Name it & Claim it - Empowerment Podcast

Day 5: Dropping comparison


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The basics

  •  The goal is: Hearing all the cool stuff someone else is doing/having and NOT MAKING it about yourself
  • Everything you see on social media has nothing to do with you
  • So why should we make it about you?

Bringing the attention back to YOU 

  • A realization I had in a Buddhist monastery years ago: “I don’t want what others want”
  • I have my own unique set of wishes, dreams and things that are important in life for me
  • So, it doesn’t sense that I compare myself with others who WANT that
  • It’s never about what others are doing or why they are doing it
  • It’s about bringing the attention back to what you want
    • Do you want to adjust your lifestyle and priorities, so you can also get/do/be the “thing” you are comparing yourself with?
    • If it’s a no, then bring the attention back to yourself: It’s cool that she has this but it’s not my priority, so it doesn’t make sense that I compare myself with her

Selbstbewusstsein

  • The German word for confidence is Selbstbewusstsein. If you take the words apart it means: sich seiner selbst bewusst sein. To be aware of one self
  • That means knowing yourself to the deepest core
  • Knowing your strengths and weaknesses 
  • Knowing your magic and the magic you bring to this world
  • So, freaking please: Be aware of your awesomeness and: DO YOU

6-Step process to drop comparison

  • Step 1: The key is to catch yourself then, make it fun “Oh lol, it happened again!”
  • Step 2: Comparison and joy cannot live in the same container. 
  • Step 3: Can you shift the energy from feeling bad to being inspired? 
    • Can you use this to be inspired rather than feeling bad?
    • If she has achieved this, it means it’s possible for me too!
  • Step 4: Choose joy, you always have a choice. Choice is your superpower.
  • Step 5: When you feel that you can’t shift the energy to a positive intention behind it, then ask yourself “Why is this triggering me? 
  • Step 6: Detox. Try to set up your boundaries against the people/situations that trigger comparison that leaves you feeling bad. 
    • Number 1 tip: Detox your instagram
  • Step 7 or more step 0: Know who you are
    • This is the foundation! 
    • Not only for dropping comparison but for this whole 5-day challenge
    • The foundation of being confident is: Knowing who you are!
    • Know what you bring to the table
    • Be aware of your strengths and your unique gift
    • Allow yourself to shine, and refuse to ever dim your light again
    • And allow yourself to come back to who you truly are 

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Name it & Claim it - Empowerment PodcastBy Cynthia Artemis