Desire Devotee

What if we lived in a world where pleasure wasn’t punished, feared, or hidden—but honored as holy? In this illuminating, edgy, and deeply liberating episode, we sit down with Jamie Love of Sex Positive World to imagine exactly that: a planet where everyone is free to explore their desires without shame. Together, we unpack what it truly means to live in a sex positive world beyond religious dogma, societal fear, and cultural repression. Tune in, this conversation is your permission slip to dream bigger, feel deeper, and co-create the erotic, liberated world we all deserve.

We Discuss ~

+ How do we create safe spaces for sexual exploration?

+ How do queer, non-binary, and fringe communities fit into this movement?

+ How has religion shaped a sex-negative world and what are the impacts?

+ What are the benefits of a sex-positive world?

+ How can you help build this world now?

Jamie Love is the executive director of sex positive world, a non-profit dedicated to community building around consent and sex positivity, and sex education for adults with online and in-person workshops.

Jamie is passionate about creating accessible sex education and community with vibrant “third places” where adults can explore intimacy, identity, and new experiences — Jamie Love is polyamorous, kinky, and a voyeristic ethical slut.

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What if betrayal wasn’t your breaking point—but your awakening? In this episode with Dr. Rikki Mullen, we unravel how betrayal—by lovers, family, or even our own bodies—can fracture trust and hijack our nervous systems. We’ll explore how self-abandonment paves the way for relational rupture and how reclaiming your boundaries, truth and embodied knowing is the key to calling in love that’s aligned, honoring and whole.

We Discuss ~

+ Healing after heartbreak and betrayal in relationships.

+ Healing after betrayal as a child from a primary care giver.

+ The art of repairing rupture and rebuilding after trust by has been broken in partnership.

+ How to re-empower the body’s wisdom of “full fuck yeses” and nos.”

+ The importance of re-wiring the nervous system for true transformation.

+ Why disconnection from our truth and leaky boundaries calls betrayal into our field.

+ How to come from a place of wholeness and worthiness to call in the love, relationships and intimacy we truly desire.

Dr. Rikki Mullen is a board-certified internal medicine physician, certified in sex therapy and psychedelic-assisted therapy, who has found her true purpose as an intimacy and relationship coach. She works closely with couples and individuals, guiding them to deepen their intimacy, connection, and fulfillment. Dr. Rikki also hosts customized retreats at her private ranch in the mountains of Topanga, offering transformative experiences for those ready to thrive in their relationships and embodied intimacy.

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What if betrayal wasn’t your breaking point—but your awakening? In this episode with Dr. Rikki Mullen, we unravel how betrayal—by lovers, family, or even our own bodies—can fracture trust and hijack our nervous systems. We’ll explore how self-abandonment paves the way for relational rupture and how reclaiming your boundaries, truth and embodied knowing is the key to calling in love that’s aligned, honoring and whole.

We Discuss ~

+ Healing after heartbreak and betrayal in relationships.

+ Healing after betrayal as a child from a primary care giver.

+ The art of repairing rupture and rebuilding after trust by has been broken in partnership.

+ How to re-empower the body’s wisdom of “full fuck yeses” and nos.”

+ The importance of re-wiring the nervous system for true transformation.

+ Why disconnection from our truth and leaky boundaries calls betrayal into our field.

+ How to come from a place of wholeness and worthiness to call in the love, relationships and intimacy we truly desire.

Dr. Rikki Mullen is a board-certified internal medicine physician, certified in sex therapy and psychedelic-assisted therapy, who has found her true purpose as an intimacy and relationship coach. She works closely with couples and individuals, guiding them to deepen their intimacy, connection, and fulfillment. Dr. Rikki also hosts customized retreats at her private ranch in the mountains of Topanga, offering transformative experiences for those ready to thrive in their relationships and embodied intimacy.

Connect with Dr. Rikki and get her Free, Intimacy E-Book

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In this raw and revelatory episode, we drop into the psychedelic heart of ketamine-assisted therapy for couples with the brilliant and grounded Courtney Padjen, uncovering the tender, taboo truths of this misunderstood medicine. Once feared and stigmatized, ketamine is now transforming relational healing—helping lovers dissolve walls, unlock deeper intimacy, and rewire the very brain patterns that block authentic connection. This isn’t about escaping reality—it’s about meeting it with new eyes, open hearts, and rewoven nervous systems. From neuroplasticity to the sacred art of emotional honesty, we explore how this soul technology may just be the key to rewriting your love story from the inside out.

We Discuss ~

+ What ketamine is and how it’s used in a therapeutic setting for couples.

+ The shadows of ketamine: misuse, escape, and how to build a respectful, conscious relationship with the medicine.

+ How ketamine helps couples feel safe, communicate authentically, and access deeper emotional intimacy.

+ The neuroscience behind ketamine’s impact on the brain in expanding neuroplasticity.

+ A step-by-step guide for seeking ketamine-assisted therapy—from preparation to integration.

Dr. Courtney Padjen, PhD, LMFT is a psychedelic-informed sex and trauma therapist. With an eclectic, no-judgment approach, she’ll dive deep into what matters most—your pleasure, your past, and your path forward.

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In this raw and revelatory episode, we drop into the psychedelic heart of ketamine-assisted therapy for couples with the brilliant and grounded Courtney Padjen, uncovering the tender, taboo truths of this misunderstood medicine. Once feared and stigmatized, ketamine is now transforming relational healing—helping lovers dissolve walls, unlock deeper intimacy, and rewire the very brain patterns that block authentic connection. This isn’t about escaping reality—it’s about meeting it with new eyes, open hearts, and rewoven nervous systems. From neuroplasticity to the sacred art of emotional honesty, we explore how this soul technology may just be the key to rewriting your love story from the inside out.

