This week in the Lounge, I'm joined by renowned sex therapist, sexologist, and relationship counselor Cyndi Darnell, for a juicy chat about breaking free from traditional relationship scripts and reimagining intimacy, romance, and connection.

We delve into alternative styles of relating—including relationship anarchy, polyamory, solo polyamory, chosen family, and platonic partnerships—exploring what happens when you decenter romance and start nurturing friendships, community, and other meaningful connections. 

Cyndi draws on decades of experience working with maturing populations questioning monogamy, uncovering why so many of us feel dissatisfied or curious about nontraditional ways of loving and living.

You’ll hear honest reflections on the learnt scripts we carry around sex, relationships, and gender roles, and what it takes to unlearn them in order to build more rewarding intimate lives. The conversation also covers the realities of relational skills, emotional labor, and the profound impact of relational integrity in every kind of relationship—not just the romantic ones.

Plus, we share personal stories about friendship, chosen family, and the beauty (and challenge) of lifting your gaze from “the one” to the many who hold you.

If you’ve ever felt “off-script” in love, wondered about non-monogamy, or simply want to nourish your friendships and show up more fully in your relationships, this is an episode you don’t want to miss.

Highlights:

• Why traditional heteronormative models of relationships aren’t working for many
• The skills we need to create sustaining, nourishing connections—romantic or not
• How economic and social change is driving the rise of chosen families and community-based intimacy
• Friendship as a nourishing, romantic, and valid centerpiece in life
• Real talk about commitment, relational integrity, and emotional regulation beyond old-school paradigms
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Listen and be inspired to rethink, revitalise, and reclaim connection, intimacy, and love—all on your own terms!

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