The DeMeyer family shares the rich history and evolution of the Grayslake Feed Sales, a cornerstone business in Grayslake, Illinois. The conversation covers the store’s adaptation over generations, its deep community ties, and the family’s passion for animal care. Listeners hear personal stories, business insights, and plans for the store’s 85th anniversary celebration, all highlighting the warmth, resilience, and commitment that make the Grayslake Feed Sales a beloved local institution.  

Dr. Terry Miller, a lifelong Grayslake resident and chiropractor. Dr. Miller shares memories of growing up in Grayslake, his journey into chiropractic care inspired by sports injuries, and the legacy of the local practice he now runs—founded in 1922. The conversation covers the challenges and evolution of chiropractic as a profession.

 Dr. Miller’s coaching experiences, and the importance of community. Dr. Miller also discusses lesser-known benefits of chiropractic care and emphasizes patient-centered, preventative health approaches. 

State Representative Laura Faver Dias discusses her journey from teacher to public servant and her deep ties to Grayslake. Laura shares insights on local politics, community events, and her passion for education and healthcare. The conversation highlights her approachable style, commitment to serving all residents, and efforts to connect seniors with vital resources.

Mayor Elizabeth Davies discusses the village’s transition to a new garbage service provider and other community updates. Mayor Davies explains the careful decision-making behind the change, highlighting cost savings, preserved services like leaf vacuuming, and Grayslake’s commitment to sustainability. The conversation also covers downtown improvements, the new nature trail gazebo, and the village’s fiscally responsible, debt-free approach to funding projects. 

In this episode, host David Woll welcome's the Grayslake Chamber of Commerce to discuss the upcoming Grayslake Summerfest 2025. They share the festival’s exciting music lineup, family-friendly activities, and the importance of local sponsorships. Listeners get a behind-the-scenes look at the planning, community involvement, and new features like the expanded kids’ area. With a friendly, hometown spirit, the episode invites everyone to join in the fun, support local businesses, and celebrate Grayslake’s vibrant community at this beloved summer tradition.

Javier Franco, a military veteran and dedicated community member. Javier shares his journey to Grayslake, his passion for youth soccer through AYSO, and the importance of volunteering. The conversation highlights Grayslake’s welcoming spirit, the value of local involvement, and the positive impact of youth sports. With heartfelt stories and practical advice, this episode celebrates the people and programs that make Grayslake a vibrant hometown. 

Building Community Through Youth Soccer: Lessons from Grayslake’s AYSO with Javier Franco

Discovering Grayslake isn’t just a podcast—it’s a celebration of the people, businesses, and stories that make this hometown special. In a recent episode, host David Wall sat down with Javier Franco, a military veteran, father, and passionate youth soccer coach, to explore how local involvement, volunteerism, and the beautiful game of soccer are shaping the fabric of Grayslake. This in-depth blog post unpacks the main themes and actionable insights from their conversation, offering a roadmap for anyone looking to make a difference in their community—on or off the field.

Table of Contents

The Power of Local Involvement AYSO: More Than Just Soccer Coaching: Leadership Over Technical Expertise Player Development: A Long-Term, Inclusive Approach The Heartbeat of Grayslake: Community Spirit Actionable Tips for Getting Involved The Lasting Impact of Volunteering Final Thoughts: Be a Good Human

The Power of Local Involvement

Javier Franco’s journey to Grayslake is a testament to the transformative power of community. After years of moving due to military service and work, Javier and his family chose Grayslake for its welcoming neighborhoods, excellent schools, and the “Pleasantville” atmosphere where kids and dogs play freely and neighbors look out for one another.

Key Takeaways: Community Roots Matter:** Settling in a place with a strong sense of belonging can have a profound impact on family life and personal well-being. Local Businesses as Pillars:** Organizations like Grayslake Rehabilitation Center, Servpro of Northwest Lake County, and City Chevrolet of Grayslake are not just businesses—they’re community partners invested in the town’s success.

Actionable Advice: Attend local events and support small businesses to strengthen community ties. Get to know your neighbors—simple acts like a friendly wave or a helping hand go a long way.

