Disputes are interesting because they allow you to see parts of peoples character that you either don’t usually see or overlook because you don’t experience in a capacity where you’re looking at said individual(s) objectively; but then, it’s also interesting how quickly we disassociate peoples nature during disputes to compliment narrative and/or versions of people we have in our heads. How you receive and experience people is a choice and we don’t realise that sometimes we are too busy living in our own subjectivity that we don’t give people grace to live in theirs meaning that we often attach or project our fears, insecurities and other parts of our shadow selves to peoples identity by way of assuming intention…which is always a great a recipe for disaster. On this episode I vent about a eye opening dispute I had and how it made me feel.

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