality men I wanted into my life. 

Inside this episode I’m going to give you the absolute truth when it comes to what you need to do to be more attractive to men, which I can almost guarantee does not include anything that you’re currently doing to be more attractive to men and isn’t ANYTHING that you’ll find in those Google search results.

Why?

Because most of what you think makes you more attractive to men generally, actually makes you LESS attractive to the quality men that you want to attract into your life…and unfortunately it also pulls you to piece in the process.

So if you’re someone that’s wondering what’s wrong with you, what you need to fix and change about yourself in order to be more attractive to the men you want in your life, if you’re feeling insignificant, unseen, invisible, like you’re always fighting for their attention and only getting scrap in return , then you need to hear what I’m going to say to you in this episode. It cuts close to my heart still, 10 years later.

Let’s get into it!

LINKS & RESOURCES:

If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily

Or send me a DM on Instagram

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head to my website: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove