Darshana first met Uzo Nwankpa, a public health nurse scholar and Indigenous healing arts practitioner, on a dancefloor more than a decade ago. In this conversation they come together to explore dance, lineage, land, and what it means to re-inhabit our bodies in a culture that trains us to disconnect. The essence of Erotic Wholeness is deeply present in this discussion.

Uzo shares how she weaves evidence-based somatic tools with Igbo Indigenous practices, restorative circles, and movement as prayer and protest. Together, they examine anxiety as pent-up energy, the paradox of healthcare professionals being trained to dissociate from their bodies, and the power of collective movement as both personal medicine and social change.

The dialogue moves between the personal and the political, the mythical and the material, and invites listeners into a deeper relationship with ancestry, land, imagination, and the wisdom of the body.

In this episode, we explore:

• Anxiety as accumulated, unexpressed energy in the body
• Why movement, sound, and breath shift nervous system states
• Dance as prayer, protest, and spiritual alignment
• Indigenous coherence practices and collective regulation
• The paradox of embodiment within academic and medical systems
• Reclaiming lineage, ancestry, and mythical imagination
• The impact of colonization on gender and sexuality
• Spirituality versus institutional religion
• Why cutting the arts is cutting collective power
• Movement as a political and social force
• The difference between self-care and collective care
• Re-indigenizing the body in an over-technologized world
• Creating spaces where marginalized bodies can move freely
• Dance floors as sites of liberation and cohesion
• Returning to land, elements, and sensory intelligence

About Uzo:

Uzo Nwankpa is a public health nurse scholar and Indigenous healing arts practitioner. As an Igbo womyn in the diaspora, she supports leaders, helpers, caregivers, and healthcare professionals who are exhausted from carrying more than any human should. Her work is grounded in the truth that burnout isn’t a personal failure—it’s a systemic wound that requires systemic intervention, including healing through communal connection, creativity, and culturally rooted practices.

Drawing on Indigenous and African ancestral wisdom, she creates spaces where people understand their stress responses, including the often-forgotten instinct to gather—as African women have always done—to regulate together, remember they are not alone, and rebuild energy in community.

Connect with Uzo:

Website: www.theuzo.com | www.wellnesspromoters.net
Instagram: @uzonwankpa
TikTok: @wellnesshacking
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-uzo-nwankpa
YouTube: https://youtube.com/@druzo
Freebie: Energy awareness assessment: https://wellnesshacks.store/

In this episode, Darshana is joined by Jimanekia Eborn, widely known as the Trauma Queen, for a conversation that is honest, grounded, and unexpectedly joyful. Together, they explore trauma not only as something to survive, but as something that can be metabolized through safety, humor, pleasure, spirituality, and community.

Jimanekia brings nearly two decades of experience in trauma education, survivor advocacy, and systems change, alongside her own lived experience as a sexual assault survivor and the daughter of a survivor. This conversation moves fluidly between grief and laughter, depth and practicality, offering listeners permission to relate to trauma without becoming defined by it.

About Jimanekia

Jimanekia Eborn is a trauma specialist, educator, creative, and strategist with over 17 years of experience in mental health, sexuality education, and survivor advocacy. She is the founder of Tending the Garden, a nonprofit organization that supports survivors of sexual assault from marginalized communities, and the host of the Trauma Queen podcast.

Jimanekia’s work bridges care, culture, and systems change consulting with media, education, and wellness organizations on trauma-informed practices and equity-driven leadership.

She is also the co-founder of CINTIMA, expanding representation in intimacy coordination across film and TV. While doing consulting work on film and media for true crime with Lenora Claire.

Connect with Jimanekia

• Website: traumaqueen.love
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jimanekia/ | tendingthegarden.love | https://www.instagram.com/tendingthegarden.4.sas/
• In this episode Darshana mentioned the book Eve: How The Female Body Drove 200 Million Years of Human Evolution by Cat Bohannon. Find out more at CatbohannonEve — Cat Bohannon

Darshana has supported thousands of people across the world to claim their Erotic Wholeness. Whether you begin with a self paced journey taken from the comfort of your own home or work with her directly for the transformational experience of a lifetime, your path to the pleasure, power and purpose you’re truly made for is just a step away!

Learn more:

• DarshanaAvila.com/offerings for courses and details about her private practice

• DarshanaAvila.com/community to enter the Galgasm community hub full of free resources

• YouTube.com/@darshana_avila for tons of inspired lessons, interviews and more

In this episode, Darshana is joined by Monique Castro, a licensed marriage and family therapist of Navajo and Mexican descent, and the founder and CEO of Indigenous Circle of Wellness. Together, they explore Indigenous worldviews of healing, kinship, matriarchy, and belonging, and what it means to return to relational ways of living in a culture shaped by individualism and disconnection.

