Decision Diaries

Jami provides her experience and more importantly the red flags to look out for when you begin to date after a divorce. Lynn reminds Jami about the fun side of dating which included calling her long distance to share the details of her new relationships aka "sampling new ice cream flavors". A serious yet insightful discussion that should encourage everyone recently divorced to feel hopeful that they will find a new life partner once they are ready!

Lynn shares the embarrassing diary entries when she decided to send an Ex a Love Letter in 1995 to express her love with the hope to inspire him to get back together. Jami finds all of her Love Letters and shares what she decided to do with them. Find out what happens after the Love Letters are received! A feel good episode that everyone can relate to whether they have sent or received Love Letters. Lots of laughs!

On this episode, Lynn's first born son Sean discusses his decision to go down the untraditional route to drop out of college and pursue a Jiu Jitsu career in Austin, TX. Sean talks about his passion for Jiu Jitsu, joining B Team and the overall profession. Sean also talks about the impact of being a 2020 High School graduate and the disappointment with online college classes. A great episode for parents to learn how to let go and support their children when they find their "Why" in life!

Proving again that no decision topic is off limits. Lynn and Jami discuss a decision that each person only gets one chance to make: losing their virginity. Lynn shares her mother's advice that helped her to wait for the right time. Jami shares her steamy, camp experience and asks the one question that Lynn will not answer. We hope this episode leaves you with a smile on your face!

Lynn, Jami and Bruce (Lynn's husband) discuss the most important decision in a marriage - knowing when to ask for help. Help comes in several forms: a movie tradition, Jami as a moderator, and a counseling competition. A funny yet serious discussion that leaves listeners with practical tips to apply to any relationship married or not. Enjoy and share!

Lynn and Jami along with their guest Roger discuss selling and closing a business. Hear the funny story of how Lynn and Roger know each other. Details that clearly Roger forgot but Lynn doesn't hesitate to remind him. Roger talks about the beginning of his restaurant business, impact of 2020 and finding the best buyer to "adopt" his business. Lynn shares her diary of trying to sell her store in 1996 and the final days of her store closing.

In this episode, Jami and Lynn with a special guest Lynn's husband discuss their decisions to move in together prior to being married. A lost shoe, financial motivation, and roommates stenciling an apartment in the middle of the night - all lead to moving in together. Hear the funny story of telling a 6 foot 7 future father-in-law that you plan to move in with their daughter and more.

In this episode, Jami decides to create a 50 First Dates Challenge to try to find love again after her divorce in her 40s. She launches a Facebook group to find other people to participate with her and post their updates as they complete the challenge. This Facebook group still exists today. Join us to hear how the challenge went and what she learned along the way.

Single and out of college - Jami and Lynn have a decision to make in their mid 20s: Love or Lust? After a trip to New Orleans, Lynn convinces Jami that lust is the way to go. After all, one day they will be 40 (which they considered old at the time). Their second decision: who will they choose to be their lover? Now in their young 50s, they are ready to kiss and tell. No regrets! No Do-overs!