In this solo episode, I discuss an obstacle many of our clients come across, being released from football clubs. This episode is part one, of a two part series designed to give players, coaches and parents of players some ideas on how the mentally tough player would view the situation. I also share 4 ideas and a number of resources that can help players who are finding this period difficult.  

Key Learning Points

1. Try to keep the situation in proportion.
2. See the setback as an opportunity to develop yourself.
3. Deal with the situation the best you possibly can. 
4. Accept that there are better ways of doing things and be open to exploring different options.

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Relevant Podcast Episodes

Ep027: Natalie Henderson – How to Develop Mental Toughness with Young Footballers

Ep049: James Maurice - How Does Sport Psychology in Elite Football Academies Help 

Ep064: Edu Rubio – How to Support Young Footballers

Ep086: David Charlton: Observations: How to Learn from Setbacks

Ep113: The Relationship Between Mental Fitness, Mental Health and Mental Toughness

Relevant Blogs and Resources

Gibbs Reflective Cycle

4 Powerful Questions when Dealing with Challenging Situations

Blog: 3 Tips to Help You Overcome Setbacks

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Today, I'm joined by a former international cricketer and Senior Leadership Coach, Jeremy Snape.  We go on to discuss mental toughness in cricket, the pressures of playing at the international level in front of thousands of spectators, as well as looking at the relationship between sport performance and business. Enjoy tuning in!

Key Learning Points:

• Our brains are built for safety, to keep us safe.
• Being calm, patient and instinctive are skills that can be developed and help us perform to our maximum.
• A “one ball at a time mentality” is helpful - focusing on making the next moment as high quality as we can.
• Counting and breathing techniques can refocus our mind.
• Consider setting transformational goals, to stretch yourself and others.

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Useful Podcasts

Ep042: Mark Bennett MBE – Characteristics of High Performance Athletes 

Ep072: Tom Jones - Mastering the Mental Side of Cricket

Ep091: Jarrod Leathem – How to Transfer Your Cricket Skills to Matches

For More Resources for Cricketers

Blog - Make Bowling Simple by Avoiding these 3 Common Mental Game Errors

Blog - 5 Tips if you fall into the TRYING TOO HARD TRAP when bowling

Blog - Mental Preparation for Bowlers in Cricket 

Blog - Being an Intelligent Batsman can be a Problem

Blog - Batting with a Quiet Mind

Today I’m joined by Tim Bradshaw author of Because I Can, a former surveillance and target acquisition patrol soldier and covert human intelligence officer.  We discuss his quest to help people understand it’s ok to ask for help when they have mental health concerns.  Stepping out of your comfort zone, taking on challenges such as Everest are also talked about, as well as his definition of mental toughness in military settings.  

Key Learning Points:

• We took on a year of challenges every month for a year to raise awareness around Mental Health.
• Self-doubt is very natural, we all face it at different times.
• Fatigue is a big issue when taking on a challenge like Everest.  Accepting, not beating yourself up for a lack of sleep is the important part in dealing with it. 
• Take a leaf out of the All Blacks and think differently, never take a step backwards. 
• Nobody is born resilient, you become resilient.
• The sheer volume of information shared to us is crazy, we have to be able to sift out the not so helpful bits and focus on what is going to support us.
• Seek to focus on what is possible not what you can’t do.

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To Listen to the Full Podcast Episodes

Ep065: Dr Amy Izycky – Encouraging Mentally Healthy Cultures in Sport

Ep066: Marilyn Okoro – Mental Health and Resilience: Lessons from an Olympic Medalist

Ep075: Grant Phyphers – How to Rebuild Your Identity

Ep106: Amy Rowlinson - Why is knowing my WHY important? 

Ep113: Polly Brennan - The Relationship Between Mental Fitness, Mental Health and Mental Toughness

Other Useful Resources linked to Mental Health

Blog - 5 Ways to Create a Psychological Safe Sporting Environment

Blog – 3 Tips to Deal with Bullying in Sport

Blog - How to Find Your Why 

In today's podcast episode #113, I’m joined by the adventurous and inspirational Polly Brennan, founder of Adventurous Coaching and creator of The Mental Fitness Kitbag™ Model.  Our discussion centres around mental fitness, mental health and mental toughness where we share some helpful strategies to help you manage your mental health.    

Enjoy tuning in!    

Key Learning Points:

• Mental health and well-being can be viewed as an adventure.
• What does an adventurous approach to how you live your life look like?
• Adventures of the ordinary can be done on a shoestring.
• What does a challenge look like to you?
• Mental Health operates on a continuum and changes frequently dependent on an individuals circumstances.
• What do you do to strengthen your resilience muscles?

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To Listen to the Full Podcast Episodes

Ep011: Dave Algeo - Mental Toughness, Mental Health and High Performance

Ep018: Kieron Brady - From Professional Football to Alcoholism Consultant

Ep031 David Jueno - How to Turn Your Life Around and Inspire Others

Ep065: Dr Amy Izycky – Encouraging Mentally Healthy Cultures in Sport

Ep066: Marilyn Okoro – Mental Health and Resilience: Lessons from an Olympic Medalist

Ep075: Grant Phyphers – How to Rebuild Your Identity

Ep106: Amy Rowlinson - Why is knowing my WHY important? 

