DINING WITH NADIVA A TNT PRODUCTION Ep. 19 GUESTN HOSTS:                 Antonia (Antham Spekaks & Keisha) DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Do looks really matter, honestly? WORD OF THE DAY:  Piffle - 1. (noun) nonsense, as trivial or senseless talk Synonym(s): balderdash, foolishness, gibberish, hogwash Antonym(s): sense, truth Sentence: It is piffle to say that violence is ever acceptable.  FEATURED RESTAURANT: ICE CREAM: ?????? Owners: ????? DISHES:     Pint of Ice Cream    DIVA TABLE TOPIC:  Do looks really matter, honestly?   WORD OF THE DAY:  Piffle - 1. (noun) nonsense, as trivial or senseless talk Synonym(s): balderdash, foolishness, gibberish, hogwash Antonym(s): sense, truth STATS:  Research suggests that we do not want partners who are extremely attractive, but those who are attractive enough. In a research conducted by Griffin and Langlois, a lack of attractiveness was associated with negative qualities, but moderate attractiveness was necessary to make one’s associations positive. - Healthshots.com  SCRIPTURE:   1 Peter 3:3-4  3. Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. - Passage Bible

DINING WITH NADIVA A TNT PRODUCTION Ep. 18 GUESTN HOSTS:                 Antonia (Antham Spekaks & Keisha) DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: What is your recovery time after a breakup? WORD OF THE DAY:  Beamish -  1. (adjective) beaming with happiness, optimism, or anticipation Sentence: Most kids are beamish when they visit amusement parks and playgrounds.  FEATURED RESTAURANT: BurgerIM 477 S.Washington Ave, Bergenfield, NJ 07621 www.burgerim.com Owners: Amish Burgerim means Many Burgers in Hebrew - Burgerim has many locations across the nation, we own only one location. It's family owned and operated business. Owner is Indian Heritage comes from minority group.We serve Family and Party Boxes in family style meal. We deliver thru DoorDash, UberEats and Grubhub DISHES:     FAMILY BOX: 8 Burgers, Chicken Wings, Burgerim Fries & Onion Rings                       Strawberry Milkshake & Cookies and Cream    DIVA TABLE TOPIC:  What is your recovery time after a breakup? WORD OF THE DAY:  Beamish -  1. (adjective) beaming with happiness, optimism, or anticipation STATS:  Studies suggest that people start to feel better around three months post-breakup. One study found it takes three months and 11 days before the average American feels ready to date again after a major breakup. - ZENCARE.com  SCRIPTURE:   Psalm 147:3 “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” The Good News: No matter the source of your heartbreak, God can repair your wounds.

DINING WITH NADIVA EP. 17  Intro:   Antonia AKA Anthem Speaks          T.L. Hopkins – Opiniated Black Dads Podcast  DIVA/DIVO TABLE TOPIC:  How important is financial independence coming into a relationship? Is your money “your money” and is their money “their money?” WORD OF THE DAY:  BUOYANT – Successful or making a profit, able to float.  SENTENCE: “With a great deal of confidence, the buoyant model strolled down the runway.”   FEATURED RESTAURANT: Deli Express     15 W Hudson Ave, Englewood, NJ 0763     (201) 731-3047     DISHES:    Garden Salad; Shrimp Taco     Strawberry & Banana Smoothie     Green Juice (Apple; Ginger; Celery & Spinach)   DIVA/DIVO TABLE TOPIC:   How important is financial independence coming into a relationship? Is your money “your money” and is their money “their money?” STATS: www.livewellwithsharonmartin.com Key Points Talking openly about money is the starting point for a financially healthy relationship. Living together means sharing, but a strong relationship also requires individual financial knowledge and autonomy. Being financially independent means you can work together more confidently to achieve your mutual as well as personal goals.  Luke 6:38 — The New International Version (NIV) 38 Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.”

DINING WITH NADIVA EP. 16  Intro:     Antonia AKA Anthem Speaks     T.L. Hopkins – Opiniated Black Dads Podcast  DIVA/DIVO TABLE TOPIC:  What are some red flags you find while dating? WORD OF THE DAY:   SURLY – Often in a bad mood, unfriendly, and not polite. SENTENCE: “When asked to clean the windshield, the surly gas station attendant tossed a dirty rag at the customer and walked away.”   FEATURED RESTAURANT: Maple Valley Diner  https://maplevalleydiner.com/     1116 US-46, Clifton, NJ 07013  (973) 473-6444DISHES:          DIVA/DIVO TABLE TOPIC:   What are some red flags you find while dating? STATS: www.livewellwithsharonmartin.com What are the signs of red flags in a relationship?  Relationship red flags include: Inability to resolve conflicts. ... Controlling behavior or a lack of trust. ... You don't feel like you can be fully yourself. ... Your friends and family members have expressed concerns about your partner or relationship. ... You're conceding rather than compromising.  Matthew 10:1616 “I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves.