AYSO: More Than Just Soccer

The American Youth Soccer Organization (AYSO) in Grayslake is a model for how youth sports can foster community, inclusivity, and lifelong learning. Javier, now a coach and community advocate, highlights several unique aspects of the program:

Structure and Philosophy

Grassroots to High School:** Programs start as early as age 4 (“six-you” group) and extend through high school, with age-appropriate training and competition. Certified Coaching:** All coaches receive nationally recognized training, ensuring consistency and quality across the board. Inclusive Programs:** Beyond the core age groups, AYSO offers adult leagues and the EPIC program for children with special needs (available in nearby regions).

Community-Driven Leadership

Volunteer-Led:** The program thrives on the dedication of parent volunteers, many of whom have deep roots in the community. Mentorship:** Experienced coaches mentor new volunteers, creating a supportive environment for both players and adults.

Expert Insight:   AYSO’s focus isn’t just on winning games—it’s about developing better players and better people. The organization’s 40-year legacy in Grayslake is a testament to its impact, with multi-generational involvement and a strong sense of town pride.

Coaching: Leadership Over Technical Expertise

One of the most powerful messages from Javier’s story is that you don’t need to be a soccer expert to be a great youth coach. What matters most is your ability to lead, inspire, and connect with kids.

Breaking Down the Barriers

Leadership Skills Trump Technical Skills:** Javier and his wife both became coaches despite different athletic backgrounds. Their success comes from their ability to motivate and manage children, not from deep soccer knowledge. Free, Ongoing Training:** AYSO provides free, high-quality training for all coaches, including mentorship from those with semi-professional and international experience. Encouraging New Volunteers:** Many parents hesitate to volunteer, fearing they lack expertise. Javier’s advice: If you can lead and care for kids, you can coach.

Actionable Advice: Step up to volunteer, even if you’re new to the sport. Leverage your life and leadership experience. Take advantage of training and mentorship opportunities—AYSO and similar organizations are invested in your success.

Player Development: A Long-Term, Inclusive Approach

AYSO’s player development model is built on the belief that every child deserves the chance to grow, regardless of skill level or background.

Key Elements

Age-Appropriate Progression:** From basic coordination and ball control at age 4 to small-sided games and advanced skills in later years. Focus on Fundamentals:** Weekly practices and summer programs emphasize core skills like dribbling, passing, and shooting, reinforced over time. Inclusivity:** Programs are designed to welcome all players, including those with no prior experience or those with special needs.

Competitive Yet Supportive

Travel and Competition:** Contrary to the myth that recreational soccer isn’t competitive, Grayslake teams often play against other communities, fostering healthy rivalry and growth. Player-Centric Philosophy:** The goal is to help each child improve and enjoy the game, whether they aspire to play at the highest levels or just want to have fun.

Expert Advice: Choose programs that prioritize development and inclusivity over short-term wins. Encourage your child to try new things and support their growth, regardless of their starting point.

The Heartbeat of Grayslake: Community Spirit

Javier’s story is woven into the larger narrative of Grayslake’s community spirit. From the redesigned AYSO shield symbolizing town pride to the multi-generational connections at Chamber of Commerce events, the message is clear: youth sports are about more than just the game.

Building Lasting Connections

Family and Tradition:** Many families have been involved with AYSO for decades, creating a sense of continuity and shared purpose. Events and Outreach:** Community events like Summer Days and Taste of Grayslake bring people together, while soccer programs offer outreach to immigrant and underserved families.

Actionable Advice: Attend and support local events to deepen your connection to the community. Look for ways to use sports and other activities as vehicles for outreach and inclusion.

Actionable Tips for Getting Involved

Ready to make a difference in your hometown? Here’s how you can get started, inspired by Javier’s journey:

1. Register Your Child for Soccer Visit grayslakesoccer.com for easy online registration. Follow “Grayslake Soccer 396” on Facebook for updates, photos, and community news.

2. Volunteer Your Time Coaching isn’t the only way to help—consider roles in administration, event planning, or equipment management. No experience? No problem. Training and mentorship are available.

3. Support Local Businesses and Events Frequent local restaurants and shops. Attend community events and bring your family and friends.

