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Are you measuring your financial progress against someone else's highlight reel? If you are, what steps can you take to protect your financial peace of mind?
Ben Matthews returns with a no-nonsense reality check on the toxic game of financial comparison. In this punchy episode, he breaks down why the comparison trap is rigged—and how to escape it. Check out this episode if you want to build invisible wealth that leads to peace, not just praise.
Topics Ben explores in this episode:
(2:06) Why Comparison Is Always a Scam
* Comparison erodes self-esteem and derails momentum.
* Social media shows beach pics, not the credit card bill.
(2:49) Escape the Comparison Game
* Curate your inputs by muting toxic social media accounts.
* Track your own progress and wins—not others’.
(4:29) The Invisible Wealth Challenge
* Ben introduces a 7-day challenge to ditch comparison and build quiet wealth.
* Each day has a task: from muting influencers to celebrating small wins.
* The goal is to build stability and confidence from the inside out.
(7:40) Even in Chaos, You Have Control
* It’s overwhelming trying to make financial progress during global chaos.
* Try tiny steps like unsubscribing from a marketing email or saving $10.
Learn more: https://debtsucks.info
Talk with Ben Matthews: 803-799-1700
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The Debt Sucks Podcast is your fun, no-BS approach to debt relief. Say goodbye to stress, shame, and debt. Hosted by consumer bankruptcy attorney Ben Matthews, this is your weekly dose of real, relatable advice on crushing debt. If you’re dealing with mounting bills or sick of living paycheck to paycheck, we’re here to help you take control of your finances and find your way out.
This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co/
Why do our financial budgets sometimes fail the moment life presents unexpected challenges? Also, what emotional triggers might be causing our financial habits to go awry?
In this episode, Ben Matthews is joined by his daughter and trauma-informed therapist Dorothy Selmon for an honest, funny, and insightful conversation about the emotional side of money. Together, they unpack how stress, shame, and survival mode can wreck even the best financial plans. They also share ways you can recognize emotional spending and build tools for lasting change.
Topics Ben and Dorothy explores in this episode:
(1:47) Why Math Doesn’t Explain Your Money Problems
* Money issues stem from emotions, not equations.
* Spending often masks stress, shame, or survival instincts.
* The real challenge is emotional pressure, not poor math skills.
(3:53) Common Emotional Money Triggers
* Guilt, comparison, fear, and reward drive overspending.
* Emotional spending offers relief but deepens debt.
* Awareness is the first step to change.
(6:48) Flip the Script: Handle the Feelings First
* Pause and name the feeling before spending.
* Swap spending for emotional alternatives.
* Use tools that make your plan feel freeing, not punishing.
Thanks to my daughter for coming on the show! Connect with Dorothy Selmon: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dorothy-selmon-368888133/
Learn more: https://debtsucks.info
Talk with Ben Matthews: 803-799-1700
Subscribe to the Debt Sucks Podcast!
Apple: https://apple.co/3Fz2vXE
Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4kvltyl
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebtSucksPod
Facebook: https://facebook.com/debtsuxspod
Instagram: https://instagram.com/debtsuckspod
TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@debtsuckspod
X: https://x.com/debtsuckspod
The Debt Sucks Podcast is your fun, no-BS approach to debt relief. Say goodbye to stress, shame, and debt. Hosted by consumer bankruptcy attorney Ben Matthews, this is your weekly dose of real, relatable advice on crushing debt. If you’re dealing with mounting bills or sick of living paycheck to paycheck, we’re here to help you take control of your finances and find your way out.
This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co/
If you’ve ever felt like money just doesn’t “click” for you, that’s not a failure. When you were younger, did anyone ever sit you down and say, “Hey, here’s how to manage money”?
This episode unpacks why so many people feel like they’re failing with money—and why it’s not their fault. Ben Matthews breaks down how society’s lack of real-world money education fuels shame and poor decisions, and offers a clear, shame-free path forward.
Topics Ben explores in this episode:
(2:00) The Money Education No One Got
* Schools taught us mitochondria—not money management.
* Parents often passed down vague financial advice, not real tools.
(3:56) Rewriting the Script
* Common beliefs like “I’m just bad with money” can be unlearned.
* You didn’t fail—no one gave you the manual, but now you have one.
(4:53) What You Should’ve Been Taught (Instead of the Pythagorean Theorem)
* Real-world lessons like budgeting, credit, and financial communication are missing from school.
* Ben outlines the “Debt Sucks Plan” with five steps to rebuild.
(10:05) Ditch the Shame, Grab the Tools
* Shame doesn’t help you grow—it keeps you stuck.
Get your free “Debt Sucks” tools from https://debtsucks.info
Talk with Ben Matthews: 803-799-1700
Subscribe to the Debt Sucks Podcast!
Apple: https://apple.co/3Fz2vXE
Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4kvltyl
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebtSucksPod
Facebook: https://facebook.com/debtsuxspod
Instagram: https://instagram.com/debtsuckspod
TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@debtsuckspod
X: https://x.com/debtsuckspod
The Debt Sucks Podcast is your fun, no-BS approach to debt relief. Say goodbye to stress, shame, and debt. Hosted by consumer bankruptcy attorney Ben Matthews, this is your weekly dose of real, relatable advice on crushing debt. If you’re dealing with mounting bills or sick of living paycheck to paycheck, we’re here to help you take control of your finances and find your way out.
This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co/
What financial wisdom from your grandparents still holds up today? Are you ignoring old-school wisdom that could save your financial future?
In this episode, Ben Matthews channels his grandmother's no-nonsense financial wisdom, sharing timeless advice that still holds true today. He breaks down eight old sayings, emphasizing the importance of diversification, saving, and living within one's means to build financial freedom.
Join Ben as he explores the following eight old sayings about money, finances, and debt that still hold up today.
(1:13) "Don’t put all your eggs in one basket."
(2:06) "A penny saved is a penny earned."
(3:06) "Live below your means."
(4:02) "Neither a borrower nor a lender be."
(5:28) "Money doesn’t grow on trees."
(6:29) "It’s not what you make, it’s what you keep."
(7:47) "Time is money."
(9:32) "You can have your cake and eat it too."
Learn more: https://debtsucks.info
Talk with Ben Matthews: 803-799-1700
Subscribe to the Debt Sucks Podcast!
Apple: https://apple.co/3Fz2vXE
Spotify: https://spoti.fi/4kvltyl
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DebtSucksPod
Facebook: https://facebook.com/debtsuxspod
Instagram: https://instagram.com/debtsuckspod
TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@debtsuckspod
X: https://x.com/debtsuckspod
The Debt Sucks Podcast is your fun, no-BS approach to debt relief. Say goodbye to stress, shame, and debt. Hosted by consumer bankruptcy attorney Ben Matthews, this is your weekly dose of real, relatable advice on crushing debt. If you’re dealing with mounting bills or sick of living paycheck to paycheck, we’re here to help you take control of your finances and find your way out.
This episode was produced by Story On Media: https://www.storyon.co/
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