Dead Serious

In this episode of 'Dead Serious,' host Vincent Gilmor is joined by the crew of th 'Who Are These Guys?' podcast - Jesse, JK, and Kurt. 

They dive deep into a variety of topics including post-holiday relief, family dynamics, the concept of death coming in threes, and some candid reflections on challenging moments between friends. 

The conversation flows into parenting woes, handling sensitive situations, conspiracy theories, and even dabbling with the ideas of planning one's own funeral. 

Tune in for an engaging mixture of humor, personal stories, and intriguing discussions.

00:00 Post-Holiday Reflections

04:31 Parenting Challenges and Sick Kids

11:09 Funeral Planning and Family Conflicts

17:14 VR Gaming Experiences

22:34 Conspiracy Theories and Misinformation

32:56 Drone Warfare and Robotics

35:21 Cartwheel Challenges and Fun

40:41 Funeral Stories and Reflections

56:29 Weight Struggles and Health

01:03:13 China's Population Policies and Government Control

01:07:37 Healthcare System Woes

01:17:57 The Struggle with Obesity and Lifestyle Choices

01:22:53 Bizarre Foods and Cultural Practices

01:29:09 Scams, Catfishing, and Online Deception

01:32:39 Funeral Preferences and Reflections

Step right up for a ringside seat as Steve, Dimitri, Elissa, and Vincent jab their way through the nitty-gritty (and hilariously gritty) details of this year’s Long Island Fight for Charity! From corporate execs-turned-boxers to amateur sparring matches that turned into accidental smackdowns, we’re unpacking the drama, laughs, and $100K charity check moments. It’s the ultimate mix of Rocky meets The Office, Long Island edition.

A breakdown of the event logistics (and a near-arrest story that’s as Long Island as bagels and lox).

💪 Training tales from boxers learning to swing without knocking out the dentist.

🎉 Why Fight for Charity is also the best networking event on the island.

💡 Insight into the charities supported, including Eden II’s incredible autism programs.

Think we’re pulling punches? Fuhgeddaboudit. Hit play to laugh, learn, and maybe get inspired to lace up next year.

Step right up for a ringside seat as Steve, Dimitri, Elissa, and Vincent jab their way through the nitty-gritty (and hilariously gritty) details of this year’s Long Island Fight for Charity!

From corporate execs-turned-boxers to amateur sparring matches that turned into accidental smackdowns, we’re unpacking the drama, laughs, and $100K charity check moments. It’s the ultimate mix of Rocky meets The Office, Long Island edition.

A breakdown of the event logistics (and a near-arrest story that’s as Long Island as bagels and lox).

💪 Training tales from boxers learning to swing without knocking out the dentist.

🎉 Why Fight for Charity is also the best networking event on the island.

💡 Insight into the charities supported, including Eden II’s incredible autism programs.

Think we’re pulling punches? Fuhgeddaboudit. Hit play to laugh, learn, and maybe get inspired to lace up next year.

Visit https://www.lifightforcharity.org/ to learn more 🥊

In this episode of 'Dead Serious,' host Vincent Gilmor sits down with Paul and Larry from The Original Salpinos Italian Market. 

They delve into a variety of engaging topics, including the intricacies of running a family-operated market, their unique products, and the challenges and triumphs of expanding their business. 

The conversation covers everything from family traditions and memorable stories, to their inspirations and the evolution of their product offerings. 

Paul and Larry also share personal anecdotes about their lives, highlighting their passion for food, their family's history in business, and their experiences balancing work with personal life.

02:46 The History of Sal Pino's

04:03 Expanding the Business

09:36 Challenges and Rewards of Running a Family Business

25:35 Social Media and Marketing Strategies

36:52 Corporate vs. Family-Owned Businesses

40:09 Psychic Medium Experiences

53:31 Mozzarella Making Process

01:04:21 Skiing Adventures and Mishaps

01:10:16 Final Thoughts and Wrap Up 

The Original Salpino’s Links

Website - https://www.theoriginalsalpino.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theoriginalsalpinos/

Uber Eats - https://www.order.store/store/salpinos-food-market/zIbznEYhRSufjKB5a5m4EQ

In part 2 of this episode of 'Dead Serious,' host Vincent Gilmor sits down with Jennifer B. Cona of Cona Elder Law to explore the intricacies of elder law, funeral pre-planning, and end-of-life decision-making. 

The discussion navigates the complexities of Medicaid applications, the emotional toll of planning for end-of-life, and the importance of ethical and proactive planning. 

Themes such as managing work-life balance, emotional challenges associated with death, transparent communication, and reflections on career evolution and office culture are central. 

Personal stories and cherished family moments, including memories of Lake George, highlight the interconnected nature of life, death, and legal responsibilities. 

The episode blends serious legal advice with light-hearted anecdotes, providing a comprehensive look at the multifaceted world of elder law.

00:34 A Strange Case of Pre-Planning

03:27 The Weight of Guardianship Responsibilities

05:41 Financial Planning for Funerals

14:35 Balancing Business and Personal Life

16:52 Balancing Business and Personal Life

18:20 Responsibility Towards Employees

19:28 The Value of Pre-Planning

21:29 Managing a Growing Business

23:43 Office Dynamics and Culture

27:31 Personal Preferences and Traditions

29:08 Favorite Places and Drinks

Cona Elder Law Links

Website - https://conaelderlaw.com

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGiC3OMQNsp-YNOIf2TtUyQ/videos

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/conaelderlaw

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/cona-elder-law/

In the latest episode of “Dead Serious”, Vincent Gilmor sits down with Jennifer Cona of Cona Elder Law to discuss the multifaceted world of elder care, memory care, and estate planning. 

