Transform Your Life With Steve and Pete

Dealing With Disappointment


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 Disappointment is a natural part of life. It can also be a powerful force that keeps us stuck or paralyzed. In this episode, learn to deal with your disappointment in a healthy way so you can move forward and come out on the other side better than before. 


Transformation Tip: You can’t be disillusioned unless you were believing an illusion to begin with.



Dealing with disappointment does not mean burying it or ignoring it


Time can only heal disappointment if you truly face it and deal with it


Ways to deal with disappointment:

  • Let it out 
  • Don't contain it - you need to feel it 
  • Find a therapist or a trusted friend to vent to 
  • Journal about it
  • Gain perspective 
    • Find a trusted outside perspective
    • Were your expectations too high?
    • Separate your desire from the object of your desire
  • Recenter yourself 
    • Don’t let disappointment define you - let it refine you
    • Remind yourself who you are 
  • Live in the present
    • Disappointments of the past do not have to define who you are in the present
    • Allow disappointments to become learning experiences (growth mindset)
    • Allow yourself the ability to start over


Transformation Application: If you’re holding on to a disappointment, find time to let it out or gain a new perspective by talking to someone. 


Coaching Resources:

http://www.stevechuaintl.com

http://www.petecoaching.com/

https://www.insightoutcorp.com/

 

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Transform Your Life With Steve and PeteBy Steve Chua and Pete Cafarchio