CW: Breeding kink

We’re chatting about queering relationship dynamics with sex writer and erotica editor/author Mx Nillin Lore. Listen to them talk with Quenby about relationship escalators, romantic scripts, and queer-as-shit dynamics as they share their perspective as a queer, polyamorous, greyromantic andro-babe with a girl cock.

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CW: Discussions of Trauma, Homelessness, Sex Work, Transphobia

In our first episode back after the break Quenby is joined by autistic disabled transmasc writer Jem Zero to talk about intimacy and trauma in zir new book Home Within Skin. Join us as Quenby fanbies over the book, two award winning writers nerd out about immersive storytelling, and they bond over a mutual longing for gentacles.

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CW: Monsterfucking, Reference to Transphobia

Quenby is joined by Charlie to discuss monsterfucking in our horniest episode yet. Charlie uses their online presence to boost marginalized voices and writers, educate authors on topics ranging from commas to inclusivity, and connect with new people. But mostly they geek out about video games, space, and their fanfic. Join us as we discuss our shared love of monsterfucking, what's so damn sexy about it, and why it appeals to queer people. Also expect shameless flirting, discussion of which monsters we want to bone, and as always what sex toy they're getting stuck on a Desert Island with.

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CW: Discussions of Whorephobia, Biphobia, and Kink (including references to Choking)

This week Quenby is joined by bisexual sex worker, kinkster, and self-described polyamorous slut Kitty. She shares her thoughts on how divisions form between and within these distinct but related identities. We also chat about the politics around sex work, how kink means different things to different people, and the best outro we've ever recorded!

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This week Quenby is joined by sex blogging legend Girl On The Net to talk about their shared love of audio porn, misconceptions about it, and tips on how to give it a go as either a listener or a performer.

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CW: Discussion of physical, sexual, and psychological abuse

In this episode Quenby chats with sex blogger and poly kinkster Amy Norton about her experiences as a survivor and ways in which alt-sex communities can enable abuse.

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CW - Discussion of trauma (including childhood sexual abuse), and substance abuse.

In this episode Quenby chats with Black, working-class lesbian poet Andreena Leeanne about how poetry can help LGBT+ people process their experiences, and the special place queer events hold in both our hearts. She also shares some poems from her new book "Charred: A Survivor Speaks Her Truth To Inspire" and tells us about her Desert Island Sex Toy.

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I chat with Charlie about her experiences as a disabled sex worker and kinkster. Join us as we chat about the accessibility of sexual spaces, how disabled people are denied sexual agency, and how toxic masculinity harms people of all genders. Wherever you're listening please give us a follow, rate the show, and check us out @DIDildos on Twitter.

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CW - This episode talks about various forms of queerphobia, and the AIDS crisis in the 80s and 90s

This week Quenby chats with qenderqueer femme author Anne Stagg about the importance of queer history, the role fiction plays in reconstructing this heritage, and their experiences coming of age in the USA during the AIDS crisis. We also get to hear the beautiful reasons behind their choice of Desert Island sex toy.

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For our first episode Quenby chats with asexual comedian Eliott Simpson about his experiences growing up in a sex-centred world, and what dating's like for an asexual panromantic.

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