Deep Meaningful Conversations

Deep Meaningful Conversations

By Alex Fleksher and Rivki SilverReligion & SpiritualityJudaism
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Deep Meaningful Conversations episodes

  • The Moderately Anxious Everybody with Ilana Cowland

    Anxiety is something we all have to deal with as human beings, even if we don’t have a clinical diagnosis. And if we do struggle with clinical anxiety, let’s try to take away the stigma surrounding mental illness, so YES we are all in for a DMC about anxiety. Especially one designed for frum women who are already dealing with so many additional demands due to the frum lifestyle.

    Our guest is Mrs. Ilana Cowland who has just come out with a book that sold us with its title, The Moderately Anxious Everybody. As Ilana writes, “the great social like we all tell to cover up the truth we all know – everybody’s anxious.”  Ilana is a UK born educator, coach and relationship expert. She and her husband Jamie have been inspiring international audiences for over 25 years. In her debut book, she provides a deeper understanding of why our society is so anxious and what you can do, today, to deal with the anxiety in your life.

    In this DMC, we discuss:

    • Why Ilana decided to write a book about anxiety
    • Anxiety and women, particularly frum women
    • What anxiety looks and sounds like
    • Techniques to reduce anxiety
    • Tips to bring calm and serenity into our daily lives
    • We’d love to hear from you. You can find Deep Meaningful Conversations on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, or you can email us at [email protected].

      Show notes:

      The Moderately Anxious Everybody

      https://www.amazon.com/Moderately-Anxious-Everybody-Ilana-Cowland/dp/B0BDP111VF/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3NMBPZQCMND1B&keywords=the+moderately+anxious+everybody&qid=1678470179&sprefix=the+moderately+an%2Caps%2C128&sr=8-1

      Ilana’s TorahAnytime shiurim:

      https://www.torahanytime.com/#/speaker?l=326

      Ilana’s Chizuk MIssion recordings:

      https://www.chizukmission.org/cowland

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      1 hr 4 min
    • Kosher Comedy with Zeya

      Zeya is a queen when it comes to kosher comedy. Between her shows, youtube videos and her social media posts, Zeya makes us laugh about our foibles and everyday realities as frum women. However in this interview, we get deeper than expected about the power of comedy and the meaning Zeya finds in the work she does. This DMC is just in time for Purim, and we straight talk about the joys and challenges of the holiday for women.

      In this episode we DMC about:

      • What Zeya was like as a kid and teen and how she got into comedy
      • Zeya’s unexpected career trajectory
      • The types of issues she addresses through her comedy
      • Her biggest flop and biggest success
      • Purim chizuk by Zeya!
      • We’d love to hear from you. You can find Deep Meaningful Conversations on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, or you can email us at [email protected].

        Show notes:

        Zeya’s Youtube channel:

        https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfRnEc5eE9goiB4coErVNdA

        DMC YEARLY SPONSOR:

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        1 hr 15 min
      • The Art of Everyday Living with Raizy Fried

        This episode of DMC is about the art of everyday living, and we couldn’t have this conversation without our guest, Raizy Fried, who is the queen of this art. Raizy’s been called the Jewish Martha Stewart, her platform Inspired Living is devoted to helping women run their homes more efficiently, entertain with practicality and style, and learn all the clever homemaking and organizing techniques they can get their hands on.

        Raizy is a Chasidish homemaker who takes pride in her homemaking, and she’s a creative entrepreneur who has made a business of it! She’s full of ideas of how to elevate the everyday and gain pleasure and satisfaction from newfound systems and techniques that help make our lives more functional, beautiful and meaningful.

        On this episiode we DMC about:

        • How Raizy discovered her passion to teach and inspire women to make every day more meaningful, beautiful and functional
        • Raizy’s philosophy that homemaking and life is an art
        • How Raizy built her business and her huge Instagram presence
        • The response she’s gotten as a Chasidish woman online
        • How she melds her values with her design aesthetic
        • Her favorite tips of overwhelmed Jewish women
        • We’d love to hear from you. You can find Deep Meaningful Conversations on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, or you can email us at [email protected].

          Show notes:

          Raizy’s Inspired Living:

          https://watch.raizyfried.com/

          Raizy’s website:

          https://www.raizyfried.com/

          DMC YEARLY SPONSOR:

          Town Appliance

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          DMC EPISODE 30 SPONSOR:

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          1 hr 33 min
        • Backstage with Chanale
          Female performers have had a renaissance in recent years, especially with live performances and concerts. In this episode of DMC, we go backstage with Chanale Fellig-Harrel, otherwise known as Chanale, who published her first album in the late 90s and she was one of the few frum female artists out there putting out albums and performing at the time. She’s also the consummate hustler, as evidenced by her podcast, The Weekly Squeeze. We’re curious to hear her thoughts and experiences about the emerging frum female music industry.
          In this episode we discuss:
          How Chanale first began to develop her musical talent
          What it was like as a frum female performer in the 90s and 2000s when it wasn’t as popular as it is today
          How making Aliya a few years ago impacted her musical career
          How Chanale uses her creativity to fuel multiple endeavors, including her podcast, running masterclasses, producing comedy videos and more
          Advice she would give aspiring frum female musicians and singers
          We’d love to hear from you. You can find Deep Meaningful Conversations on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, or you can email us at [email protected].
          Show notes:
          Chanale’s YouTube channel:
          https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9Cu8icnoTCNB6WLCU3UwLg
          Chanale’s podcast:
          https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-weekly-squeeze-with-chanale/id1614568206
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          1 hr 2 min
        • Living Life on Purpose with Jackie Glaser

