We are talking about discernable seasons. Do you know what season of life you are in at the moment? If you can properly discern it and then become acclimated,  you will less likely frustrate yourself. Do not be so quick to skip this season because you are in a hurry to “get somewhere.” Most of us are so focused on arriving at our destiny, that we do not understand that most of our character is developed during the journey. There are three definable seasons of life. The learning is the most important. In this season you will discover the most about yourself. During this time, you will discover traits about yourself as well as relationships and how they either benefit or diminish you. In whose presence do you thrive? What is the atmosphere that speaks to the creative you? Creative people do not flourish in a rigid atmosphere.  If you are person who craves structure, you will not be peaceful in an atmosphere that is loose and unbuttoned. It is imperative that we understand how we are wired as individuals and move toward what is a natural fit. We learn sometimes through what we eliminate as well as what is revealed. Pain is a signal. It indicates. It is a result of disorder or disobedience. Relationships that produce pain, will either torture us or teach us. Who challenges you? Who frustrates you? Anger causes us to back up and reassess. Who is a constant source of fatigue and struggling? Who is a source of encouragement and empowerment? You must learn these things. This will shave years of disappointment and frustration from your life. This insight, will likewise propel you faster and farther into your divine destiny.