4. Spread Kindness and Positivity Perform small acts of kindness daily—hold the door, smile, greet a neighbor. Remember that everyone is facing their own challenges; empathy goes a long way.

The Lasting Impact of Volunteering

Javier and David both emphasize that volunteers are the backbone of any thriving community. Whether you’re coaching, helping at a food pantry, or supporting local government, your efforts matter.

Why Volunteer?

Personal Growth:** Volunteering builds leadership, communication, and organizational skills. Community Impact:** Volunteers create opportunities, foster inclusion, and make Grayslake a better place for everyone. Unexpected Opportunities:** As Javier’s story shows, volunteering can open doors you never expected—from podcast interviews to lifelong friendships.

Expert Tip:   Start small. Even a few hours a month can make a big difference. Look for causes that align with your interests and values.

Final Thoughts: Be a Good Human

As the episode closes, David Wall leaves listeners with a simple but powerful message: “Be a good human being.” Whether you’re coaching soccer, supporting a neighbor, or just going about your day, kindness and community spirit are what truly make Grayslake—and any hometown—special.

Key Reminders: Get involved, even if it’s outside your comfort zone. Support and uplift those around you. Celebrate the small victories and the people who make them possible.

Stay Connected

Subscribe to “Discovering Grayslake” on your favorite platform—Spotify, Apple, Amazon, YouTube—and join the conversation about what makes our community great.

Ready to get involved?   Visit grayslakesoccer.com or reach out to your local organizations. Your hometown needs you!

About the Author:   This post is inspired by the voices and stories of Grayslake, with special thanks to David Wall and Javier Franco for their dedication to building a stronger, kinder, and more connected community.

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Ryan shares his journey from helping launch the Oasis teen center, a project that fostered lifelong friendships and shaped the town’s culture. The conversation highlights the importance of genuine connections, giving back, and cherishing every moment. Ryan also discusses his local insurance agency and the value of honesty in business. Listeners are left inspired by Grayslake’s strong sense of community and the impact of small acts of kindness.

Discovering Grayslake: Lessons in Community, Connection, and Contribution

Grayslake, Illinois, is more than just a dot on the map—it's a living, breathing community shaped by the people who call it home. In a recent episode of the "Discovering Grayslake" podcast, host David Woll sits down with Ryan Curtis, a lifelong resident and local leader, to explore what makes this town special. Their conversation is a masterclass in community building, personal resilience, and the power of genuine connection.

This blog post dives deep into the main themes and actionable insights from their discussion. Whether you’re a Grayslake local, a community organizer, or simply someone looking to make a difference where you live, you’ll find valuable takeaways here.

Table of Contents

The Power of Community Collaboration Building Safe Spaces for Youth: The Oasis Story Cherishing Time and Relationships Finding Your Way to Give Back Leadership, Honesty, and Business with Heart The Ripple Effect: Small Actions, Big Impact Civic Engagement: Start Local, Start Now Final Thoughts: The Grayslake Way

The Power of Community Collaboration

Key Insight: Great communities are built by people who show up, work together, and care about each other.

Ryan’s journey in Grayslake is a testament to the transformative power of collaboration. The Oasis teen center, a cornerstone of his story, didn’t materialize from a single person’s vision—it was the result of students, parents, business owners, and volunteers coming together.

Actionable Advice: Identify Shared Goals:** Start with a common purpose. For Oasis, it was creating a safe space for teens. Leverage Diverse Talents:** Not everyone needs to be a leader. Some are great at organizing, others at fundraising, and some at rolling up their sleeves for manual labor. Celebrate Small Wins:** Every step forward, from painting a wall to hosting a fundraiser, builds momentum and community pride. Keep the Door Open:** Welcome new faces and ideas. The more inclusive your project, the stronger your results.

Expert Tip: “It takes an army,” Ryan says. Don’t be afraid to ask for help or to offer it. Community is a team sport.

Building Safe Spaces for Youth: The Oasis Story

Key Insight: Youth need places where they can be themselves, free from judgment and pressure.

