In this deeply personal and reflective episode of Dear Melanin KD, I sit down with my younger self, the little girl who once felt lost, the teenager who struggled with identity, and the young woman who faced heartbreak, rejection, and self-doubt. Through a heartfelt letter, I offer her the words of wisdom, love, and reassurance she needed but never received.

From the innocence of childhood to the complexities of adolescence, I unpack the impact of colorism, texturism, and the pressures of navigating the world as a Black girl with West African roots. I speak to the struggles of self-worth, the lessons learned through pain, and the strength found in vulnerability.

This episode is for anyone who has ever questioned their journey, felt unseen, or wished they could go back and remind themselves of their worth. Your experiences, your struggles, and your growth all matter. You are enough. You always have been.

Let’s talk about it.