This conversation moves through lived experience, lineage, culture, and professional practice, offering a grounded and expansive look at healing as something that happens in relationship, across generations, and in connection with land.

In this episode, we explore:

• What it means to return to Indigenous ways of healing
• Kinship as a worldview rooted in interconnection with people, land, and more-than-human beings
• Collectivist approaches to wellness versus Western individualism
• Growing up in a matriarchal and matrilineal Navajo household
• Wisdom as leadership rather than domination or control
• How matriarchy shapes decision-making, family structure, and community care
• Two-Spirit identity as sacred within Indigenous traditions
• The role of Two-Spirit elders in family and community life
• Gender beyond binary frameworks
• College, dating, and leadership culture shock for women raised in matriarchal homes
• The impact of colonization, relocation, and church systems on Indigenous identity
• Reconnecting to spirituality outside of religious harm
• Healing as remembrance rather than fixing
• Creating belonging and chosen family
• Land as a living source of wisdom and reconnection

About Monique:

Monique Castro, LMFT (Navajo/Mexican) is the Founder & CEO of Indigenous Circle of Wellness, a thriving multi-site private psychotherapy and wellness practice serving communities across Southern California and virtually statewide. Rooted in culture and community, Indigenous Circle of Wellness centers the healing of Black, Indigenous, and People of Color through therapy, wellness circles, and leadership development.

Connect with Monique:

• Website: https://www.icowellness.com/
• Instagram: @indigenouscircleofwellness | @moniquecastro.coach

Connect with Darshana:

Darshana has supported thousands of people across the world to claim their Erotic Wholeness. Whether you begin with a self paced journey taken from the comfort of your own home or work with her directly for the transformational experience of a lifetime, your path to the pleasure, power and purpose you’re truly made for is just a step away!

Learn more:

• DarshanaAvila.com/offerings

• DarshanaAvila.com/community

• YouTube.com/@darshana_avila

In this episode, Darshana is joined by KJ Song for a bold, tender, and deeply thoughtful conversation at the intersection of devotion, kink, spirituality, queerness and erotic aliveness. Together, they explore how faith, doubt, praise, sexuality, and care can coexist, and how reclaiming these connections can open new pathways to healing, belonging, and power.

KJ shares their personal journey into music, faith, kink, and ministry, including how embodied experiences in kink spaces mirrored and deepened their experiences of surrender, awe, and presence in spiritual contexts. This conversation invites listeners to question inherited narratives about religion, sexuality, and care, and to imagine what becomes possible when these realms are integrated rather than separated.

In this episode, we explore:

• Reclaiming the word God outside of shame, fear, and exclusion
• Spirituality as a felt, embodied experience rather than belief alone
• Praise as an erotic, emotional, and communal practice
• Doubt as an essential component of faith rather than its opposite
• Kink as a form of embodied care and pastoral presence
• Platonic kink and non-sexual erotic experiences
• Sex work beyond narrow cultural definitions of sex
• Erotic aliveness as life force, creativity, and vitality
• Why surrender in kink can mirror surrender in prayer
• Care as the common thread linking kink, ministry, and healing
• Queering love, care, and intimacy beyond normative scripts
• Community singing as a site of repair for religious harm
• The lineage of queer, trans, and Black spiritual elders
• Returning to ancient integrations of sex, spirit, and healing

About KJ:
KJ Song (they/them) is a queer music minister, holistic kink practitioner, and Master of Divinity student who leads transformative spaces at the intersection of Spirit, song, and rowdy liberation. As the founder and director of Sing Praise! and The Prayerotic Way, KJ blends Gospel-inspired roots, ritual leadership, and radical welcome to create gatherings that are as joyful as they are healing. They love their piano, bacon, and going to bed at a geriatric hour most of all.

Connect with KJ:

• Voice practice and Sing Praise gatherings: https://www.kjsong.com/singpraise
• Holistic kink sessions: https://prayerotic.com 
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kjpraisesong
• City of Refuge: https://www.cityofrefugeucc.org/

Darshana has supported thousands of people across the world to claim their Erotic Wholeness. Whether you begin with a self paced journey taken from the comfort of your own home or work with her directly for the transformational experience of a lifetime, your path to the pleasure, power and purpose you’re truly made for is just a step away!