Other Useful Resources linked to Mental Health

Blog - Make Better Decisions to Help Your Sport Performance

Blog - 5 Ways to Create a Psychological Safe Sporting Environment

Blog – 3 Tips to Deal with Bullying in Sport

Blog - How to Find Your Why 

In this solo episode, I discuss a challenge that many young athletes often come across and something that we get approached by parents and the athlete themselves about on a regular basis.  Dealing with physical insecurities.  I go on to share some exercises, that I often use citing a case study of Harry (pseudonym) the goalkeeper who was small for his position, which impacted his focus and confidence.  

Key Learning Points

• By helping shift an athletes focus towards internal factors that he or she can control can help them feel less helpless.
• Examining an athletes expectations of small details in their sport can help you shift their perspective.
• Setting mini-goals between sessions is a great way to strengthen an athletes confidence and motivation levels.
• Spending time assessing an athlete’s strengths and planning how to improve specific areas can be a great confidence builder.
• Relationships and the way athletes communicate with coaches is important and vice versa, can have a significant impact on how an athlete feels.
• Using metaphors such as an animal or a superhero in a visual way can enhance confidence.

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Relevant Podcast Episodes

Ep039: John Fletcher – How to Develop Fearless Athletes

Ep49: James Maurice - How Does Sport Psychology in Elite Football Academies Help 

Ep064: Edu Rubio – How to Support Young Footballers

Ep081: Stuart Wade – Mental Toughness in Combat Sports

Ep111: Michael Caulfield - How to be an Effective Sports Psychologist in Elite Professional Football

Relevant Blogs and Resources

Case Study: Supporting a Young Footballer to Overcome His Fears

Blog: How to Help Children Overcome Fear of Failure

Blog: How do I Help my Child to Focus in Sports?

Child and Youth Motivation for Sport Quiz

Sport Psychology Resources for Children and Parents

This week I chat with HCPC Registered Sport Psychologist, Michael Caulfield about his route into the field and his work in elite professional football with managers, players and multi-disciplinary teams.  He shares fascinating insights into his work, the importance of being courageous whatever your role.  Michael has been fortunate to work with Gareth Southgate, Steve Bruce and Dean Smith in the English Premier League so has some great stories and advice to offer.      

What You Will Learn In This Episode: 

• Michael’s route into Sports Psychology came after being the Chief Executive of the Professional Jockey’s Association.
• The importance of first impressions, building and maintaining relationships as a Sport Psychologist.
• Rejection and failure is a part of life, being able to bounce back with “courage” is a quality that can be developed and is essential if you are to prosper.
• The ability to park your own ego is essential when you are a Sport Psychologist.
• Being comfortable in your own skin when dealing with people, especially bigger names is valuable for you to prosper. 

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Helpful Podcast Episodes

Ep024: Julian Dowe – Mental Toughness in Professional Football

Ep064: Edu Rubio – How to Support Young Footballers

Ep093: Dan Abrahams – How to Overcome Mental Blocks in Football

Ep096: Gary Curneen – Developing Mentally Strong Footballers

Ep102: 30 Mental Game Secrets to Improve Your Soccer

Ep105: Hannah Bromley - Overcoming Psychological Challenges in Professional Women’s Football

Other Useful Resources 

Blog - A Common Mental Game Error Many Footballers Make

Blog - Coach Development: Helping Athletes Overcome Fear of Failure

Blog - 5 Tips to Help You Perform Fearlessly When You Compete

Case Study - Supporting a Young Footballer to Overcome his Fears

Our guest today is very inspirational, Dan Steele was an excellent decathlete and an Olympic bronze medalist in Bobsleigh.  He was also one of the most successful collegiate track and field coaches in America.  In this episode, we discuss his journey, some obstacles that he overcame along the way as an athlete.  Psychological strategies that he used to keep himself going in difficult times were also touched on and how he overcame fears.  Dan also goes on to share some great advice for coaches of any sport, to get the most from their athletes.

Key Takeaways include:

• Physical size as a youngster shouldn’t be a hindrance with the right mindset.
• The mental side of the decathlon is very important, being able to remain calm after poor results in events.
• Your internal self-talk is hugely powerful.
• I’d see competing and tight finishes as exciting.
• Bobsleigh was like riding a crazy rollercoaster where you wondered if you’d die at the end of it.
• As a coach, being open minded immersing yourself in learning will help you get the most from your coaching abilities and from your athletes.
• Being honest with yourself as an athlete is vital.
• Performance anxiety and mental health are two very different things and can get confused.

