Why did we get divorced? 
Short answer: jebus

Long version:   
Set and Setting.  Set signifies the person, who you are, your personality, your mindset.  Setting is the signifier for your environment.  Within my set and setting, this is how divorce, unfolded for me.  

My beliefs were upended, which led me to question everything about my life. Most importantly, I didn’t like the person I've become. I didn’t like who I was in my relationship. There were specific things, reasons, no one needs to know about but me,  that were deep enough to make me leave. 

Is marriage overrated?  Maybe. It would be naive for me to say, I came through the experience of divorce, relatively unmarred  because I am a good person.  Very far from it. 

I’m grateful to have gone through the experience of marriage.
I’ve also come to realize, marriage is not a costume I wish to wear. 

Music: 
(Intro) Dreamville by Reaktor Productions licensed via Premium Beat
 (Outro) Jukgal by James Chang