In this episode of Dining Room Stories, the conversation with Adam D’Sylva moves well beyond menus and accolades. It is a grounded reflection on how a chef’s identity is shaped over time, by family, discipline, restraint, and the confidence to simplify.
D’Sylva’s story begins not in a professional kitchen, but in a migrant household where food was central to daily life. Raised between Italian and Indian traditions, he grew up surrounded by produce, home cooking, and rigorous routines. His early exposure to food was practical and communal rather than aspirational. Pasta, passata, wine-making, and shared meals formed the foundation of his palate long before technique entered the picture. This upbringing instilled a respect for ingredients and repetition, values that still underpin his cooking today.
As the conversation unfolds, D’Sylva reflects on his professional journey through Melbourne’s kitchens, from apprenticeships to leading some of the city’s most influential venues. He speaks candidly about the intensity of restaurant life, the contrast between hotel kitchens and independent restaurants, and the freedom that comes with working in environments where decisions can be made instinctively. For him, restaurants offered space to respond, adjust, and cook with intent rather than obligation.
A recurring theme is balance, between creativity and familiarity, ambition and sustainability. D’Sylva is clear that simplicity is not a shortcut but a skill earned over time. Whether discussing Italian or Indian cuisine, he challenges the assumption that complexity equals quality. Instead, he emphasises flavour balance, restraint, and understanding when to stop. A squeeze of acid, correct seasoning, or proper technique often matters more than additional elements.
This philosophy carries through to his approach at Decca, where the focus is on clarity rather than concept. The menu reflects how he eats and how people genuinely want to eat: well-made pasta, carefully cooked proteins, and dishes that reward consistency. There is no attempt to chase trends or overstate ideas. Confidence, in this context, shows up as calm execution and knowing what does not need to be changed.
Family also plays a quiet but constant role in the discussion. D’Sylva speaks openly about cooking for his children, maintaining standards at home, and how personal taste influences professional decisions. Food remains emotional, habitual, and deeply personal. That connection, he suggests, is what separates restaurants that feel lived-in from those that feel transactional.
Ultimately, the episode presents a portrait of a chef comfortable with his craft and his place within it. There is no urgency to prove, only a commitment to doing things properly. In an industry often driven by noise and novelty, D’Sylva’s perspective is measured, deliberate, and refreshingly clear.