Debonair Girl Jair

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How to be great...

No, really?

We listen to inspirational speakers. We make the plan. We put forth the effort. We tell ourselves we know what to do but HOW do you do it? 

How do you endure the journey AND find the will to keep going even when you fail; even when you feel like you take a step forward just to take two steps back. It's a journey and although the destination is in our sight, we've got to get through the journey first.

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I believe human beings are naturally selfish due to our need to self preserve (obviously there are exceptions & bless your hearts you selfless creatures) BUTTTT for the most part people look out for themselves. However, when you become a parent...well that just throws a wrench in those plans 😆

Tune in to hear me discuss my (for lack of better words) "epiphany" and the realization that the need to give our parents their roses now is an understatement.

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Unconditional vs Conditional Love...let's talk about it.

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I don't know who needs to hear this, but the title says it all: It's OK To Make Mistakes. 

Nobody's perfect and sometimes we need to be reminded of that. If you're an over thinker like me and feel like it's the end of the world when you make a mistake or don't get something right then this episode is for you. The goal isn't to NOT make mistakes, it's to not make the SAME mistakes over and over again.

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We've all heard the saying "Treat others the way you want to be treated." But what do you do when that effort isn't reciprocated? Sometimes we let this unknown feeling of obligation lead us to believe to still do right by others even if they don't do right by us. You may even feel guilty when you try to mirror their actions because it's out of character for you. So then what should you do? You don't want to change who you are because of them, but you don't want to continue to get taken advantage of either. Well...it gets discussed right here.

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Have you ever been asked, "So what do you do?" and responded with, "uh well you know I'm a..." PAUSE. Yeah I've been there too. 

As a woman of many interests and endeavors, I find it hard to categorize "what I do" as just one thing. Some of us even struggle with finding a title for what is we do. Well...this episode is for you. In this one-on-one episode with the founder of "Creative Aspects". Barra's company where she works as a Creative Consultant Strategist. Barra discusses her journey and obstacles she had to overcome in search for her what she was passionate about,. She gives additonal words of wisdom to us on how to discover what your gift is.

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Website: creative-aspects.com

IG: @_creativeaspects_

You've got to do something different to get different results. Have you become stuck in a repetitive cycle and are ready to try a different approach? Tune in to hear how getting outside of your comfort zone can help you yield your desired outcome.

Success requires sacrifice, which I believe goes hand in hand with discipline. It's really hard to remain disciplined when temptation is everywhere. Tune in to hear why I feel discipline is underrated and why it's so important, if not crucial to your success!