Learn more:

• DarshanaAvila.com/offerings

• DarshanaAvila.com/community

• YouTube.com/@darshana_avila

In this episode, Darshana is joined by Claudia Nanino, a master breathwork facilitator, crystal curator, and guide into non-ordinary states of consciousness, for a rich conversation about breath as a portal to healing, embodiment, intimacy, and self-forgiveness.

Claudia shares her personal story of divorce, infidelity, shame, and reckoning, and how conscious breathwork became the turning point that allowed her to release emotional charge, reconnect with her body, and reclaim her life force. Together, Darshana and Claudia explore breath not as a performance or optimization tool, but as a simple, profound, and accessible path back to presence.

In this episode, we talked about:

• How a single breath can begin to regulate the nervous system
• The science behind six intentional breaths and measurable stress reduction
• Quality over quantity in self-care and healing practices
• Claudia’s journey through divorce, shame, and self-forgiveness
• Infidelity as an attempt to meet unmet needs
• Breathwork as a catalyst for emotional release and integration
• Conscious breathwork as a non-ordinary state of consciousness
• The difference between breathwork styles and conscious breathwork
• Breathwork as an alternative or complement to psychedelics
• Why subtle, peaceful experiences are just as valuable as cathartic ones
• The relationship between breath, embodiment, and intimacy
• Relaxation as a foundation for arousal and pleasure
• Slowing the breath to deepen erotic connection
• Breath as an accessible embodiment practice for modern nervous systems

About Claudia:

Claudia Nanino is a master breathwork facilitator, crystal curator, and an explorer of non-ordinary states of consciousness. She found her way along this path after western approaches to healing from a devastating divorce and struggles with addictive behavior left her disconnected from her heart and out of alignment. After encountering Conscious Breathwork, which took her personal healing journey to the next level, she completed a 250+ hour apprenticeship, plus trauma informed and healing with psychedelics training, and is now fully devoted to helping others heal, forgive and love themselves fully.  

Connect with Claudia:

• Website: https://www.amarsi.love/
• Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/amarsi.claudia | https://www.instagram.com/claudiananino | https://www.instagram.com/amarsi.crystals 
• Retreats and virtual offerings available through her website

Claudia offers a welcome discount for first-time sessions and sliding scale options to ensure accessibility.

• DarshanaAvila.com/offerings for courses and details about her private practice

• DarshanaAvila.com/community to enter the Galgasm community hub full of free resources

• YouTube.com/@darshana_avila for tons of inspired lessons, interviews and more

What happens when we’re saying yes to intimacy, but our bodies suddenly say no?

In this episode, Darshana is joined by Dr. Willow Brown and Leah Piper of the Sex Reimagined podcast for a nuanced conversation about triggers in intimacy. Together, they offer accessible guidance for how to navigate these moments, while also exploring what’s actually happening in the nervous system when dissociation, flooding, shutdown, or defensiveness arise during intimate encounters.

This conversation weaves lived experience, somatic wisdom, trauma awareness, and practical tools for how to navigate old patterns surfacing, without collapsing into shame, blame, or disconnection.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why triggers often arise even in consensual, desired intimacy
• How trauma lives in the body and sensory memory
• Dissociation, freeze, fight, flight, and subtle signs of nervous system activation
• Why the body’s responses are intelligent rather than pathological
• How presence and attunement create conditions for healing
• Erotic intimacy as a potential portal for trauma repair
• The role of pausing without abandoning connection
• How defensiveness escalates trauma responses between partners
• Understanding personal “safety strategies” in conflict and intimacy
• Why curiosity is more effective than judgment when triggers arise
• How ritual, communication, and consent practices support nervous system regulation
• The difference between essence and pattern in relationships

About Dr. Willow and Lea:

Meet the visionaries behind the Sex Reimagined Podcast: Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown—they are modern-day pleasure ambassadors who've guided thousands through the labyrinth of desire, intimacy, and sexual awakening. 

Leah's professional approach to Tantric practices complements Willow's experience of Taoist sexology, creating a powerful alchemy that transforms listeners' relationships to sex, intimacy, & partnership. 

Their signature blend of ancient wisdom, modern science, and lived experience has made Sex Reimagined not just a podcast, but a portal to the sexual sovereignty you've always deserved.