          In this episode of Deep Meaningful Conversations, we’re going deep with all things personal development with our guest, Jackie Glaser. Jackie is all about accessing your greatness and living life on purpose. She's a life coach, a dating coach, a leadership developer – and was the resident psychologist on the Today Show in Australia. She also served as the Director of Leadership Development for 12 years at Olami. This episode is full of deep, profound and practical insights for anyone interested in self-improvement and accessing your greatness.

          We discuss:

          • Jackie’s journey to observance and how it informed her career trajectory
          • How life begins at the end of our comfort zone
          • The importance of defining yourself internally vs. externally
          • Self development in the context of bein adam l’atzmo (between a person and herself)
          • Jackie’s dating story and her subsequent work with singles
          • Tools to connect to yourself more deeply
          • We’d love to hear from you. You can find Deep Meaningful Conversations on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, or you can email us at [email protected].

            Jackie’s website: https://www.jackieglaser.com/

            Jackie’s book recommendations:

            Deeper Dating by Ken Page

            Practical Inner Torah by Miriam Millhauser Castle

            It’s All in Your Mind by Sara Yosef

            Letting Go: The Pathway to Surrender by David R. Hawkins, M.D. Ph.D.

            Attached by Amir Levine, M.D. and and Rachel S.F. Heller, M.A.

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            DMC EPISODE 28 SPONSOR:

            OU Women’s Initiative

            Torat Imecha Parsha: https://www.ou.org/women/torat-imecha/parsha/

            Torat Imecha Nach Yomi & Tehillim: https://www.ou.org/women/Nach23/

            1 hr 13 min
          • What’s Missing From Parenting Classes with Ruchi Koval

            Welcome to a brand new season of Deep Meaningful Conversations, powered by Town Appliance!

            Parents in the audience, do you ever feel that while you have gained tools from the various parenting classes you’ve taken, some things feel left out or not addressed fully? No one parenting approach can fit all sizes – parents and children included – but the older we get and the more we learn, we’re able to more easily pick out the missing parts.  In this episode, we have the pleasure of DMCing with parent coach and author Ruchi Koval about what’s typically missing from parenting classes. Ruchi’s also is a mom of 7, rebbetzin to many and a Momentum trip leader, so she’s worked with a lot of parents. We’re really curious to find out what she feels we need to hear more about in our parenting journeys.

            In this episode we discuss:

            • How Ruchi got into parenting coaching
            • What it’s like to be in the limelight as a parent coach when you’re having your own parenting struggles
            • Ruchi’s top topics that are either missing entirely from parenting classes, or not emphasized enough
            • We’d love to hear from you. You can find Deep Meaningful Conversations on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, or you can email us at [email protected].

              Show notes:

              Ruchi’s books:

              • Soul Construction: Shape Your Character Using 8 Steps from the Timeless Jewish Practice of Mussar 
              • Conversations with God: Prayers for Jewish Women 
              • Ruchi’s podcast:

                https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-book-of-life-weekly-wisdom-with-ruchi-koval/id1548215793

                Recommended book:

                Raising a Loving Family - Essential Guidance from the Talks and Wisdom of Rabbi Shimon Russell 

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                1 hr 21 min
              • Behind Between Carpools with Leah Schapira

                We could all use that "older sister" who knows the answer to everything and gives us those tips and tricks to make our lives run smoother. Between Carpools, the lifestyle website for the busy Jewish woman run by five talented women, fills that need beautifully. We sat down and had a DMC with Leah Schapira, known at the ultimate connecter. Like it says on their website, every team needs a mover, shaker, and motivator (and great recipe developer!) like Leah, who keeps the team moving with our eyes focused on the goal, and is always on the lookout for talent.  Leah has authored and co-authored nine (!) cookbooks, and most recently, with the BCP team, helped create Artscroll’s brand new Best of Kosher Cookbook. Leah describes herself as a creative and is always juggling new ideas and projects with her team of very talented frum women whose goal is to make the lives of frum women easier, more enjoyable and more beautiful. On this DMC we discuss:

                • Tips about when to quit a project and when to keep pushing
                • The type of content BCP provides frum women and how the team comes up with fresh ideas
                • Why Leah and her team decided not to include their faces in the branding of BCP (but yes, pictures of women are featured on their website)
                • Staying focused and how not to let exciting new ideas get in the way of long term goals
                • Leah’s perspective on the increased focus on aesthetics in the frum world
                • What inspires Leah in meeting her career goals

                • We’d love to hear from you. You can find Deep Meaningful Conversations on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, or you can email us at [email protected].


