In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell explore one of the biggest questions in relationships: What is real love, and how do you know when you’ve found it? Inspired by a Jay Shetty "On Purpose" podcast featuring Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez, Julius reflects on Blanco’s heartfelt take on love and how men should show up for their partners.

But Jamell isn’t sold—he argues that what sounds like true love might just be the Honeymoon Phase. The two go head-to-head, breaking down the difference between infatuation and lasting love while debating the real keys to a successful relationship.

Is love a fairytale, or is there a formula to make it last?