Links and resources:

• Sex Reimagined Podcast: https://sexreimagined.com 
• Free Tantric Kissing Training: https://sexreimagined.com/free-tantric-kissing-training
• The Power of Pleasure Summit Live Free Event - February 11-12, 2026 https://sexreimagined.com/power-of-pleasure 
• Book mentioned: The Five Personality Patterns by Stephen Kessler: https://the5personalitypatterns.com/ 

• DarshanaAvila.com/offerings for courses and details about her private practice

• DarshanaAvila.com/community to enter the Galgasm community hub full of free resources

• YouTube.com/@darshana_avila for tons of inspired lessons, interviews and more

In this episode, Darshana is joined by two friends and colleagues, Z and Victor, for a deeply relational conversation about erotic expression that makes room for the full spectrum of human experience.

Together, they explore eroticism not only as pleasure or sexuality, but as aliveness that includes grief, loss, tenderness, rage, joy, and the importance of being witnessed in community. This conversation reflects the heart of Deeper with Darshana, moving slowly, honestly, and with care for what it means to feel deeply together.

Rather than separating pleasure from pain, the three of them explore how erotic aliveness can hold both, and how community becomes essential when navigating the harder edges of being human.

In this episode, we explore:

• Erotic expression as more than sex or pleasure
• Why grief and hard feelings belong in erotic and embodied spaces
• How aliveness includes joy, sorrow, and everything in between
• The role of community in supporting emotional and erotic expression
• Why isolating our pain limits our capacity for pleasure
• The importance of witnessing and being witnessed
• How shared presence can deepen intimacy and trust
• What it means to practice erotic wholeness in relationship
• Allowing complexity rather than striving for positivity
• Letting erotic energy move through grief rather than around it
  

About the Z and Victor

Z (aka Zahava Griss, they/them) is the founder of Embody More Love, a spiritual kinky dance community for personal & cultural liberation. Since 1999, Z has guided dance rituals to decolonize, heal, build intimacy, & make love out of what is not yet love. Z guides a 3 month immersion called Play with Power & Gender through Dance, dedicated to attachment & trauma informed kink. Z also created a Grief & Eros Film honoring the legacy of grief ritualist Sobonfu Somé.

Victor Warring is an Erotic ReWilder, Somatic (body-centered) Sexuality Educator, Mentor, Coach and also an Erotic Activist. He is passionate about supporting people in discovering the truth of their erotic sovereignty and removing any self-imposed, internalized or socially imposed blocks that interfere with the expression of their erotic brilliance.

Victor is also a diversity, equity and inclusion (DEI) educator and works with people in understanding the intersections where the body, sexuality, inclusion, oppression, racism, white supremacy and decolonization are interwoven. 

Connect with Z and Victor

• Find Z at www.EmbodyMoreLove.com
• Find Victor at https://www.rewilderos.com Instagram: @bonobo_man
• Join the 4 Day Grief Eros Ritual in June 2026: https://www.embodymorelove.com/villageritual

• DarshanaAvila.com/offerings

• DarshanaAvila.com/community

• YouTube.com/@darshana_avila

In this episode, Darshana is joined by Julia Feldman, founder of Giving the Talk, for a deeply grounded conversation about sex education, pleasure, consent, and what it really means to support people in having a healthy relationship with their bodies across the lifespan.

Julia brings decades of experience teaching compassionate, empowering, and scientifically accurate sex education to people of all ages, from young children and teens to parents, caregivers, and older adults. Together, Darshana and Julia explore how shame, silence, and fear around bodies are learned, and how different things might be if curiosity, consent, and pleasure were centered instead.

This conversation weaves together trauma awareness, sexuality, parenting and embodied agency, offering insights that are just as relevant for adults without children as they are for caregivers and educators.

In this episode, we explore:

• What “sex ed for this century” actually looks like in practice
• How Julia’s own chronic health journey shaped her work as an educator
• Why learning to talk about bodies without shame is a foundational life skill
• How parents’ unresolved body stories often shape how they talk to their children
• The importance of becoming an “askable adult” rather than a controlling one
• Why puberty is not a single event, but part of a lifelong body-change continuum
• How curiosity can replace fear when bodies change
• The role of pleasure in sex education at all ages
• Why pleasure is not inherently sexual and does not need to be moralized
• How early consent practices support embodied agency later in life
• Why empowering people to feel into yes and no is more protective than shame

About the Julia

Julia Feldman, founder of Giving The Talk, is a teacher who supports people of all ages with the compassionate, empowering, and scientifically accurate sex education we all deserve. She is passionate about creating educational experiences that center the needs of her students and encourages them to move through the world informed, confident, equipped to care for themselves and others, and free of shame.

Connect with Julia

• Website: https://givingthetalk.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/givingthetalk

Darshana has supported thousands of people across the world to claim their Erotic Wholeness. Whether you begin with a self paced journey taken from the comfort of your own home or work with her directly for the transformational experience of a lifetime, your path to the pleasure, power and purpose you're truly made for is just a step away!