Oasis was more than a building—it was a lifeline for Grayslake’s teens. It offered after-school refuge, live music, and a sense of belonging. Ryan’s involvement, from demolition to daily operations, highlights the importance of investing in young people.

Actionable Advice: Listen to Youth Voices:** The original business plan for Oasis came from students. Let young people lead and shape the spaces meant for them. Adapt to Changing Needs:** As technology and social habits evolve, so should community offerings. Oasis closed before the pandemic, but its spirit lives on in new forms. Prioritize Safety and Inclusion:** Make sure every teen feels welcome, regardless of background or interests.

Expert Tip: “The culture of Grayslake was built in places like Oasis,” Ryan reflects. Safe spaces for youth are investments in a town’s future.

Cherishing Time and Relationships

Key Insight: Time is the one resource you can’t get back. Cherish it, especially with loved ones.

Ryan’s story is deeply marked by the loss of his father, a man he describes as his best friend and moral compass. The lesson? Don’t wait to appreciate the people around you.

Actionable Advice: Be Present:** Put down your phone, turn off distractions, and give people your full attention. Create Traditions:** Ryan and his father exchanged pink golf balls as a reminder to cherish their time together. Find your own meaningful rituals. Express Gratitude:** Don’t assume people know how much they mean to you. Tell them.

Expert Tip: “Cherish every moment,” Ryan’s father taught him. Make it a daily practice, not just a saying.

Finding Your Way to Give Back

Key Insight: There’s no single path to community service. Find what fits your skills, interests, and schedule.

After Oasis, Ryan continued to serve through the Grayslake Chamber of Commerce and the Exchange Club. He emphasizes that the organization matters less than the act of giving back.

Actionable Advice: Start Small:** Volunteer for a single event or join a committee. You don’t have to run the show to make a difference. Follow Your Passion:** Whether it’s youth, business, the arts, or the environment, there’s a place for you. Be Consistent:** Regular involvement, even if it’s just a few hours a month, builds relationships and impact.

Expert Tip: “It’s about finding your outlet,” Ryan says. Don’t wait for the perfect opportunity—just start.

Leadership, Honesty, and Business with Heart

Key Insight: Authenticity and transparency are the foundation of trust—in business and in life.

Ryan’s approach to his insurance agency mirrors his approach to community: help where you can, be honest when you can’t, and always put people first.

Actionable Advice: Be Upfront:** If you’re not the right fit for a client or project, say so. People appreciate honesty over a forced relationship. Focus on Service, Not Sales:** Success comes from solving problems, not pushing products. Build Relationships:** Long-term success is built on trust, not transactions.

Expert Tip: “Shoot you straight,” Ryan promises. Make this your business mantra.

The Ripple Effect: Small Actions, Big Impact

Key Insight: Little things—like holding a door or saying good morning—can change someone’s day and, over time, a whole community.

Ryan and David agree: kindness is contagious. The “butterfly effect” of a single class project led to a teen center, lifelong friendships, and even Ryan meeting his wife.

Actionable Advice: Practice Everyday Kindness:** Smile, greet neighbors, and offer help without expecting anything in return. Share Your Story:** Vulnerability builds connection. Don’t be afraid to let people see the real you. Encourage Others:** Recognize and celebrate the good work of those around you.

Expert Tip: “Good things happen to good people,” David says. Be the good you want to see.

Civic Engagement: Start Local, Start Now

Key Insight: Local government and organizations have a direct impact on your daily life. Get involved.

Ryan and David lament low voter turnout and encourage everyone to participate in local elections and community groups.

Actionable Advice: Vote in Every Election:** Local officials make decisions that affect schools, safety, and services. Attend Meetings:** Show up to town halls, school board meetings, or chamber events. Voice Your Opinions—And Act:** Don’t just complain; volunteer, organize, or run for office.

Expert Tip: “Opinions are easy. Action is hard,” Ryan notes. Be a doer, not just a talker.

Final Thoughts: The Grayslake Way

Ryan Curtis’s story is a love letter to Grayslake—a town where people look out for each other, where leaders are accessible, and where small acts of kindness add up to something extraordinary. His journey reminds us that community isn’t built by accident; it’s the result of everyday choices to show up, help out, and care.