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Helpful Podcast Episodes

Podcast Ep033: Aly Dixon – Mental Toughness Lessons from a World Champion

Podcast Ep046: Kate Mackay – Why Snowboarding is a Metaphor for Life

Podcast Ep048: Natalie Hurdley – How to Build Mental Toughness through Powerlifting

Podcast Ep066: Marilyn Okoro – Mental Health and Resilience: Lessons from an Olympic Medalist

Other Useful Resources 

Blog - Make Better Decisions to Help Your Sport Performance

Blog - Coach Development: Helping Athletes Overcome Fear of Failure

Blog - Do You Really Want to Succeed

Blog - 12 Reasons Why You Won't Achieve Your Potential - Sports Psychology

Today’s guest Maria Jeffers has a background in psychometric testing and is the Business Development Manager for AQR International, who holds the licensing for the 4C’s Mental Toughness model.  Maria has a passion for mental toughness as well as horses.  In this episode, we discuss how mental toughness applies to horse riding and the challenges of parenting a child who enjoys competing on her horse. 

Key Takeaways

• Psychometrics are popularly used in recruitment to objectively understand candidates more.
• An individual or group's Mental Toughness as a personality trait, through the questionnaire, MTQ Plus can be measured.
• What someone is thinking is invisible yet has a big bearing on their behaviour.
• Mentally tough people are more adaptive when coping with stressors and challenges.
• Horses will very easily pick up if their rider is stressed.
• Parents can often influence how their children feel when they’re riding a horse.
• The rider and horse are a partnership.  
• How you talk to yourself and your horse is a skill that can be developed.

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Relevant Resources

Sport Psychology for Children and Parents 

Child and Youth Motivation for Sport Quiz

Parent Motivation for Sport Quiz

Sports Psychology Blogs For Kids

Sports Psychology Podcasts For Kids

In this solo episode, I again look at commitment, a measure of mental toughness, from different angles with the aim of helping you stay on top of your goals. Finding ways not to be derailed so easily when the inevitable setbacks and obstacles find you. I also touch on the importance of emotional control and managing your emotions on your journey.  Where I go on to share excerpts from 2 previous episodes of Demystifying Mental Toughness with European Tour Golfer Chris Paisley and the inspirational former 2 x World Champion in Para Triathlon Steve Judge, as well as discussing a quote from Hank Haney’s book “This Big Miss” where he discussed his coaching years with Tiger Woods.  

Some Questions to Ponder

• Do you work harder than your rivals?
• Do you set yourself daily focus goals to keep you on track?
• Do you have a plan when setbacks occur?
• Do you have outlets to release your emotions?
• Is your support team around you helping your express your emotions?
• Are you unable to maintain a bigger picture perspective when setbacks occur?
• Does thinking about what may go wrong scare you?
• Do you use visualisation as a way to mentally prepare yourself for challenges?

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Relevant Podcast Episodes

Ep002: Steve Judge –  How to Deal with Adversity

Ep004: Chris Paisley – Life on the European Tour

Ep068: Andrew Nicholson – How Hard Is It To Become A Tour Professional Golfer? 

Ep075: Grant Phyphers – How to Rebuild Your Identity

Ep081: Stuart Wade – Mental Toughness in Combat Sports

Relevant Blogs and Resources

Blog: Mental Preparation for Combat Sports

Blog: Developing Your Mental Game In Your Downtime

Blog: Helping Young Rugby Players Mentally Prepare Before Matches

Book: The Obstacle is the Way – Ryan Holiday

In this solo episode, I look at commitment, a measure of mental toughness from different angles.  Sharing excerpts from 2 previous episodes of Demystifying Mental Toughness with Steve Hackney and JJ Vallely, as well as discussing a quote from Arsene Wenger’s book “My Life in Red and White.”  Additionally, I talk about what I see as a common challenge for youngsters who play in team sports.  Having a high level of commitment coupled with low levels of interpersonal confidence. 

You’ll find I challenge your thinking, giving out some resources and ask you to ask yourself some important questions. It’s an episode that athletes, coaches, teachers and parents can benefit from.

Some Questions to Ponder

• Are your levels of commitment congruent with what the best do?
• Do you know what the daily habits of top performers are?
• Are you aware of what is the right information for you and how you find it?
• Do you ask yourself why you practice or train a certain way?
• Do you set daily goals for your practice or training?
• When you practice or train do you let your emotions take over?
• Can your high levels of commitment spoil your enjoyment?
• Are you a highly motivated and committed yet struggle with communicating with coaches and team-mates?
• Do you question coaches?
• Are you a coach who often gets into comparison mode, comparing athlete A against athlete B?  

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Relevant Podcast Episodes

Podcast Ep005: David Charlton - Observations The Art of Learning

Podcast Ep21: Steve Hackney – How to Reach Your Full Potential

Podcast Ep042: Mark Bennett MBE – Characteristics of High Performance Athletes

Podcast Ep062: JJ Vallely – Mastering the Mental Side Of Golf

Podcast Ep041: Paul McGee – How to Develop Interpersonal Confidence

Relevant Blogs and Resources

Blog - How To Reach Your Full Potential Part Three

Blog - 5 Ways to Create a Psychological Safe Sporting Environment

Blog Motivation vs Commitment | There is a Big Difference