Dear Future Hubby Podcast

This is dedicated to All of the Husbands and or Wives who have been dealt a Treacherous hand in their marriage! My heart truly goes out to you! I understand what that feels like, I have been there and I have done that!!! It isn’t good for Anyone, not you, not your spouse or your child(ren). Get Help! Be Safe! Don’t risk losing your Life, but Pray for your Offender until you see A Change come! Be Encouraged. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Let me start by Apologizing! On this Episode I am delirious... Exhaustion has truly caught up with me. However, I refuse to let it have the Best of Me and wanted to talk about Communication. We cannot expect our Future Spouses be Mind Readers. Therefore, if we haven’t learned how, we must take time to learn how to communicate appropriately, safely and wisely! Therefore, I am working on my communication skills, how about you? Check out my latest episode. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Haven’t you heard this before? “You’ll Never Know if You Don’t Ask”. Well, I would have to agree with that statement. Too often we would rather lean on our Own Understanding, based on What and How we would handle a situation if place in a certain scenario. However, just because This is How You would handle a Situation, doesn’t necessarily mean that Someone else would do the Same or Respond the exact same way that you would! This is Why it is important to Ask! You may be missing out on the Greatest Blessing of Your Life just because you Never took the time to Ask! If you are someone who doesn’t bother with asking questions, this episode may be just what you need. Take a listen. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Significant, you are! When was the Last Time someone took a moment to tell you these words? “You Matter”, “Your Life has Value”, “You are Irreplaceable” or “You are Significant”? Most times, it’s the Opposite, Right? Instead of Words of Edification, you may hear words of degradation! Why is this? Why do some people prefer to tear you down, rather than build you up? Could it be because of their own insecurities that they attempt to spew their indifference on you?! Well, I am here to Debunk their Lies! You Are Significant! There will Never be Another You!!! Your Life has Value! It has Meaning and You Matter!!! If you need a friendly reminder, checkout the latest episode. Don’t forget to spread the love and this podcast! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Too often we try to go at things Alone! In doing so, we may not Always get the best results! Well, I have tried to do things my way, too many times to count! This way of doing things hasn’t always worked out in my favor! Then I tried a Better Way. I started praying and surrendering my way to His Way and before long, I began to Let Him Work It Out! After all, His Ways are Better than My Ways and His Thoughts are Better than My Thoughts! Have you Tried Him Yet? If you would love to hear an example of when my Letting Him Work it Out worked for Me, tune in to this Episode! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Why is it that for many of us, the word “No” causes so much disappointment? However, when we hear the word, “Yes” we are most likely excited? Why is it that these two words have such a different impact when heard? I wonder. If you are someone who struggles with rejection, maybe this is the episode for you. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

I am so glad that I have Learned to Reject the Pain! Having once felt like I was a Toxic Magnet and the Only Relationships I could find were the Toxic ones, where the men were emotionally unavailable, insecure, angry all the time or just plain bad for me in general; I am Grateful for Letting them all go!!! Someone said, “to do the Same thing but expecting a different result is insanity”. Well, I must have been insane to label “lust” as “love” so many times. I am now free from that stinking thinking and I truly know what Love is! If you too have been guilty of finding “false love” and calling it the “real thing”, you may want to check out this episode. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Happy International Women’s Day To All of the Queens out There!!! I hope you had the Most Amazing Day! I wanted to pay a Special Tribute to the Queen in My Life, My Mother. Mrs. Betty Davis. If Anyone Knows Me, she Most Definitely Does! Take a moment to listen in on Who My Mother says I am! I Hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Sometimes, you can be in the Wrong Atmosphere for too long! Sometimes, change is very Necessary! When was the Last Time You Imagined Yourself doing something Absolutely Amazing? No Boundaries, no limits, you let your imagination run wild and created one of the Best Experiences Ever! Have you Stopped Reaching Beyond the Stars? If so, Why? If you are someone who has Forgotten what it’s like to Dream. Maybe this Episode will guide you in the right direction. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!

Dating isn’t what it used to be! At least this is what my elders tell me! Nowadays, there are just way too many options, when you consider Social Media. So How do you vet your future spouse in 2021 and beyond? With so many ways to create a Representative, how will you Know if you are Meeting, Getting to Know and/or falling in love with the Real Person? Well, I will always suggest Prayer, however, you may need a little more than that to ensure you aren’t being Catfished! If you want a little insight, checkout my latest episode. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Enjoy!