Dear Young Married Couple

🙏🏼 Ever feel like you’re carrying the weight of your child’s entire spiritual path while constantly refereeing daily household chaos? Listen in as Dr. Charles Fay joins Karissa and Adam to completely revamp the way we think about modern parenting.

We'll unpack why forced behavioral compliance falls short of true heart transformation, and how allowing kids to navigate affordable mistakes today builds self-reliant, spiritually grounded adults who take true ownership of their faith tomorrow.

Resources:

LoveandLogic.com

https://www.loveandlogic.com/pages/charles-fay?srsltid=AU7gw4U4buhxXfKT2YEQKu2qgoi2ts2UEUPOKrImuD5HtRF2dwHX-lGk

Book: Raising Spiritually Strong Kids

https://www.loveandlogic.com/products/raising-spiritually-strong-kids-book?srsltid=AU7gw4U2My06iARtf24fN2Nh3TLiROA5rhtbc6iDwtwwTTYRRhOU2Sgw

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❤️‍🩹🤷‍♂️ Are you and your spouse struggling to find a physical rhythm after a season of broken trust and rebuilt boundaries? Let's start by tossing out those restrictive labels of "high" and "low" libido and replace it with a different concept.

Resources:

Sexpectations Card Deck:

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If you have a scenario you want us to tackle on air, drop us a voice message via SpeakPipe or send an email to [email protected]!

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😵‍💫 What happens when the blessing you prayed for brings unexpected sadness, stress, or loneliness? We had Melissa Miller on the podcast to explore the emotional complexity of marriage, adoption, relocation, new parenthood, and other life transitions that can be wonderful and overwhelming at the same time.

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🎙️💬 Get ready for an unfiltered, listener-driven Q&A where we tackle your most vulnerable relationship hurdles! We dive deep into navigating culture clashes at home, de-escalating arguments with a highly sensitive spouse, and handling the heavy reality of lacking physical attraction to your spouse.

Resources:

Intercultural Marriage w/ Tiffany & Jonathan Bonilla

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-young-married-couple/id1494555036?i=1000483159611

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After Sex Guide FREE PDF:

https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/Aftersex

prEquipped: The DYMC Premarital Course

https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/prequipped

SPEAK Pipe: Record an anonymous question

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This is an old episode that you guys loved, so we're bringing it back!

Adam and Karissa recorded this when they had just finished EntreLeadership Summit where they heard Patrick Lencioni speak. His book "5 Dysfunctions of a Team" is so powerful and SO APPLICABLE to marriage, so we figured we'd share our reflections on these dynamics with you!

You can grab his book here: https://amzn.to/3zAKBhY

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🔥💍 Which pieces of “good marriage advice” are actually helpful, and which ones might quietly make your marriage worse?

We are back to rate the advice YOU submitted, from “the first year is the hardest” to “forgive and forget,” “marriage is 50/50,” and even the controversial question of whether a husband should be allowed to golf whenever he wants. 😅 Along the way, we'll unpack the nuance behind each one and share a better way to think about communication, sex, forgiveness, prioritizing your marriage, and loving your spouse wholeheartedly. Some advice gets an A, some gets an F, and a few sound wise until you look a little closer.

Resources:

Marriage vs. Kids: Who Gets Priority?

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-young-married-couple/id1494555036?i=1000766204889

prEquipped: The DYMC Premarital Course

https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/prequipped

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😬 Not all marriage advice deserves an A. In this episode, Adam and Karissa put seven common pieces of marriage advice to the test - from “marriage is all about compromise” to “happy wife, happy life” - and give each one a grade. Some sound wise but need a little more nuance, some are surprisingly solid, and a few might actually be setting couples up for disaster.

Come find out which advice gets an A… and which ones newlyweds should stop being told. 👀

Resources:

prEquipped: The DYMC Premarital Course

https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/prequipped

REALIZATIONS Conversation Card Deck

https://a.co/d/0deFmRMl

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Most of us have confidence all WRONG (especially in today's self-righteous and entitled culture.) Why do you think even highly successful people starve for validation? How secure are you in the possibility of failure? Let's explore the difference between chasing approval, trying to manufacture your own worth, and receiving an identity that doesn't have to be earned.

Resources:

Monthly Live Date Night at DYMC:

https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/monthlylivedatenight

prEquipped: The DYMC Premarital Course

https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/prequipped

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We've all done it... We've labeled ourselves and our spouse as the "high/low drive" one. We assume one party can get it on at any given time and the other just generally isn't in the mood. The truth is, it's much more complex than that. In this episode, we're gonna share a simple tool that will take you minutes to complete, but give you so much insight into each others' desire for sex.

Resources:

The Integrity Project led by Adam King

https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/porn-recovery-focus-group

Dear Young Married Couple: The Book!

https://a.co/d/0dUFnTrR

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This is an episode we aired in 2022 and it really resonated with you all. It's a message that doesn't have an expiration date: How to Repair After an Argument

It's not always easy to know the steps to take to repair after a nuclear argument. Join Adam + Karissa as they share how you can repair + the steps to do so!

Join us for the next DYMC Monthly Live Date Night where we dig into some of these topics with you LIVE for 90 minutes this month! 

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