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- DU 17: Are We Dating? Dating Labels for Types of RelationshipsWe discuss a topic of labels between you and the girl or girls you’re datingThese stories are from our past and present of the ways we dealt with different girls and the labels that were attached to it.This podcast applies more to the labels we use in the United States, but you can apply our experience to your own previous relationships and the labels or titles you use in your own country.This is more of a discussion of the different views of the mainstream “stages of dating.”The overall advice is labels and titles are the smaller details that don’t matter as much.How you make her feel and your overall chemistry with these girls is more important. Whether you’re talking to, going on dates, being intimate, or are exclusive with these girls. Or whatever you want to call it.It doesn’t matter. Instead focus on enjoying your relationship.IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:* A story of a married woman who lied to her husband about her previous relationship with a guy.* We go through the different labels of dating that we are exposed to in the US.* Listen to what their actions say rather than what they are saying.* Panda’s story about how dating labels complicate relationships.* Ray’s previous relationship where he was pushing for a dating label and he ruined the relationship.* Jeff story of when his insecurities ruined a relationship when he pushed for the label of dating.* When do you actually go for the relationship/dating label?* What is a dating purgatory?* “You have to simplify things hardcore… It will just screw with your head. You just have to enjoy.” – Rodrigo* “It’s also too, just enjoying her company. Why does this label matter.” – Jeff* “You can’t control the other person, but how you feel.” – Ray* How cellular plans relate to relationships.* Friends with benefits label.* A quick tip on how to transition a friends with benefits.* We talk about Ray’s previous situation on changing a friends with benefits to a girlfriend (when we recorded the podcast).* Who is the Virgin Mary of Pompous Gentlemen.* What is a serious relationship?* The stories of how each bring up (or don’t bring up) the girlfriend label in our past relationships.* Panda’s casual forced exclusive relationship story.* Open relationship labels and polyamory.* We discuss the end goals in relationships.* Bets are placed on when Ray is going to get married.* You’ll learn our overall consensus on dating labels.Don't Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today...How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?Secrets that to help you date the women you want?You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.You’ll receive:– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction– Access to live online training– And our curated weekly Dating Update NewsletterBest part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don't take.Life's too short to live with regret.Go out and take action today!1 hr 2 min
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- When to Break Up and Leave a Relationship (PG Podcast 15)We ambush Ray and talk to him about his recent break up.Listen to the podcast, and you’ll gain an overall idea of when to break up and leave a relationship.Remember, friends don't let friends be in bad relationships.1 hr 4 min
- DU 14: How to Be a “Bad Boy” and “Nice Guy” That Women Are Drawn ToA practical look on what nice guy and bad boy qualities workA sequel to the last podcast because it was unsatisfyingly cut off short.We give you actionable advice to help you become the man that women want to be with.IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:* What are the stereotypical nice guy and bad boy qualities work* The difference between good teasing vs. bad teasing* How to create jealously plotlines (Jon Sinn) or creating social proof at night* Panda’s story of how to use it when teaching someone to dance* Jeff’s Vegas story of building social dominance, social proof and pre-selection at a club.* “Protrayal of bad boy qualities equals ease of open.” – Rodrigo* “As we continue on speaking of bad boy qualities, the more and more I realize that these bad boy qualities have been misnamed.” – Rodrigo* Are these bad boy qualities actually bad boy qualities* How stereotypical bad boy qualities are more confident guy qualities* How to be more vague and more mysterious to get her to invest* A basic format of how to get her to invest more into the interaction by being vague* Defining being vague* What you need as a requirement when being vague with girls* What is Jeff’s best side?* What is a takeaway?* How long does your wing man need to stay there* Does being thoughtful and being caring work?* 1 tip that will help it feel like the girl has known you forever* Why we keep Ray around* What bad boy qualities don’t work* What nice guy qualities don’t work* When is the right time to buy a girl a drink?* The whole list isn’t bad boy vs. good guy qualities, but…* A slow lighting round of practical tips of an overall attractive guy and simple way to add it to your lifeDon't Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today...How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?Secrets that to help you date the women you want?You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.You’ll receive:– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction– Access to live online training– And our curated weekly Dating Update NewsletterBest part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don't take.Life's too short to live with regret.Go out and take action today!1 hr 19 min
