It is critical disclosures are handled properly. When do you need a therapist involved? Do you or she need or want a polygraph? How do you handle it when you both might have indiscretions to report? How many details are important, and how do you decide how much you want to know? So many questions can arise when it comes to this important, sensitive, and necessary step. Whether you are thinking about rebuilding or not, at some point you will need to address the breach of trust.