Decently Indecent

This episode is meant as a recap of how this season of Decently Indecent has gone, some thoughts on the election and plans going forward. Thanks for tuning in!

00:00 Intro

03:28 Thoughts on the current state of the podcast

05:59 Potential plans for the future

12:47 A little introspection of my reasoning for making content

15:25 Life at 39

21:18 Some thoughts on the election

29:24 Wrap-up

In this episode I invite my wife for a talk on dating, what makes relationships work and traits of high value individuals that make or break relationships in the modern scene. Thanks for tuning in!

00:00 Intro

09:15 Valuable traits in the dating market

14:33 On confidence

23:28 Do assholes get all the girls?

29:02 Couple hobbies

30:35 Celebrities' infidelity

34:43 On hygiene

43:21 Debating high value traits - The list

44:25 He loves putting forth effort for a woman

46:54 He makes plans and follows through

47:09 He calls and doesn't rely solely on text

49:36 He is a great conversationalist

51:06 He dresses and grooms himself impeccably

52:51 He smiles a lot and is a positive person

53:15 He doesn't chase, he attracts

53:41 He understands a woman of value can choose

54:02 He doesn't let rejection get to him

54:29 His car and his home are tidy

55:25 He's clear on his intentions

55:39 He communicates clearly and effectively

56:18 He's well mannered

58:27 He knows how to seduce a woman

59:11 He knows how to be interested

59:54 He locks down the next date before the current one ends

01:00:33 He's in touch throughout the day

01:00:48 When having cocktails, he gets her water

01:02:08 He shows the right amount of PDA

01:02:53 He seeks to understand and doesn't bail at the first show of emotion

01:04:34 Becoming interested in your partner's interests

Anyone who's been around long enough has heard of The Secret and these "New Age" methods of achieving success and prosperity. 

In this episode I'm discussing the value of these practices, how it overlaps with religion and talking about some personal examples of how these practices might have applied to me (but in a non-cringe way). 

Thanks for tuning in. 

00:00 Intro

02:13 The idea of manifestation 

05:46 Visualisation 

08:05 Bogus testimonies 

09:47 Examples from my life 

16:49 Financial prosperity 

19:26 Abundance vs scarcity mindset

24:13 The crossover between law of attraction and prayer

26:24 The value of manifestation

28:52 How to implement it

30:05 Another story from my life

34:54 Wrap-up and conclusion

This episode is more of an unscripted look at depression through a critical lense stemming from the idea of just "being yourself". I also discuss how to potentially alleviate some of the symptoms, my experience with it and the importance of supportive figures in one's life. Thanks for tuning in!

00:00 What prompted this?

01:48 Being who you are 

03:33 Back to the video in question 

05:01 My experience with depression 

11:17 Are we treating depression the right way?

13:19 Does anyone care about your feelings?

16:41 People who talk about their feelings too much

23:31 The male connection

25:48 Be yourself?

Getting fit and lean is one of the best things I've done in my life and for my family. It's hard and uncomfortable but the rewards you reap from actually going through with it are exponentially higher than any effort that's gone into it. 

In this episode I go over the trials and hurdles I've faced in my fitness journey along with some words of encouragement for anyone remotely considering it.  

00:00 The importance of being fit and finding balance

04:44 One of my main realizations

15:17 The latest Lush fitness journey

19:40 What an average day looks like

22:33 Not getting caught up in the comfort food trap

27:57 Back to the daily routine

31:22 My biggest weakness

37:52 "Nothing you can do about obesity"

41:39 Parting words

This episode touches on the recent banning of X in Brazil and the further reaching implications of curtailing so-called misinformation and at what point it starts infringing on free speech as a right. 

00:00 On matters of free speech and social media

10:11 Brazil bans X

11:42 Kamala plans on combatting “misinformation”

13:21 Defining misinformation

15:42 Zuckerberg’s letter

21:46 Don’t become “that guy”

24:24 The speed of information

26:58 What happened after Brazil banned X

31:00 Is it ever okay to deplatform?

34:04 Musings on free speech

I believe there's a severe lack of modern role models on social media. The dropship bros flashing cars, cash, and women are certainly not it. They might lead certain people to believe this is what a high-value individual looks like, but my opinion is it pertains more to the character, values and principles that high-value individuals adhere to and apply in their daily lives. 

In this episode I dive into the core principles that define high-value individuals, at least in my view. I try to actively think about and apply these concepts as often as I can and I hope bringing to light the importance of some of them might motivate you to do the same. Thanks for tuning in!

00:00 Intro and the crisis of modern role models

05:16 Why these things matter 

09:40 Personal Accountability

14:26 Generosity and selflessness

18:38 Perseverance

20:43 Being a man of your word

25:19 Confidence

31:45 Emotional availability and control

37:36 The commitment to growth

In this topical edition of Decently Indecent I review some of my history with Andrew Tate, discuss the newest accusations and offer some thoughts on whether this is truly the role model we need. 

00:00 My history with Andrew Tate

09:47 Tate’s message and what resonates with me

13:58 Aba and Preach’s video on Tate

29:02 The Tates’ response after the newest accusations

34:45 My thoughts on the whole situation

In this episode I go over how spiritual matters have influenced finding my purpose, what I've chosen to prioritize as I've developed along the years and I'll also be discussing some Twitter life tips that you might've seen on your timeline. Thanks for tuning in!

00:00 An overview of purpose and how it connects to religion

06:16 My history with religion and purpose

12:24 On the nature of masculinity and wisening up

18:16 How economic success ties into purpose

21:51 What happens after you have money?

23:10 How my purpose has transformed over the years

27:24 Doing a reality check

29:36 Human optimization

34:11 Acts of service in modern times

42:11 Discussing life advice from Twitter 

In this episode of Decently Indecent I go over some thoughts about my journey as a content creator up to this point and how I feel about making YouTube videos as a man approaching 40. There are also some musings on the Olympics controversies and some of the struggles I've encountered navigating highly polarizing and politicized content and how it will affect my own videos going forward. Thanks for tuning in!