Did you ever get this marriage advice? "Never go to bed angry." 

I received it so many times before I got married. I believed that we had to resolve all our issues before going to bed or else our relationship would be damaged. 

What happened was that I would force the issue that wasn't going to be resolved in one conversation to the point it morphed into a bigger issue. We went to bed more exhausted and more frustrated than before.  And, we didn't make it to bed without anger.

I believe that going to bed angry is not the worst thing for a relationship. In fact, in this episode, I'll be telling you two reasons why I think it might be best for the relationship, and how to help yourself when you do have anger upon retiring.