If you want to make your town a better place: Start with what you have and where you are. Cherish your time and relationships. Give back in ways that fit your life. Lead with honesty and heart. Never underestimate the power of small, genuine actions.

Let’s keep the Grayslake spirit alive—one neighbor, one act, one day at a time.

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In this episode of Discovering Grayslake, host David Woll sits down with Kori Pelikan, founder of Bubble Bash—a unique local business bringing foam and bubble party magic to families, schools, and events across Northeast Illinois and Southeast Wisconsin.

Corey shares how a simple birthday party for her daughter sparked the idea for a business that now brings joy to communities all summer long. From the excitement of foam-filled fun to her commitment to safety, inclusivity, and family-friendly entertainment, Corey opens up about what makes Bubble Bash more than just a party—it’s a movement of smiles, laughter, and local love.

Tune in to hear about Corey’s journey, her deep ties to Grayslake, and how she’s turning special moments into unforgettable memories—one bubble at a time.

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Bringing Joy to Grayslake: The Story and Secrets Behind Bubble Bash Foam Parties

By David Woll, Host of Discovering Grayslake

Grayslake is a town that thrives on community, creativity, and a little bit of hometown magic. In this episode of Discovering Grayslake, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Kori Pelikan, owner of Bubble Bash—a business that’s redefining how we celebrate, connect, and create memories in Northeast Illinois and Southeast Wisconsin. Bubble Bash specializes in foam and bubble parties, bringing laughter and excitement to backyards, parks, and community events.

Whether you’re a parent planning a birthday, a community organizer, or a fellow entrepreneur, Kori’s journey and insights offer a treasure trove of actionable advice and inspiration. Let’s dive deep into the main themes and expert tips from our conversation, so you can bring a little more joy—and a lot more bubbles—into your own corner of the world.

Table of Contents

The Spark: Turning a Fun Idea into a Thriving Business What Makes Foam Parties So Popular? Behind the Scenes: How Bubble Bash Operates Safety First: Creating a Fun and Secure Environment Building Community: The Power of Local Networks Expanding the Fun: Beyond Kids’ Parties Lessons in Entrepreneurship: Balancing Family, Passion, and Business Actionable Tips for Hosting a Memorable Foam or Bubble Party The Heart of Grayslake: Kindness, Connection, and Community How to Book Your Own Bubble Bash Experience

1. The Spark: Turning a Fun Idea into a Thriving Business

Kori Pelikan’s story is a classic example of how a simple, personal need can ignite a business idea. When planning her daughter’s birthday, Kori wanted something unique. She discovered foam machines, bought one, and the party was such a hit that neighbors and friends immediately asked, “Can you do this for us?”

Key Takeaways: Start with a personal need:** The best business ideas often come from solving your own problems. Test the waters:** Kori’s first event was a low-risk trial that validated the concept. Listen to your audience:** Immediate positive feedback from guests signaled a real demand.

Expert Advice:   If you’re considering starting a business, look for opportunities in your own life. What do you wish existed? What gets people talking and asking for more?

2. What Makes Foam Parties So Popular?

Foam parties aren’t just a passing trend—they’re a sensory, social, and safe way for kids (and adults!) to let loose. Kori notes that the laughter and joy are infectious, and the novelty never seems to wear off.

Why Foam Parties Work: Universal appeal:** Kids of all ages love the tactile, immersive experience. Repeat business:** Many families and organizations book Bubble Bash year after year. Social media gold:** The visual spectacle makes for shareable, memorable photos.

Pro Tip:   Capture candid moments and share them with your guests. Kori sends photos to families after events, creating lasting memories and organic marketing.

3. Behind the Scenes: How Bubble Bash Operates

Running a foam party business is more than just turning on a machine. Kori’s approach is professional, efficient, and community-focused.

Logistics and Equipment

Foam Cannons:** Kori owns two, allowing her to serve multiple events or larger crowds. Setup Needs:** Access to water and electricity is essential. Coordination with venues is key. Duration:** Most parties last about an hour—enough for high-energy fun, then a smooth transition to food or rest. Weather:** Rain doesn’t stop the party; kids are already getting wet!