                  Show notes:

                  Alex & Rivki on Jordana Baruchov’s podcast “Drink it In” https://anchor.fm/jordana-baruchov0/episodes/Alex-Fleksher--Rivki-Silver---Podcasters-Unite-e1qfdj0/a-a8ohdb1


                  Between Carpools website:

                  https://betweencarpools.com/


                  Link to Best of Kosher 

                  https://amzn.to/3Fgq0Rz


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                  54 min
                • Sarah Schenirer’s Legacy with Dr. Leslie Ginsparg-Klein

                  In this DMC, we’re talking with Dr. Leslie Leslie Ginsparg Klein about the history of the Bais Yaakov Movement, the lessons and legacy of Sarah Schenirer, and about girls education today. Dr. Klein is the Academic Dean of Women’s Institute of Torah Seminary & College in Baltimore. She speaks on Jewish history, Tanach, leadership and communication skills across the United States and internationally. Leslie received her Ph.D. from New York University, where she researched the history of Orthodox girls’ education in America and the Bais Yaakov movement, so she has a lot of insights to share with us on this topic.


                  Here’s what we discuss in this episode:

                  • Leslie’s background and influences in her life which formed her passion for women’s education
                  • How Leslie decided to pursue a PhD on a religious topic in a secular institution
                  • Her favorite takeaways in her study of the Bais Yaakov movement
                  • Sarah Schenirer’s leadership legacy for us all
                  • The successes in today’s girls’ education that are in line with Sarah Shenirer’s legacy; what still needs improvement

                  • We’d love to hear from you. You can find Deep Meaningful Conversations on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, or you can email us at [email protected].


                    Show Notes:

                    Dr. Klein’s website:

                    https://www.lesliegklein.com/


                    WITS:

                    https://www.wits.edu/


                    Lesle’s book recommendations:
                    -Sarah Builds a School by Ann Koffsky and Leslie Ginspurg-Klein 

                    -The Rebellion of the Daughters by Rachel Manekin

                    -Jewish Girls Coming of Age in America by Melissa Klapper

                    -Reading Jewish Women by Iris Parush

                    - Any of the books by Eliana Adler
                    -Carry Me In Your Heart by Pearl Benisch

                    53 min
                  • How To Enjoy Cooking with Esty Wolbe

                    Love it or hate it (or some feeling in between), meal prep and cooking is a big part of our lives as frum women. Some of us are systems people, with our weekly menu plan and shopping list carefully constructed and executed. Others are more off the cuff, preparing meals that feel right at the moment, as needed (and praying that we have the ingredients already defrosted in our refrigerator!) In addition to cooking styles, some of us feel an inherent satisfaction and creativity in cooking, while others feel either intense dislike, or at the very least, that they have other better things to do. On today’s episode, we DMC with Esty Wolbe, “food entertainer” extraordinaire of Kosher.com, who shares her cooking journey and tips along the way to help us make our cooking more manageable, and enjoyable. 


                    In our conversation with Esty, we discuss:

                    • What teenage Esty was like in her mom’s kitchen
                    • How Esty’s career in cooking developed
                    • Advice for women who dislike cooking
                    • Tips to add life and motivation into the grind of meal prep
                    • Esty’s favorite recipes and creative process

                    • We’d love to hear from you. You can find Deep Meaningful Conversations on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, or you can email us at [email protected].


                      Show notes:


                      Esty’s amazing recipes shared in this episode!


                      https://cookingwithtantrums.com/2017/01/ultimate-potato-kugel/


                      https://www.kosher.com/recipe/best-challah-ever-3236

                       

                      https://cookingwithtantrums.com/2016/05/chicken-and-rice/

                       

                      https://www.kosher.com/shows/video/1224/spaghetti-cheatballs


                      See you next episode!

                      1 hr 7 min
                    • Unconditional Parenting with Blimie Heller

                      Parenting is all-encompassing and all-consuming, even if you’re not a helicopter parent. At the very bare minimum, we are tasked with keeping our offspring alive. Yet we also want to facilitate our children’s emotional, spiritual, psychological, physical, social and academic growth! And we very much don’t want to hinder their growth and development with our mistakes, missteps and full-blown fails.


                      Enter Blimie Heller with her compassionate unconditional parenting approach, and parenting feels a lot more manageable. We’re grateful that Blimie shares her wisdom with us on this episode of DMC about how to be more compassionate towards our children in understanding the root of behaviors, as well as how to be more compassionate towards ourselves in our parenting journeys.


                      In our conversation with Blimie, we discuss:

                      • what unconditional parenting is and how she discovered it
                      • strengthening the parent/child relationship
                      • the power of empathy in parenting
                      • dealing with feelings of failure in parenting
                      • how to see the root causes driving children’s behavior

                      • We’d love to hear from you. You can find Deep Meaningful Conversations on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter, or you can email us at [email protected].


                        Show notes:


                        Blimie’s website:

                        https://www.blimieheller.com/

                        On instagram as @unconditional_parenting


                        Blimie’s book recommendations:


                        Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn 

                        Hold On To Your Kids by Dr. Gordon Neufeld

                        Non-Violent Communication by  Dr. Marshall Rosenberg

                        1 hr 25 min

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