We Discuss ~

+ What ketamine is and how it’s used in a therapeutic setting for couples.

+ The shadows of ketamine: misuse, escape, and how to build a respectful, conscious relationship with the medicine.

+ How ketamine helps couples feel safe, communicate authentically, and access deeper emotional intimacy.

+ The neuroscience behind ketamine’s impact on the brain in expanding neuroplasticity.

+ A step-by-step guide for seeking ketamine-assisted therapy—from preparation to integration.

Dr. Courtney Padjen, PhD, LMFT is a psychedelic-informed sex and trauma therapist. With an eclectic, no-judgment approach, she’ll dive deep into what matters most—your pleasure, your past, and your path forward.

Connect with Courtney

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In this soul-baring episode we’re joined by the radiant Ali Mezzey, creatress of the Personal Geometrymethod—a transformative framework for revealing the hidden architecture of our sexual identity. Together, we dive deep into the often-unseen forces that shape how we love, how we express desire, and how we experience intimacy. Through Ali’s work, we explore the intimate geometry between heart, self and sex—and how reclaiming our true erotic design unlocks deeper pleasure, authenticity and relational power.

WE DISCUSS ~

+ What is actual sexual fulfillment vs the programmed ideals and fantasies?

+ Ali’s Personal Geometry method for uncovering your unique sexual and relational identity.

+ Heather and Elfina use the framework live to reveal their own hidden blocks around love and sexuality.

+ What the main obstacles are that unconsciously sabotage intimacy and self-expression

+ How to align and reclaim our most authentic sexuality possible.

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In this soul-baring episode we’re joined by the radiant Ali Mezzey, creatress of the Personal Geometrymethod—a transformative framework for revealing the hidden architecture of our sexual identity. Together, we dive deep into the often-unseen forces that shape how we love, how we express desire, and how we experience intimacy. Through Ali’s work, we explore the intimate geometry between heart, self and sex—and how reclaiming our true erotic design unlocks deeper pleasure, authenticity and relational power.

WE DISCUSS ~

+ What is actual sexual fulfillment vs the programmed ideals and fantasies?

+ Ali’s Personal Geometry method for uncovering your unique sexual and relational identity.

+ Heather and Elfina use the framework live to reveal their own hidden blocks around love and sexuality.

+ What the main obstacles are that unconsciously sabotage intimacy and self-expression

+ How to align and reclaim our most authentic sexuality possible.

Connect with Ali

Try Personal Geometry and Listen to her Podcast “The Brilliant Body”

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In this episode we go deep with Dr. Michael Curtis into the rarely discussed world of race play. Race play is a kink that explores racial power dynamics through consensual role-play, often within the queer community.

When held in a safe, conscious container, it can become a portal for healing ancestral pain and systemic trauma. We also unpack the term BBC—Big Black Cock and its origins, meanings, and modern use in porn and fetish culture. This episode is provocative, tender, and necessary—for those ready to face discomfort in service of liberation and love.

We Discuss ~

+ Race play as consensual kink for exploring racial power dynamics.

+ How it can heal ancestral trauma and systemic racism.

+ The origins of “BBC” from racist fetishization during slavery.

+ Compassion bridging the gap between our differences.

+ How weird kink can open deep doors to healing.

Dr. Michael Curtis is a licensed family therapist who has spent over 10 years helping queer men of color feel confident, healthy, and true to themselves.

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In this episode we go deep with Dr. Michael Curtis into the rarely discussed world of race play. Race play is a kink that explores racial power dynamics through consensual role-play, often within the queer community.

When held in a safe, conscious container, it can become a portal for healing ancestral pain and systemic trauma. We also unpack the term BBC—Big Black Cock and its origins, meanings, and modern use in porn and fetish culture. This episode is provocative, tender, and necessary—for those ready to face discomfort in service of liberation and love.

We Discuss ~

+ Race play as consensual kink for exploring racial power dynamics.

+ How it can heal ancestral trauma and systemic racism.

+ The origins of “BBC” from racist fetishization during slavery.

+ Compassion bridging the gap between our differences.

+ How weird kink can open deep doors to healing.

Dr. Michael Curtis is a licensed family therapist who has spent over 10 years helping queer men of color feel confident, healthy, and true to themselves.

We are SISociety, a global community dedicated to rewriting the narratives of taboo around sensuality, intimacy and sexuality. Follow us to continue these conversations as we flip the script and shatter social norms.

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In this sizzling episode of Taboo Talks, we dive deep into the realms of sexual pleasure, self-love, and healing, exploring the taboo experiences of prostate orgasms and anal play with Charlie Glickman. Charlie shares his expert insights on how to break free from shame and embrace prostate pleasure, offering guidance on techniques for couples to explore their erotic potential with ease and curiosity. Tune in for an open, authentic and informative discussion that will leave you both empowered and excited to explore new dimensions of your sexuality!

+ The spiritual and scientific significance of prostate orgasms, highlighting their expansive, full-bodied nature.

+ The Health Benefits of Prostate Massage and play.

+ How to have Safe Exploration of Anal Play for maximum pleasure

+ Practical tips for stimulating the prostate and the role of the nervous system

+ The Unique Experience of Prostate Orgasms in offering the potential for multiple, prolonged orgasms.

Charlie Glickman PhD is a sex and relationship coach, a somatic sexuality educator, a sexological bodyworker, and an internationally-acclaimed speaker. He’s been working in this field for over 35 years, and some of his areas of focus include sex and shame, sex-positivity, queer issues, masculinity and gender, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual and relationship practices. Charlie is also the co-author of The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure: Erotic Exploration for Men and Their Partners. In February 2023, Charlie completed an accountability process.

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