In this episode of Kadabiyu’s Journal, I open up about the quiet pressure we all feel to stand out, to be special, to leave a mark that proves our lives mattered. But behind that chase is a hidden fear—the fear of being ordinary. I explore where this fear comes from, how it silently shapes our choices, and why maybe “ordinary” isn’t the curse we think it is. Sometimes, the most beautiful parts of life are found in the moments that don’t make headlines.