Decoding Spiritual Mysteries

Defining Abuse

    Abuse is defined as any action that intentionally harms or injures another person. In short, someone who purposefully harms another, in any way is committing abuse. There are many kinds of abuse encountered by adults, including:

• physical abuse
• psychological abuse
• rape
• sexual assault
• verbal abuse
• elder abuse
• financial abuse
• spiritual abuse
• emotional abuse

Abuse usually starts with earlier caregivers and the enemy uses parents and those who were put in your life to guide, coach and protect you to facilitate the job. 

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“Your Vibe Attracts Your Vibe” or is it that your spiritual tribe represents your vibe? Either way, knowing your spiritual tribe is important for many reasons. For one, everyone belongs to a tribe. Knowing your spiritual tribe will make life a lot easier. Listen to the episode to determine your spiritual tribe.

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Many non professionals are talking about Narcissism today. It has become a popular topic, due to the high ratio of people suffering from this condition. We are now living in societies that promotes self-centeredness, so reinforcement is inevitable.  Due to many citizens in society addressing narcissism and leaving out the actual mental disorder and where it stems from, I decided to explain the condition from the diagnostic criteria, research and clinical experience.

Description: Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration and lack of empathy that begins to show signs by early adulthood. Narcissists have a grandiose sense of self importance. It is displayed in, overestimating their abilities, inflating their accomplishments, often appearing boastful and pretentious. They rarely contribute to others.

Pre-Occupied Success: They often pre-occupied with unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty or ideal love. Yes, narcissists can be love addicts, often falling in love at first sight and discarding lovers once the honeymoon faze is over. They may ruminate about long overdue admiration and privilege and often compare themselves to famous or privileged people. They are often haughty. Narcissism is a self-esteem disorder, requiring overcompensation and masking of low self, through conceit and arrogance.
They are often snobbish, disdainful, inauthentic and patronizing. They are very condescending towards others.

Personality: Individuals with narcissism believe they are special, superior or unique and expect others to recognize them as such. They may feel they are too special and should only be associated with people who are high status, unique, perfect or gifted. Narcissists often think their needs are more important than others. Their self-esteem is enhanced or mirrored by the idealized value they assign to those whom they associate. They insist on having the top (Doctor, Lawyer, Friend, Hairdresser, Instructor, etc) or being affiliated with the best situations. They also like to be associated with people whom they view as being more successful and or are admirable, beautiful and popular because in their eyes, they must be too. They often split, by valuing people whose success they admire and devaluing those who disappoint them.
Narcissists have very fragile self-esteem, so they are often pre-occupied with how favorable they are regarded by others. They may even expect their arrival to elicit fanfare or a standing ovation. They often fish for compliments. They are also very entitled people. They desire favoritism and often expect the most from people, while draining others and rarely deserving what they expect from others. They usually treat waiters/ waitresses , housekeepers and city workers poorly, viewing them as “The Help”. They expect to be catered to and doted on. They also may assume they should not have to wait in lines and that their priorities are Important enough to inconvenience others.

Empathy: Narcissists lack empathy and their lack of empathy often results in exploitation and insensitivity of others. They expect their needs to be met, at the expense of others and no matter how costly it is to others. They are not cognizant of how overwhelming, draining nor how much they overwork people. They have difficulties understanding the desires and subjective experiences and feelings of others. They often assume that others are totally concerned about their welfare. They tend to monopolize conversations and discuss their affairs in lengthy details, while failing to recognize others have feelings and needs. In fact, they find others needs, feelings and thoughts to be quite boring. They are often impatient with others feelings. When forced to recognize the needs or feelings of others, they are viewed as weak or vulnerable. People who relate to narcissists usually feel a coldness, reciprocation and lack

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Many non professionals are talking about Narcissism today. It has become a popular topic, due to the high ratio of people suffering from this condition. We are now living in societies that promotes self-centeredness, so reinforcement is inevitable.  Due to many citizens in society addressing narcissism and leaving out the actual mental disorder and where it stems from, I decided to explain the condition from the diagnostic criteria, research and clinical experience.

Description: Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration and lack of empathy that begins to show signs by early adulthood. Narcissists have a grandiose sense of self importance. It is displayed in, overestimating their abilities, inflating their accomplishments, often appearing boastful and pretentious. They rarely contribute to others.

Pre-Occupied Success: They often pre-occupied with unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty or ideal love. Yes, narcissists can be love addicts, often falling in love at first sight and discarding lovers once the honeymoon faze is over. They may ruminate about long overdue admiration and privilege and often compare themselves to famous or privileged people. They are often haughty. Narcissism is a self-esteem disorder, requiring overcompensation and masking of low self, through conceit and arrogance.
They are often snobbish, disdainful, inauthentic and patronizing. They are very condescending towards others.