The conversation begins with insights from Jennifer on the significance of planning ahead for long-term care and the evolving landscape of elder law. The focus shifts to the emotional and logistical challenges faced in memory care facilities, and the impactful work of charitable organizations supporting Alzheimer's and dementia patients. 

Personal stories from Vincent about pet rescue and the professional stresses of handling sensitive cases, such as funerals for children, add a poignant touch. 

Jennifer & Vincent explore the complexities of estate planning, including the importance of wills, trusts, and advanced directives, and the delicate balance lawyers and funeral directors must maintain between compassion and professionalism in their service to clients and grieving families.

00:55 Navigating Personal and Professional Life

01:38 The Evolution of Elder Law

02:34 The Importance of Planning Ahead

06:17 The High Costs of Elder Care

09:19 Community and Philanthropy

10:28 Balancing Work and Personal Life

17:36 The Importance of Full Disclosure

19:13 Legal Complications of Multiple Families

21:21 Intestacy and Inheritance Rights

23:45 Challenges of Will Contests

25:22 Handling Difficult Clients

31:52 The Necessity of Preplanning

35:26 Guardianship and Preplanning Benefits

Cona Elder Law Links

Website - https://conaelderlaw.com

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGiC3OMQNsp-YNOIf2TtUyQ/videos

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/conaelderlaw

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/cona-elder-law/

In part 2 of this episode of Dead Serious,' host Vincent Gilmor continues his conversation with UFC fighter turned Real Estate Broker, Al Iaquinta, as they navigate the landscapes of life, death, and everything in between. 

Al continues to share stories of his time in the UFC, including encounters with famous personalities like Dana White and Donald Trump. Al inquires about Vincent’s line of work and they both reflect on the importance of pre-planning funerals. 

The conversation delves into the unique camaraderie within MMA gyms and the transition to real estate. Candid discussions about family, children, and the future reveal the multifaceted nature of embracing both life and eventual passing.

00:31 Funeral Home Antics: Networking with a Twist

01:25 Prank Calls and Scam Stories

05:59 Family and Fatherhood: Passing on Values

09:14 Boating and Beach Life: South Shore Adventures

12:47 The Business of Death: Funeral Costs and Planning

17:26 Discussing Family Graves and Mausoleums

18:40 Understanding Cemetery Costs and Options

20:15 Pre-Planning Funerals for Peace of Mind

22:41 Normalizing Conversations About Death

31:35 Camaraderie in MMA Gyms

35:47 Upcoming Fight for Charity Event

36:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

In part 1 of this episode of Dead Serious, host Vincent Gilmor chats with former UFC fighter turned real estate broker, Al Iaquinta of Iaquinta Real Estate. 

They discuss Al's transition from the intensity of the octagon to the nuanced world of real estate, his experiences growing up, and the influence of a strong community. 

Hear about his past fights, how he navigated his way into the UFC, and his approach to house hacking. 

Al also shares insights on the current real estate market, examining trends and the challenges of buying and selling homes today on Long Island.

00:24 High School Memories and Mischief

01:42 Parental Influence and Early Sports

03:14 Transition to Professional Fighting

04:34 The Ultimate Fighter and UFC Journey

09:02 Facing Khabib: The Wildest Weekend

22:06 Balancing MMA and Real Estate

26:34 Natural Ability and Weight Classes in MMA

27:36 Injuries and Transition to Real Estate

28:16 The Knee Surgery Dilemma

30:42 Dana White and UFC Politics

31:08 Merab's Journey and Work Ethic

33:59 Real Estate Ventures and House Hacking

42:18 Challenges for New Home Buyers

46:46 The Competitive Real Estate Market

In this second episode of “Dead Serious”, we dive into the chaos and rewards of a spontaneous road trip to Disney with kids in tow! From packing up the car like the Beverly Hillbillies to driving straight through to Florida, we recount the highs and lows of balancing family, business, and the need for a well-earned break.

We get real about the importance of venturing into new territories, whether it’s becoming a figurehead in the digital world or exploring uncharted areas of life and death. 

We also touch on the idea of normalizing conversations around mortality, facing the fear of the unknown, and embracing the inevitable.

Hit play, and let’s talk about the things no one wants to talk about!

00:31 Exploring Digital Presence and Local Influence

01:59 Embracing Mortality in the Digital Age

02:58 The Allure and Pitfalls of Instant Fame

06:49 Vacation Adventures and Travel Woes

13:54 The Role of AI in Our Lives

15:01 Embracing Technology in Daily Tasks

17:32 The Future of AI and Its Implications

19:13 AI in Professional Settings

20:43 The Human Experience and Technology

22:41 Reflections on Life and Death

26:01 Guest Insights and Future Plans

Welcome to the first episode of the Dead Serious podcast with host Vincent Gilmor, funeral director of Noce Funeral Home in West Babylon, NY.  

Today we talk about the pressures and joys of carrying on a family tradition, the intricacies of managing both a funeral home and a florist business, and the necessary role of community relationships in this unique industry. 

We also touch on the emotional and economic realities of running a funeral home, and how he has transformed his anxiety into a superpower that aids in reading people and situations. 

Whether it's dealing with challenging customers or balancing work and personal life, this origin story of Noce Funeral Home & it’s family tradition is of resilience, dedication, and genuine care.

02:46 Balancing Multiple Businesses

05:01 Community and Personal Sacrifices

06:47 The Business Side of Funerals

09:55 Personal Connections and Community Role

16:12 Pre-Planning and Client Interactions

18:19 The Importance of Genuine Care in Funeral Services

19:16 Building a Community Reputation

22:12 Handling Emotional and Unexpected Situations

25:02 Daily Operations and Challenges

28:20 Community Outreach and Legacy

30:44 Personal Adversity and Professional Growth