Pride breeds contempt. That is the bad prideful description. Yet we also need to be proud of how God made and blessed us. That is our strength against people who put us down.
Doubt everywhere. Pray for faith, set actions with that faith (I went looking for my wife’s credit card the last place the bank showed she used it) and celebrate with God when you are blessed with victory.
My daughter is being told her voice is horrible, her haircut is bad, her drawings are terrible. She wants to be home schooled but dealing with people that don’t like you is part of growing up.