In this compelling episode of Unspoken, we present “Dear John,” a raw and unapologetic spoken word poem that delves into the harrowing experiences of emotional manipulation and online stalking. This powerful piece addresses a man who transformed a fleeting encounter into years of digital harassment, employing false vulnerability and emotional blackmail as instruments of control.

Key Themes:

• ​ Emotional Manipulation and Gaslighting: The poem exposes tactics such as gaslighting, where the manipulator distorts reality to make the victim question their perceptions. This form of psychological abuse can erode self-esteem and autonomy.
• ​ Cyberstalking and Digital Harassment: “Dear John” sheds light on the pervasive issue of cyberstalking, where individuals use digital platforms to monitor, harass, or intimidate others. This behavior can lead to severe emotional distress and a sense of violation.
• ​ Reclaiming Power and Autonomy: The poem emphasizes the journey of recognizing manipulation, breaking free from the abuser’s control, and reclaiming one’s voice and agency.

Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of emotional abuse, manipulation, and online stalking, which may be triggering for some listeners. Please listen with care.

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Music: “My Piano, the Clouds” by Fabrizio Paterlini