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In this raw and reflective episode, Giddy opens up about the heartbreak of a four-year relationship built on sweet words and hidden truths. What started as a promising long-distance love unraveled into a shocking revelation—one unearthed not by confrontation, but by quiet investigation and a single Facebook photo.

As Lux listens in and offers his grounded insight, Giddy shares the emotional aftermath of discovering her partner had a decade-long live-in girlfriend. From confronting the red flags to regaining her dignity through a sharply worded farewell text, her story is a powerful reminder of how truth eventually finds its way to light.  

The conversation doesn’t shy away from the scars—emotional manipulation, the loneliness of midlife dating, and a surprising encounter with a scammer surgeon (or three). But through it all, Giddy stands tall, proving that even battle-worn hearts can still beat with wisdom, humor, and hope.

🔹 If you’ve ever been blindsided by love… this one's for you.
 🔹 If you're dating after 50 and wondering who’s real… listen in.
 🔹 And if you’ve Googled someone after a weird gut feeling… welcome to the club.

Dirty Bathwater dives deep this week—not just into the muck of deception, but the quiet triumph of pulling yourself out. 

Giddy's blog can be found here. 

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Welcome to Dirty Bathwater: Dating After 50, with your hosts Giddy and Lux—where we dive deep into the realities of finding love in a tech-driven world.

Today, we’re exploring the ever-evolving landscape of online connections—from meta-style dating platforms to the rising risks of deepfake scams. As technology advances, so do the ways people seek companionship—but are we heading toward meaningful relationships or a world where digital deception is harder to detect than ever?

We’ll break down what’s changing, who’s adapting, and how to stay ahead of the curve as dating moves further into the virtual space. So buckle up, because modern love is no longer just about chemistry—it’s about navigating algorithms, avatars, and AI-driven manipulation.  Giddy shares her thoughts on her blog. 

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Episode Title: "Year of the Wood Snake – Love, Luck, and Lunar New Year"

In this special episode, Giddy and Lux bring the spark of the Chinese New Year 2025 to the podcast as they slither into the Year of the Wood Snake! 🐍✨

The gang dives into the 5 luckiest animal signs for the year—Snake, Rooster, Ox, Rat, and Dragon—and explores what this means for love, relationships, and life after 50.

But that’s not all! They dish up a buffet of fun topics, including:
 🥠 Eating lucky foods to start the year off right,
🧧 The traditions that bring prosperity and joy,
💖 And, as always, a little wisdom on finding love at any age.

Grab your chopsticks and join Giddy and Lux for a lively, insightful, and lucky start to the Lunar New Year!   Giddy, of course, has some thoughts in her blog. 

Tune in now and let’s make 2025 your most romantic and prosperous year yet! 🐲🎉

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In this lively episode of Dirty Bathwater: Dating After 50, hosts Giddy and Lux dive into a thought-provoking conversation about embracing life after 50. Lux passionately argues against the idea of planning for the end, urging listeners to focus instead on living vibrantly. Why should we fixate on wills, retirement homes, and burial plots when there are countless adventures waiting to be explored?

With the advancements in technology, many of us are looking at longer, healthier lives—so why not make the most of them? From planning exciting vacations to pursuing that dream vocation or hobby, Lux encourages everyone to step outside their comfort zones and embrace new possibilities.

Giddy brings her signature humor and charm to the discussion, adding a light-hearted touch to Lux’s earnest plea. Together, they inspire listeners to rethink their perspective on aging and embrace the adventures that lie ahead.  Here's a bit more from her blog. 

Join us for a fun and uplifting conversation that will motivate you to live fully and joyfully—because life after 50 is just the beginning!

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Welcome to Dirty Bathwater, the number one dark comedy podcast about dating! We’re Giddy and Lux, your trusty guides navigating the wild waters of romance. As the holiday season approaches, we’re diving into a festive topic: where to meet that special someone when the mistletoe is in the air!

In this episode, we’ll explore unconventional places to connect—think shopping malls, bingo nights, church events, and festive gatherings. We’ll share our tips on how to strike up a conversation without sounding like a complete weirdo and avoid those whiskey-fueled encounters that leave you regretting your life choices.

Join us as we recount our own hilarious experiences and offer advice on making meaningful connections during this chaotic time. Whether you’re a seasoned dater or just dipping your toes back into the pool of love, we’re here to help you navigate the ups and downs of dating while keeping the laughs rolling.

So, grab your holiday cookies and join us for a fun-filled episode that’s all about love, laughter, and maybe a little bit of awkwardness. Remember, it’s all an adventure, so let’s have some fun and try not to hurt anyone along the way!

Giddy's blog suggests a few books for this holidays season. 

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First of all, we wish you a Happy Thanksgiving if you are in the U.S.  Sorry, Canada, we already missed yours!  Thank you all for listening to this show.   That's why we keep on!

In this episode of "Dirty Bathwater: Dating After 50," hosts Giddy and Lux explore the playful and intriguing world of finding love as a senior. Join us as we discuss innovative tips on where to shop for your next date, both online and offline. From local community events to engaging online platforms, we’ll help you discover the best places to meet potential matches. Plus, we’ll share essential strategies to prepare for online dating, including how to create an appealing profile and what to look for in potential partners. Tune in for a lively conversation that will empower you to navigate the dating scene with confidence and flair!

We also chat about being single during Thanksgiving.   Giddy shares a bit about giving thanks from a personal perspective in her blog. 

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Hey this is Lux and I wanted to do something special for Halloween2024 and show graditute for your support after all these years . Just a warning its a bit scary so listen with a friend.
with much Love everyone, Lux and Giddy

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Welcome to a spooktacular Halloween special of Dirty Bathwater: Dating After 50! I'm Giddy, joined by my fabulous co-host Lux. This week, we're diving into some delightful ways to celebrate Halloween, even if you’ve outgrown trick-or-treating.

Lux has some enchanting suggestions for refined activities that will charm the sophisticated soul, ensuring your Halloween is filled with joy and elegance. Meanwhile, I’ll be sharing some scrumptious treat ideas that come with a surprise twist—because who doesn’t love a little excitement?

So grab your broomsticks and join us as we explore how to make this Halloween unforgettable, whether you’re enjoying it solo or on a date. Let’s embrace the fun and spookiness of the season together!

And then there's Giddy's blog!  Boo!

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Welcome to Dirty Bathwater: Dating After 50, where hosts Giddy and Lux dive deep into the complexities of love, beauty, and self-acceptance in midlife. In today’s episode, they tackle the provocative topic of beauty standards and challenge the notion that attractiveness is dictated by societal opinions.

Giddy and Lux reflect on a recent article suggesting that "unattractive" people should change their appearance to find love. Lux passionately disagrees, arguing that true beauty comes from within and shouldn’t be dictated by external judgments. Together, they share personal stories and experiences that illustrate how genuine connections often transcend physical appearances. Join them as they embrace the idea that beauty is defined not by others, but by how you see yourself.

As always, Giddy adds her bit of advice in her blog. 

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Welcome to Dirty Bathwater, the number one dark comedy podcast about dating! We’re Giddy and Lux, your guides through the wild and unpredictable world of romance. With three years of experience, we’ve navigated the chaos of dating during a pandemic and discovered that even at 50, the dating scene can be just as crazy.

In this long-awaited episode, we catch up on what we've been up to and dive into the ins and outs of online dating. I’ve had my fair share of scams, but I’ve learned not to put my heart on the line too soon. Join us for laughs, lessons, and a dose of reality as we explore the ups and downs of dating today!

Giddy has her own thoughts about summer romance in her blog.  

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