DINING WITH NADIVA EP. 15  Intro:     Antonia AKA Anthem Speaks     T.L. Hopkins – Opiniated Black Dads Podcast  DIVA/DIVO TABLE TOPIC:  What are some good characteristics you find in a potential mate? WORD OF THE DAY:   YOKE – To join together. SENTENCE: “As soon as the farmer had yoked his oxen together, he began to plow the fields.”   FEATURED RESTAURANT: Chillers Grill  https://chillersgrill.com    2191 Fletcher Ave, Fort Lee, NJ 07024     (201) 461-0075DISHES:          DIVA/DIVO TABLE TOPIC:   What are some good characteristics you find in a potential mate? Stats: Chapman University Study New research on what people find 'desirable' and 'essential' in a long-term partner is based on two of the largest national studies of mate preferences ever conducted. The studies examined how heterosexual mate preferences differed according to a person's gender, age, personal income, education and appearance satisfaction.  Genesis 2:18 Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.

DINING WITH NADIVA EP. 14  Intro:  Antonia AKA Antham Speaks     T.L. Hopkins – Opinionated Black Dads Podcast  DIVA/DIVO TABLE TOPIC:  Dating “NOW” vs “THEN” WORD OF THE DAY: NINCOMPOOP – A person lacking intelligence or common sense SENTENCE: “It is difficult to wave someone off as an unthinking nincompoop if they otherwise agree with you.   FEATURED RESTAURANT:  Majestic Combination Catering – Tameka (Owner) DISHES: Rasta Pasta; Rice N Peas ; Jerk Chicken & Pepper Shrimp   DIVA/DIVO TABLE TOPIC: Dating “NOW” vs “THEN” STATS: EHarmony.com  40% OF AMERICANS USE ONLINE DATING. ... MORE MEN USE ONLINE DATING THAN WOMEN. ... AGE CAN IMPACT FINDING A MATCH. ... 53% OF PEOPLE LIE ON THEIR ONLINE DATING PROFILE. ... FEMALE USERS AREN'T JUST LOOKING FOR HOOK-UPS. ... 20% OF CURRENT, COMMITTED RELATIONSHIPS BEGAN ONLINE.   Psalm 32:8 “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.”

DINING WITH NADIVA A PRODUCTION Season 2 Ep. 13   DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: What do you do when things change after you say I do?  WORD OF THE DAY: Svelte -  slender, especially gracefully slender in figure; lithe. Ex. After losing weight, the dancer appeared much more svelte and slender when moving.   FEATURED RESTAURANT: Big Red Tomato 205 Anderson Ave Fort Lee, NJ 07024 http://www.brtnj.com/201-224-6500Owners: Ryan DISHES: SEAFOOD RISOTTO : Combination of mussels, shrimp, clams, scallops sauteed with cherry tomatoes, scallions in a white wine served over saffron Risotto. RIGATONI FIORENTINA: Fresh chicken pieces & sautéed spinach in a creamy pink sauce tossed with mozzarella cheese LA TOSCANA  CHICKEN VALDOSTANA: Tender piece of breaded chicken rolled with sautéed spinach & mozzarella cheese, lightly fried and baked with mushrooms in a marsala sauce   Rigatoni Fiorentina     DIVA TABLE TOPIC: What do you do when things change after you say I do?       SCRIPTURE: Romans 15:5-6 Now may the God of patience and comfort grant you to be like-minded toward one another, according to Christ Jesus, that you may with one mind and one mouth glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.

DINING WITH NADIVA  Season 2 Ep. 12   DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Love Addiction. What is Love Addiction? Triggers/Symptoms: Addiction Center Needing to be in love. Putting the romantic partner on a pedestal. Obsessing over romantic interest. Experiencing cravings, withdrawals, euphoria, and dependency on their partner. Needing to fall in love often. Seeking emotional comfort from a partner to the point of unrequited love. An inability to be alone. Just to name a few…..  WORD OF THE DAY: Hullaballoo- A lot of noise or fuss made by people who are angry or excited about something. Ex. After they won the national championship, there was a hullabaloo throughout the arena.    FEATURED RESTAURANT: Natural Vybz Energy Bar 1356 Queen Anne Road  [email protected] 201-837-6281 Owners: Taj - T - Byron     DIVA TABLE TOPIC:  Love Addiction.   Triggers/Symptoms: Addiction Center Needing to be in love. Putting the romantic partner on a pedestal. Obsessing over romantic interest. Experiencing cravings, withdrawals, euphoria, and dependency on their partner. Needing to fall in love often. Seeking emotional comfort from a partner to the point of unrequited love. An inability to be alone. FROM Psychology Today:    Love addiction (also known as pathological love) refers to a “pattern of behavior characterized by a maladaptive, pervasive and excessive interest towards one or more romantic partners, resulting in lack of control, the renounce of other interests and behavior, and other negative consequences” (p. 39).1 In love addiction, immature love—love that is uncertain, external, blind, and beyond one’s control—permeates one’s life      SCRIPTURE:  1 Peter 5:10 10 And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.

