Maybe if you were able to communicate what is on your heart or your mind in a loving way, you might just shift the energy enough to make a difference. 

We're so wired to be afraid of having a tough conversation, but the only thing we should be afraid of is what happens if we don't. Change doesn't happen in relationships unless we're willing to express what is on our hearts. And it certainly doesn't happen if we're not willing to listen. Try both, and watch magic happen.