Environmental and Safety Considerations

Hypoallergenic Foam:** Safe for kids, pets, and lawns. Grass Care:** Kori rotates the foam area to prevent lawn damage. Clean-Up:** The foam dissipates naturally, leaving no mess behind.

Actionable Advice: Always do a site check before the event to ensure access to utilities. Communicate clearly with hosts about what’s needed for setup and teardown. Invest in quality, safe foam solutions from reputable suppliers.

4. Safety First: Creating a Fun and Secure Environment

Safety is at the heart of every Bubble Bash event. Kori’s background as a teacher shines through in her clear, consistent rules and her ability to manage groups of excited kids.

Core Safety Rules

No running or sliding:** Prevents slips and falls. No diving or cannonballing:** The foam isn’t deep—remind kids it’s not a pool! No sitting under the foam:** Ensures visibility and prevents accidental bumps.

Implementation

Rules Stand:** Kori sets up a visible sign at public events. Active Supervision:** She keeps a close eye on the crowd and gently reminds kids as needed. Inclusive Fun:** Even grandparents have joined in—one memorable guest navigated the foam with her walker!

Expert Insight:   Safety doesn’t have to kill the fun. Set expectations early, use positive language, and model the behavior you want to see.

5. Building Community: The Power of Local Networks

Bubble Bash’s success is rooted in community connections. Kori leverages local mom groups, Facebook communities, and word-of-mouth to grow her business.

Strategies for Community Engagement

Join local groups:** Participate in online forums and neighborhood networks. Collaborate, don’t compete:** Kori often refers clients to other foam party businesses when she’s booked, fostering goodwill. Support local events:** Bubble Bash is a fixture at Grayslake’s Battle of the Bands, summer kickoffs, and more.

Pro Tip:   Don’t underestimate the power of grassroots marketing. Authentic relationships and community involvement build trust and loyalty.

6. Expanding the Fun: Beyond Kids’ Parties

While Bubble Bash is best known for children’s events, Kori is open to new markets.

Adult and Teen Events

Glow-in-the-dark foam:** Black lights and colored foam create a nightclub vibe. College and community events:** There’s untapped potential for older audiences. Rebranding:** Kori is considering a separate identity to appeal to non-kid markets.

Actionable Advice: Survey your audience to gauge interest in new offerings. Experiment with themed events (e.g., “Foam Olympics” fundraisers). Adjust your branding and messaging to match the target demographic.

7. Lessons in Entrepreneurship: Balancing Family, Passion, and Business

Kori’s journey is a testament to the power of reinvention. After 20 years as a teacher, she pivoted to entrepreneurship during the pandemic, seeking flexibility and joy.

Key Lessons

Follow your happiness:** Don’t let fear of judgment hold you back. Seasonal balance:** Bubble Bash is full-time from May to October, allowing Kori to “hibernate” and recharge in the off-season. Family first:** Kori proudly identifies as a mom above all, structuring her business around her children’s needs.

Expert Insight:   Entrepreneurship is about designing a life that fits your values. Don’t be afraid to pivot, and keep your options open for future opportunities.

8. Actionable Tips for Hosting a Memorable Foam or Bubble Party

Ready to bring the Bubble Bash experience to your next event? Here’s how to make it unforgettable:

Planning and Preparation

Book early:** Summer weekends fill up fast. Choose the right location:** Flat, grassy areas work best; ensure access to water and power. Communicate with your host:** Share setup needs and safety rules in advance.

During the Event

Set clear rules:** Post them visibly and review with guests. Capture the moment:** Take candid photos and share them with families. Rotate the foam area:** Protect your lawn and keep the fun moving.

After the Party

Share your experience:** Post photos on social media and tag Bubble Bash. Give feedback:** Let Kori know what worked and what could be improved. Spread the word:** Word-of-mouth is the best marketing!

9. The Heart of Grayslake: Kindness, Connection, and Community

At the end of our conversation, I shared a reminder that resonates with the spirit of Grayslake: you never know what someone else is going through. A simple act of kindness—a smile, a compliment, holding the door—can make all the difference.

