Money should never be a taboo topic with anyone you are merging your life with 📢. Today, we're talking about how to talk about money in dating relationships + this 8-month relationship that ended because he wouldn't share his salary. 

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If you're saving sex for marriage, how do you know that sex will be good with your partner? Is sexual compatibility a real thing, and how do you test for it if it is? Today's episode features a story from a Christian man who has a sexual history but is marrying a virgin. They're both Christians but he's concerned his fiancee might be asexual. In this episode, I respond to his question, share thoughts on counselling, purity culture, how to talk about your sex expectations and wrap with book recommendations. Enjoy & Share :)

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Introducing Dear Fopsy Reads: The one where I read and recap a love and relationship book. Today I share 7 lessons from the 30-year best seller: "The Five Love Languages". Download the guide to go with the episode at: https://www.dearfopsy.com/store/p/5lovelanguages

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“Dear Fopsy, I come from a line of divorced women, and I think I’m not meant to be happy in love.  I’m 33, and I’ve been worried that if I ever get married, my relationship will end in a messy and bitter divorce. I’m engaged and getting married in 2024. “

Today, we’re talking about breaking the cycle of divorce. Overcoming the pain of growing up with divorced parents, breaking generational curses and creating generational joy!

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Dear Fopsy, Recently, the "good girl no dey pay" sentiment is loud - and seeping into my thinking. Plus it feels like unmarried Christian women are waiting for husbands into their 30s. Any encouragement for me & the community?

Tackling this question today on feeling like you're losing, despite doing everything right. Here's some encouragement for anyone who's feeling like life isn't fair right now. #dearFopsy

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What if friends, family, or paid matchmaking could help you find a date worth keeping? In this episode, I share 5 Reasons to Let Your Friends Play Matchmaker. Listen and come over to Youtube to join the conversation!

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So many red flags in dating that if you spot them, can save you a lifetime of stress. Today's #AskFopsy deals with a real Life financial abuse story - Her Husband Makes Her Pay His Debt.  Listen and head over to YouTube to add your own advice in the comments: what would you advise her to do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qChPrLojA6k

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Your Complete Guide to knowing when to share details of your past with your partner. I know how daunting sharing your past can be, but it's an important part of getting to know each other. I share tips on how to decide if now is a good time to share, and guide you on how to do this with your boyfriend or girlfriend.

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Christian guys are boring, so your dating preference is "Christian, with a bit of hood". Let's talk about it real quick.

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How to ask to pick someone's brain, via DM, e-mail, and not get ignored. These are 7 tips to consider.  

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