DINING WITH NADIVA  Season 2 Ep. 11   DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Should couples split costs?  WORD OF THE DAY:  Nonversation- A completely worthless conversation, wherein nothing is illuminated, explained, or otherwise elaborated upon. Typically occurs at parties, bars, or other events where a meaningful conversation is nearly impossible.  Ex. I had the most painful conversation with my girlfriend's ignorant bigoted father.    FEATURED RESTAURANT: A Taste of Island Spice 1287 TEANECK ROAD TEANECK, NJ 07666 (201) 833-8017www.atasteofislandspicenj.com Owners: Raymond and Nicole Hardy    DISHES:  Oxtails Jerk Chicken Rice and Peas Steamed Cabbage Sweet Plantains        DIVA TABLE TOPIC:  Should couples split costs?  Stats: MarketWatch.com: Certified financial planner John Bodnar, founder of Bodnar Financial Advisors in Florham Park, N.J., says that “there is no right or wrong way” to do this, “only the way that works for you both.” He adds: Some couples are more comfortable splitting it 50-50, and others decide paying bills based on a percentage of income is fair. You figure this all out, he says, by having “ a respectful, two-sided discussion” about how to handle your expenses.    SCRIPTURE:  2 Corinthians 9:7 ESV Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.  #NadivaShow #Interview #LiveShow #painfulConversation

DINING WITH NADIVA Season 2 Ep. 10  DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Workplace romance?  WORD OF THE DAY: Jomo - is an acronym standing for the expression joy of missing out, and it simply refers to the gratifying feeling you get when you break away from the (real or virtual) activities of your social group and spend time doing exactly what you most want to do. Ex. "She encourages viewers to nurture JOMO behaviour by testing out being alone in "acceptable places" like the bathroom, coffee shops and the library. It's not much of a stretch to "stall," as she puts it, and read a paper or people-watch.'  FEATURED RESTAURANT: Bro-Ritos Food Truck 646-771-0111                                                                   137 1/2 Main St. Hackensack, NJ 07601 Email - [email protected] www.broritosfoodtruck.com      DISHES:  Suavamente Bro- Rice, Beans, Ground Beef, Maduros ( Sweet Plantains), topped with Hot Sauce, Sour Cream, and Cheese Big Fella Bro- Rice, Beans, Chipotle Chicken, Ground Beef, Sauteed Sweet Peppers, topped with Lettuce, Cheese, Salsa, Sour Cream Chicken Quesadilla- 12inch wrap with our Chicken Chipotle topped with Cheese toasted to perfection with a side of Salsa and Sour Cream   DIVA TABLE TOPIC: Workplace romance?  Stats: According to the survey, produced by job site Vault.com, 58% of employees have engaged in a romantic relationship with a colleague. A surprising 72% of those over 50 years old have been romantically involved with a coworker.  According to bamboohr.com, 27 percent of employees say they are open to engaging in romantic relationships with coworkers. 22 percent of US married couples in the U.S. met at work.  SCRIPTURE: Ruth 2: 3 - 19 3. So she went out and began to glean in the fields behind the harvesters. As it turned out, she found herself working in a field belonging to Boaz, who was from the clan of Elimelech. 5. Boaz asked the foreman of his harvesters, "Whose young woman is that?" 6. The foreman replied, "She is the Moabitess who came back from Moab with Naomi. 8. So Boaz said to Ruth, "My daughter, listen to me. Don't go and glean in another field and don't go away from here. Stay here with my servant girls. 9. Watch the field where the men are harvesting, and follow along after the girls. I have told the men not to touch you. And whenever you are thirsty, go and get a drink from the water jars the men have filled." 19. Her mother-in-law asked her, "Where did you glean today? Where did you work? Blessed be the man who took notice of you!" Then Ruth told her mother-in-law about the one at whose place she had been working. "The name of the man I worked with today is Boaz," she said.