Tell me you guys struggle with the day in, day out routine of work, school, outings, and everything in between.

Because I sure as f*ck do, ha.

In this episode of Deja Entendu, I discuss how I've managed to finally discover what really works for me and how my past idea of self-care and balancing all the things was extremely unhealthy and clearly wasn't working.

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What's up, you guys; welcome back!

This week I wanted so much to discuss a homophobic experience I encountered and why I was so surprised towards this..

I pour out some thoughts about what happens to your identity after marriage. Whether you identify in society as a heterosexual or lesbian, depending on your marriage partner and why this IS NOT fair.

You are the way you were born, and the way you choose to be.

We should feel safe and comfortable being who we are, regardless of our company.

DM with your thoughts/feelings about this episode; I would love to chat about it.

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This episode is going to be controversial, I'll tell you that right now..

However, domestic abuse is a very serious matter, and not something to be taken lightly; people have to know that.

I discuss what to do in situations where domestic abuse is presented and the characteristics I think make someone a good person. Remember that topic, of what makes someone a good person, is purely a perception for each of us to hold. But without religion, how can we know who's good and who's not?

Intentions are just words, who you are comes from actions.

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Do you think about your words before you say them?

I do, and even still, I find myself stumbling at times.

Follow along as I discuss a situation I found myself in, after saying what I thought was a harmless, endearing comment.

Things to keep in mind:

We all have different perceptions of situations.

We all hold words to different standards.

We don't always know what our recipients are going through.

Watch your words.

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You guys think you've had bitter endings to past relationships?

Ha, wait til you hear this..

Find out how I turned a bitter, terrible ending of a relationship into something that was the foundation of a long-term friend.

To summarize, it took patience, understanding, acceptance, and most important of all, clarity.

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I've said it before and I'll say it again..

I. hate. cellphones.

In this week's episode I discuss why it's necessary to brand yourself in today's day and age, even though I absolutely can't stand it.

Check out the valid points and reasoning I bring to losing your cell phone, along with how I went some time without real technology, and how I made it through that.

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What do you do when things are seemingly going too well for you?

Do you self-sabotage, or stay goal-oriented?

I discuss what has been working for me for the last few years and where I'm at with my path to success. I also re-introduce myself because after not being able to tolerate my scripted first episode ha, I felt the time had come.

The book I reference in this episode:

"Under the Influence" by James R. Milam, Ph.D and Katherine Ketchum

https://www.amazon.com/Under-Influence-Guide-Realities-Alcoholism/dp/0553274872/ref=asc_df_0553274872/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312089933244&hvpos=1o1&hvnetw=g&hvrand=7555133826057630647&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9031339&hvtargid=pla-564951596321&psc=1

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The content of this episode is all in the name..

See what I've been putting off for four years and why I felt the time was now to give the biggest thanks of all. Overall, I ultimately give recognition to one of my biggest inspirations throughout my recovery process and I describe what I received in return.

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