Defying Self

In the last podcast, we spoke about how conflict can be a powerful tool of growth in relationships. Now...How do we engage in conflict well? We break down the steps to productive conflict into three: when conflict begins, navigating the conflict and managing to a good resolution.

We begin Season 2 with a look at CONFLICT in relationships. How do you embrace the productivity of conflict? We discuss the importance of engaging in conflict in a way that builds the relationship and BUILDS YOU as an individual. It can get messy but conflict can be a powerful tool for growth.

We are back! Starting off with some announcements of what to expect this year. We are excited about the journey ahead and grateful that you can join us! 

We all know vulnerability benefits our relationships BUT how do we even get started? How do we defy the fear of all we stand to lose if we let go and welcome vulnerability? In this episode, we speak to how to engage and walk out your journey of vulnerability.

It's official, parenting is kicking our butts. In this episode, we talk through difficult parenting issues and areas where our parenting can use some improvement. So join us as we laugh at our struggles and cry (inside) while we learn and grow as parents.

The last two podcasts on Love, Tolerance and Combination has offered tons to chew on.  Tune in as we reflect on what resonated and impacted us the most. We highlight the "forever" honeymoon state, the need for self love, the importance of correctly defining perfection/maturity in relationship and more.

This week we get into the nitty gritty of how to structure a marriage to ensure growth. It is going to take identity, vulnerability and sight. Join us as we discuss the details of applying Love, Tolerance and Communication.

Marriage is challenging and can be traumatic if you are not ready. We replay a recent couples' workshop  on Love, Tolerance and Communication. We start the series by looking at the 8 phases of relational breakdown and how our history can create relational dysfunction.

Another question from our listeners: "What do you do if both parents in a family have conflicting approaches to parenting?" This week we talk about synchronizing values and personalities to create a united front for our children.

This week we answer a question from one of our faithful listeners. We discuss practical and spiritual perspectives on how one can heal and bring less baggage into their relationships. If you would like us to ponder one of your questions, go to defyingself.com and click "Contact Us" on the top right hand corner.