Let’s keep Grayslake a place where: Neighbors support neighbors. Local businesses lift each other up. Every child (and adult!) gets a chance to play, laugh, and belong.

10. How to Book Your Own Bubble Bash Experience

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Ballers, the new sports bar and restaurant on Route 45. Co-owners Brittany and Amar share their inspiring journey from longtime friends to business partners, overcoming personal and professional challenges to create a welcoming, community-focused spot. Listeners hear about Ballers’ fresh menu, family-friendly atmosphere, and commitment to great service.

Building Community, Resilience, and Excellence: The Story and Lessons Behind Ballers Sports Bar in Grayslake

There’s something special about a hometown sports bar—a place where the food is fresh, the games are always on, and everyone is treated like family. In the latest episode of Discovering Grayslake, host David Wall sits down with Amar and Brittany, the passionate co-owners of Ballers, Grayslake’s newest sports bar and restaurant. Their journey is more than just a business story; it’s a masterclass in resilience, community-building, and the pursuit of excellence.

Whether you’re a local entrepreneur, a restaurant enthusiast, or someone who loves a good underdog story, this in-depth look at Ballers offers valuable lessons and actionable insights. Let’s break down the key themes and tips from the episode, so you can apply their wisdom to your own ventures—or simply appreciate the heart behind your next burger and beer.

1. Define Your Core Values and Let Them Guide Every Decision

The Ballers Acronym: More Than a Name

Amar and Brittany didn’t just pick a catchy name—they built Ballers around a set of core values, using the word as an acronym:

B**elieve: Always believe in yourself and your dreams. A**chieve: Work hard and never give up. L**earn: Knowledge is power; keep learning. L**ove: Love yourself and stay positive. E**njoy: Enjoy life and what you do. R**espect: Treat everyone equally and earn respect by giving it.

Actionable Advice: Articulate your values.** Whether you’re opening a business or leading a team, define what you stand for. Post these values where your staff and customers can see them. Live your values.** Amar and Brittany treat every guest—neighbor or star athlete—with the same respect and care. This consistency builds trust and loyalty. Let values drive culture.** A values-driven environment attracts like-minded staff and customers, creating a positive feedback loop.

2. Embrace the Power of Community and Personal Connection

Creating a “Home Away from Home”

Ballers isn’t just about sports and food; it’s about fostering a sense of belonging. David Wall notes that the best bars and restaurants feel like home, where staff and regulars know each other by name.

How Ballers Does It: Warm, friendly service:** From the moment you walk in, you’re greeted like family. Personal touches:** Amar and Brittany’s playful banter behind the bar adds to the welcoming vibe. Community engagement:** Specials for local car wash customers, discounts for podcast listeners, and a focus on supporting local events.

Actionable Advice: Get to know your customers.** Learn their names, their favorite teams, and their stories. Reward loyalty.** Offer discounts, host special events, and recognize your regulars. Be present.** Owners who are visible and engaged set the tone for the entire establishment.

3. Resilience in the Face of Adversity

Overcoming Setbacks—Together

Opening Ballers wasn’t easy. Amar and Brittany faced skepticism, a challenging location, and even a life-altering accident that left Brittany with multiple injuries. Yet, their determination never wavered.

Key Takeaways: Lean on your support system.** Amar and Brittany’s friendship and partnership helped them push through tough times. Stay positive.** They used naysayers’ doubts as motivation. Adapt and persevere.** Even during Brittany’s recovery, she stayed involved, inspiring everyone around her.

Actionable Advice: Expect setbacks.** Every new venture faces obstacles—plan for them and don’t let them derail your vision. Celebrate small wins.** Each positive review, returning customer, or successful event is a step forward. Share your story.** Customers connect with authenticity and resilience; don’t be afraid to let them in on your journey.

4. Quality and Consistency Are Non-Negotiable

Food, Service, and Experience

Ballers’ menu is a testament to their commitment to quality. From half-pound, farm-to-table Angus burgers to jumbo wings and made-to-order guacamole, every dish is crafted with care.

