Dear Bianca

Lindsay Perrin is back on Dear Bianca for the third time, and this one has it all. We go deep into her journey as a surrogate for two gay dads in NYC—from the very beginning to postpartum and everything in between. She opens up about what it was like being pregnant without a partner, how it compared to her pregnancies with her two kids, and the real highs and lows she faced along the way.

Of course, we couldn't skip the fun stuff: Lindsay tells me about making a Hinge profile while pregnant (yes, really), what dating was like during that time, and what she's actually looking for in a partner now. Younger women might still be her thing… but she also admits she has a thing for Kris Jenner post-surgery LOL.

And we wrap up by chatting about her 3rd annual NYC Lesbian Bar Crawl and what caused Lindsay and I had a little tiff that we hash out live on the mic.

So grab your headphones, get comfy, and let's dive in.

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xx B

I just got back from the most beautiful trip through Europe with my girlfriend, and while I was away, I found myself reflecting a lot—not only on life, but on Dear Bianca and where this podcast is headed. In this episode, I open up about why I've decided to rebrand, how this next chapter feels true to who I am right now, and what you can expect from me moving forward.

This isn't about leaving anything behind, but about expanding—creating space for more connection, more stories, and more of the everyday moments that bring us all together. I share my heart with you about why this shift feels so important and exciting, and I hope it helps you feel even more a part of the journey.

And I wrap up with details on the 3rd Annual NYC Lesbian Bar Crawl happening this weekend with Lindsay Perrin. It's not just about a night out—it's about meeting new people, celebrating our queer spaces, and building friendships that last.

So grab your headphones, get comfy, and let's dive in.

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xx B

In this episode of Dear Bianca, I step away from our usual lighthearted conversations to reflect on two tragedies that captured national attention this week: the devastating death of Iryna Zarutska on the light rail and the fatal shooting of Charlie Kirk at Utah Valley University.

As a queer podcast community, I know these events bring up complicated emotions — grief, anger, even conflicting feelings about justice. But one thing is clear: celebrating violence is not who we are. In this episode, I talk about what these moments reveal about America's broken systems, why violence cannot be the solution, and how our LGBTQ community can stay rooted in love, compassion, and humanity, even when the world feels upside down.

Join me for a heartfelt reflection on choosing joy over hate, kindness over cruelty, and remembering that our greatest power as a community has always been love.

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xx B

September really said, "Let's test her." In one week, I collected a whole new friend group, blew through way too much money going out, and earned a solid "F" on my first fantasy football report card (thank you, apparently I suck at drafting). And because life loves balance, my 30s decided to show up with random knee pain every time I try to work out — cute.

Add in football season officially here, fall vibes taking over, and whispers of an early winter, and honestly… we're thriving. This is your fun, slightly unhinged, very sarcastic catch-up on how September is already giving main character energy.

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xx B

Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce are officially engaged — but the real chaos is happening in NYC, where an upcoming lesbian bar crawl has a guest list that's spiraling out of control. Bianca also spills on her love for her new therapist and answers a heartfelt listener question about coming out as non-binary to their parents.

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xx B

This week on Dear Bianca, I'm joined by a very special guest — my girlfriend, Abby. It's her first time on the podcast, and we're sharing our queer love story: how we met, how she ended up breaking her single and celibate era for me (hehe), and Abby pokes fun at what it's like dating me.

We also chat about: Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce and how Swiftie concerts have turned into full-on image and status parties, the mysterious case of our neighbor's missing cat, and Abby's professional wellness tips as a Physician Assistant: vitamin and supplement safety, skincare do's and don'ts, and more

It's a fun, flirty, and real conversation with laughs, love, and Abby's perspective — mixing queer dating and relationships with her insight into health and wellness.

Disclaimer: The medical information shared in this episode is for general educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult your own healthcare provider with questions about your health, supplements, or skincare.

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xx B

Ever had a random compliment from a stranger live in your head all week? Same. This episode dives into the power of a stranger—how micro-connections boost confidence, calm anxiety, and add a little magic. I share the moment that flipped my mood, no-cringe scripts to start a convo, how to give a great compliment, and when to set boundaries. Is who you meet really a coincidence…or something you called in?

We have a quick chat about my unexpected Nashville night before a Vegas weekend.

If you love Dear Bianca, please follow, rate & review the podcast—it seriously helps the show grow. And check my Instagram @dearbiancapodcast for a Dear Bianca giveaway (submissions close August 15 at 11:59 PM ET). Go make a stranger smile today. 💫

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Picture this: Coldplay hits the stage, the arena cameras sweep the crowd, and—boom—two people busy having an affair go full-PDA under 60,000 phones. In this week's Dear Bianca I roast that Jumbotron-level misfire and wonder why anyone thinks "secret" and "stadium" belong in the same sentence.

Meanwhile, I pulled a ten-hour "let's just go to Italy" stunt—booked, realized I have too much going on, cancelled, and now I'm babysitting €1200 in cash. Next stop? Vegas. Almost four months alcohol-free and betting on mineral water instead of martinis.

We also peel apart three tracks from Fletcher's new album, Would You Still Love Me If You Really Knew Me. Do you think you can love someone from a D i s t a n c e?

Also, is anyone else ready for Fall? I'm craving hoodie season.

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I'm back — and life's been lifing. After a few months away, we have lots to catch up on: I haven't had a drink in 3 months, I'm deep in my healthy girl era (yes, I read every label now), and emotionally? Let's just say… i'm working on it.

In this episode, I open up about starting therapy and leaning into meditation. I also share the conversation that reignited my purpose for this podcast (spoiler: I missed you). Oh, and yes… we have to talk about Fletcher dating a man and JoJo Siwa's new relationship.

If you're into personal growth, queer stories, real-life wellness, and honest convos with zero fluff — this one's for you.

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This episode means so to me. But before you hit play, do yourself a favor—grab a box of tissues, because I cannot keep it together.

Today, February 21st, is my best friend Shannon's birthday. She should be here celebrating, but instead, I'm honoring her memory. Shannon passed away at just 28 years old due to alcohol addiction, which led to acute kidney and liver failure. Losing her changed me forever.

In this episode, I take you through the journey of our friendship—the laughter, the love, and the moments that still make me smile. But I also open up about the guilt I carry, the what-ifs that haunt me, and the things I would give anything to change. I miss her every single day, and if I had known that our last phone call would truly be the last, I would have said so much more.

If you or someone you love is struggling with addiction, please know you're not alone. There is help out there:

📞 SAMHSA National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) 📞 Alcoholics Anonymous (AA): 1-212-870-3400 | www.aa.org 📞 Partnership to End Addiction: 1-855-378-4373 | www.drugfree.org

Shannon, I love you always. Happy birthday, my beautiful best friend. 💙