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- DU 12: Meeting and Approaching Women During the DayWhat I Wanted to Learn After Online Dating Wasn't Working for Me...Meeting an amazing woman while out and about during the day time one of my favorite way to meet girls besides social circle or grooving in the club.It was our “gateway drug” into the rabbit hole of improving our success with women and our lives in general.The podcast will cover the rest of the basics and foundations.IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN:* The basic definitions of day game (not our definition of it, but a generally accepted definition)* What our game of “go” was.* One of mindset you need to get past to do well during day game.* The goal of meeting women during the day is to make their day.* A basic way to stop girls during the day.* Panda’s pearls of wisdom on not scaring girls when you approach.* Panda talks about his failed escalator approaches.* How to use a compliment to approach.* Rodrigo talks about how to accept your initial approaches.* You’re 1st five approaches.* How to build up your confidence if you’re scared of approaching to girls your attracted to.* “Ray knows about ugly girls.” – Rodrigo* The ways we warm up before approaching.* A good exercise to help push you to approach during the day.* Jeff’s favorite tip for talking girls during the day.* Briefly touching on indirect vs. direct, and why we prefer direct during the day.* What Jeff considers the hardest thing to do when going indirect.* How selling phones is equivalent to going indirect during the day.* Panda’s fail story, but going fully indirect when he approached a hostess at the restaurant.* How Ray used indirect to set-up a short-term relationship with a cute French girl.* Why you should get her email.* “You know what would make you feel better, let’s go get a drink” – Ray* “Guys I stereotype all the time” – Panda* Ray underestimated the power of the American accent.* How Ray normally initiates sex.* How to make your interactions during the day more solid and have less flakes.* Panda confession on what he is bad at during day game.* Jeff gives advice on how to improve your success with getting insta-dates.* Jeff and Panda record a special add-in because the recovered data was missing the end.Don't Forget To Activate Your Free Dating UpDate Account Today...How would you like to learn dating optimization secrets a majority of men will never understand about women and dating?Secrets that to help you date the women you want?You can learn these secrets and more by activating your Free Dating Update Account. Subscribe today and unlock the Ultimate Dating Optimization Toolbox.You’ll receive:– The Greatest Fatal Mistakes Men Make With Women– A Proven Structure for Building Long-Term Attraction– Access to live online training– And our curated weekly Dating Update NewsletterBest part it’s free to activate your account. Get all this, and much more… no credit card required… no catch… free today… free forever!Just go to the sign-up page and create your account here.The biggest regrets we have in life are the chances we don't take.Life's too short to live with regret.Go out and take action today!59 min
- How We Approached Dating Before and After We Learned About “Game” (Flashback 1 Year Ago) (PG Podcast 11)But I think the episode shows our enthusiasm for being new to the “Game”.We dive into what shaped our perceptions and influences that greatly affected our dating lives, and how we viewed relationships.1 hr 15 min
- Overcoming Approach Anxiety and Fear of Rejection (PG Podcast 10)This is our episode 10. We'll give you our personal tools for overcoming approach anxiety and your fear of rejection.You'll hear stories of our first approaches and how we still deal with approach anxiety today. Most of us at least (Panda doesn't have approach anxiety).1 hr 17 min
- Attracting International Girls and Getting Past the Language Barrier (PG Podcast 09)This is our episode 9 where we share how to attract international girls, and how to get past the communication barrier.In the podcast, we talk about non-english speaking girls, but this also applies for girls from out of your country or when you're traveling internationally.So any girls who don't speak your native language.0 min
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Is it hard to date the women you like? Does modern dating f*cking suck? You’re a good guy, but you can’t figure out how to attract her? Stop feeling lost. And UpDate your dating life today! Know how…
to navigate the entire dating process through what you’ll learn on the Dating UpDate podcast. Make dating suck a little less today. You get men’s dating advice from regular guys who recovered from years of coaching in the pickup artist industry. Years of late nights out. Lots of casual fun. Experience coaching for the biggest names in the industry. While it was exciting, but it took a toll. We weren’t any happier or fulfilled. Eventually, it led to a mental breakdown on the streets of Hollywood, California. And we changed to becoming dating coaches with different perspectives and more fulfilling ways to change your dating life. And Dating UpDate was created to find healthier ways of improving your dating life. Get dating strategies and answers to your biggest dating questions.