Personality: Individuals with narcissism believe they are special, superior or unique and expect others to recognize them as such. They may feel they are too special and should only be associated with people who are high status, unique, perfect or gifted. Narcissists often think their needs are more important than others. Their self-esteem is enhanced or mirrored by the idealized value they assign to those whom they associate. They insist on having the top (Doctor, Lawyer, Friend, Hairdresser, Instructor, etc) or being affiliated with the best situations. They also like to be associated with people whom they view as being more successful and or are admirable, beautiful and popular because in their eyes, they must be too. They often split, by valuing people whose success they admire and devaluing those who disappoint them.
Narcissists have very fragile self-esteem, so they are often pre-occupied with how favorable they are regarded by others. They may even expect their arrival to elicit fanfare or a standing ovation. They often fish for compliments. They are also very entitled people. They desire favoritism and often expect the most from people, while draining others and rarely deserving what they expect from others. They usually treat waiters/ waitresses , housekeepers and city workers poorly, viewing them as “The Help”. They expect to be catered to and doted on. They also may assume they should not have to wait in lines and that their priorities are Important enough to inconvenience others.

Empathy: Narcissists lack empathy and their lack of empathy often results in exploitation and insensitivity of others. They expect their needs to be met, at the expense of others and no matter how costly it is to others. They are not cognizant of how overwhelming, draining nor how much they overwork people. They have difficulties understanding the desires and subjective experiences and feelings of others. They often assume that others are totally concerned about their welfare. They tend to monopolize conversations and discuss their affairs in lengthy details, while failing to recognize others have feelings and needs. In fact, they find others needs, feelings and thoughts to be quite boring. They are often impatient with others feelings. When forced to recognize the needs or feelings of others, they are viewed as weak or vulnerable. People who relate to narcissists usually feel a coldness, reciprocation and lack of i

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Giving value to yourself can be a complex concept for some, being that we live in a world 🌎 full of validation cues, from social media, friends and family. However, God is love and you are made in the image of God, which means, you are also Love ❤️ 
Connecting with your value is about knowing who you are and understanding God’s image of you. When you first seek the kingdom of God, all things will be added to you. 

Dr. Chiaku Hanson 
@drchihanson 
www.drpsychologyhealing.com 
Email: [email protected]

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When you are Born, you have your own Spiritual DNA 🧬 coding. It can be much different from your parents, although you share their biological DNA. However, whatever your parents carry on their spirit can affect you, spiritually and most likely. Why is that? Most traumas happen when we are children, because Satan knows the pre-frontal cortex (your brain 🧠 ) is still developing, which means the receiving of information can be distorted. Children don’t have access to meta cognitions or abstract reasoning, which is the ability to think about what you’re thinking about. The treatment you experience, positive or negative is either received or rejected. If messages are received, they are internalized and form into beliefs, Thus creating a seed, reaping and a harvest. Also know as, spiritual agreements, spiritual contracts and spiritual soul-ties. Let’s delve deeper into this subject matter with this new episode.

Dr. Chiaku Hanson
IG: @drchihanson
Website: www.drpsychologyhealing.com
Email: [email protected]

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As a man thinketh, so is he. God will make room for your gifts but so will your unconscious beliefs. If God makes room for your gifts, it is only right to say that, the devil makes room for your negative beliefs. Your positive gifts are just as powerful as your negative receipts. Whether you believe you can or can’t, you are correct. Let’s delve deeper into this topic on this episode. 

Dr. Chiaku Hanson
IG: @drchihanson
Website: www.drpsychologyhealing.com
Email: [email protected]

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We are back with new episode of the new year! This episode entails our relationship with astrology, crystals, sage, dream catchers, holy wood, psychic readings, tarot cards, chakra healing, etc  and what that all means. Can you be Christian and new age? Can you worship both? Tune in and let’s discuss this matter.

Dr. Chiaku Hanson
IG: @drchihanson
Website: www.drpsychologyhealing.com
Email: [email protected]

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Evil Markings are like spiritual birth marks in the spirit realm. They are supported by your faulty beliefs. Faulty beliefs, irRegardless of how much they contradict your desires, must occur in your life, because they rest in your unconscious and are given permission to co-exist. In this latest episode, I go deeper into this subject matter.

Dr. Chiaku Hanson
IG: @drchihanson
Website: www.drpsychologyhealing.com
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Hey! I am back with a new episode. Have you ever heard the saying, “Birds of a feather flock together”?

Well, I am here to shed some truth on this saying, as well as, contradictions about the saying.  It is not as simple as it may seem and it is not as daunting as you may think. Let us dig into this a bit. 

Dr. Chiaku Hanson
IG: @drchihanson
Website: www.drpsychologyhealing.com
Email: [email protected]

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