Learn more:

• DarshanaAvila.com/offerings for courses and details about her private practice

• DarshanaAvila.com/community to enter the Galgasm community hub full of free resources

• YouTube.com/@darshana_avila for tons of inspired lessons, interviews and more

In this episode, Darshana is joined by Isha Vela for a rich, layered conversation about abundance, sufficiency, and the body. 

Together, they explore how scarcity is encoded not only through personal experience, but through ancestral lineage, systems of oppression, and nervous system patterning, and what it means to consciously re-code the body for with the experience of enough-ness and overflow.

Drawing inspiration from their respective personal and professional experiences with somatics, trauma psychology, money, intimacy, spirituality, and erotic aliveness, you’re invited to redefine what it means to be wealthy and experience abundance in all aspects of your life.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What it means to “code the body with sufficiency”
• How scarcity is shaped by ancestry, oppression, and nervous system conditioning
• The difference between abundance and sufficiency
• Why our nervous systems often lag behind material reality
• How wealth includes far more than money
• Relational, environmental, and spiritual forms of wealth
• The parallels between money conditioning and intimacy conditioning
• How outsourcing power shows up in both finances and relationships
• Why diversification matters in relational and financial ecosystems
• Pleasure, erotic aliveness, and vitality as sources of wealth
• The distinction between needs and wants
• How money reflects relational patterns
• Stewardship versus hoarding
• Community-based approaches to wealth, including mutual aid models
• Why slowing down and noticing is a powerful first step toward sufficiency

About Isha
Isha Vela, Ph.D., CCEP (they/she) is a trauma psychologist, certified somatic practitioner, wealth activator and financial professional on a mission to help creative disruptors build generational wealth and co-create sustainable futures. Isha is a solo patent and activist currently worldschooling her children.

Connect with Isha

• Website: www.ishavela.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wakingup_wealthy/ 
• Youtube: https://youtube.com/@wakingup_wealthy

Darshana has supported thousands of people across the world to claim their Erotic Wholeness. Whether you begin with a self paced journey taken from the comfort of your own home or work with her directly for the transformational experience of a lifetime, your path to the pleasure, power and purpose you're truly made for is just a step away!

Learn more:

• DarshanaAvila.com/offerings for courses and details about her private practice

• DarshanaAvila.com/community to enter the Galgasm community hub full of free resources

• YouTube.com/@darshana_avila for tons of inspired lessons, interviews and more

Darshana is joined by Kai Cheng Thom for an intimate conversation that goes deep and wide about pleasure activism, embodied liberation, and the ways shame, identity, and power shape our relationship to desire.

Listen in as they move between personal story, somatic wisdom, cultural critique, and practical reflection, offering you a grounded and humane entry point into pleasure as both a personal and collective practice.

In this episode, we explore:

• What pleasure activism means as a lived, embodied practice rather than a concept
• Why many people internalize the belief that pleasure is “not for them”
• How race, gender, sexuality, trans identity, and colonial narratives shape erotic shame
• The body’s protective strategies, including freeze and somatic armoring
• Why honoring the body’s no is essential before opening to desire
• The importance of de-shaming the yes, not just strengthening boundaries
• How comfort can serve as a doorway to pleasure and healing
• The role of consent, pacing, and presence in embodied work
• Simple practices for naming needs and desires without pressure or performance
• Why reclaiming pleasure is deeply connected to collective liberation

About Kai:

Kai Cheng Thom, MSW, MSc, Qualified Mediator, and Somatic Sex Educator is an author, performer, and noted expert in the fields of trauma healing, professional coaching, somatics, dialogue facilitation, and conflict transformation.

As a theorist and practitioner, she has made significant contributions in the area of trauma-informed, social change-oriented approaches to pursuing individual and collective healing and transformation, particularly in her work on Transformative Justice and conflict resolution in activist communities

Connect with Kai:

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kaichengthom 
• Website: https://kaichengthom.com
• Arise Embodiment: https://ariseembodiment.org

Darshana has supported thousands of people across the world to claim their Erotic Wholeness. Whether you begin with a self paced journey taken from the comfort of your own home or work with her directly for the transformational experience of a lifetime, your path to the pleasure, power and purpose you're truly made for is just a step away!

Learn more:

• DarshanaAvila.com/offerings for courses and details about her private practice

• DarshanaAvila.com/community to enter the Galgasm community hub full of free resources

• YouTube.com/@darshana_avila for tons of inspired lessons, interviews and more