How They Ensure Quality: Invest in equipment:** A great burger needs a great grill. Ballers replaced all kitchen equipment to ensure consistency. Hire experienced staff:** Their head chef, Poncho, brings over 30 years of expertise. Menu design:** Brittany’s experience helped create a menu that maximizes ingredient use and maintains high standards.

Actionable Advice: Don’t cut corners.** Fresh, high-quality ingredients and skilled staff are worth the investment. Consistency is key.** Customers return for the experience they know and love—make sure every visit meets expectations. Solicit feedback.** Use reviews and direct feedback to identify areas for improvement.

5. Smart Menu Planning and Specials Drive Traffic

Balancing Variety and Focus

Ballers offers a diverse yet focused menu, with crowd-pleasers like the Hangover Burger, flatbreads, and weekly specials (Taco Tuesday, Wing Wednesday, Fish Fry Friday).

Menu Insights: Signature items:** Unique offerings like the Hangover Burger set Ballers apart. Weekly specials:** These create routine and give customers a reason to return. Family-friendly options:** A dedicated kids’ menu ensures everyone feels welcome.

Actionable Advice: Start with your strengths.** Build your menu around what you do best. Rotate specials.** Keep things fresh and give customers something to look forward to. Listen to your market.** Adjust offerings based on customer feedback and demand.

6. Leverage Reviews and Digital Presence

The Power of Word-of-Mouth in the Digital Age

Amar and Brittany understand that in today’s world, Google reviews can make or break a new restaurant. They actively encourage honest feedback and use it to improve.

Best Practices: Ask for reviews.** Don’t be shy—remind happy customers to share their experiences online. Respond to feedback.** Thank reviewers and address concerns promptly. Monitor your reputation.** Use reviews as a tool for growth, not just validation.

Actionable Advice: Make it easy.** Provide QR codes or links to your review pages. Highlight positive reviews.** Share them on social media and in your establishment. Learn from criticism.** Use constructive feedback to refine your offerings and service.

7. Creative Marketing and Community Outreach

Standing Out Without a Big Budget

Competing with corporate chains is tough, but Ballers uses grassroots marketing and community engagement to build their brand.

Strategies That Work: Social media presence:** Regular updates, behind-the-scenes content, and engagement with local groups. Local partnerships:** Discounts for car wash customers, collaborations with nearby businesses. Podcast and word-of-mouth:** Leveraging local media and personal networks.

Actionable Advice: Be authentic.** Share your story and your passion—people connect with real people. Get involved.** Sponsor local events, host watch parties, and support community causes. Offer incentives.** Discounts, specials, and loyalty programs encourage trial and repeat visits.

8. Balance Ambition with Realism

Growth at the Right Pace

Brittany’s experience helped keep the menu focused, resisting the urge to add too many items too soon. This ensures quality and consistency, even as they plan for future growth.

Actionable Advice: Start simple.** Perfect your core offerings before expanding. Scale thoughtfully.** Add new items or services only when you can maintain your standards. Stay true to your vision.** Don’t chase trends that don’t fit your brand or capabilities.

9. Prioritize Work-Life Balance and Team Wellbeing

The Human Side of Hospitality

Amar and Brittany work long hours, but they recognize the importance of eventually delegating and taking time for themselves. Their playful dynamic and mutual respect set a positive example for their team.

Actionable Advice: Set boundaries.** Even in the early days, plan for rest and recovery. Build a strong team.** Invest in training and create opportunities for staff to grow. Celebrate together.** Recognize hard work and milestones as a team.

10. Never Underestimate the Power of Kindness

Spreading Positivity, One Guest at a Time

David Wall closes the episode with a reminder: small acts of kindness—holding a door, sharing a smile, or offering a friendly word—can transform a community. Ballers embodies this spirit, making every guest feel welcome and valued.

Actionable Advice: Lead with empathy.** Treat every customer and team member with respect and care. Encourage positivity.** Create an environment where kindness is the norm. Give back.** Support local causes and look for ways to make a difference beyond your business.

Final Thoughts: Why Ballers Is More Than Just a Bar

Ballers is a testament to what’s possible when you combine vision, grit, and heart. Amar and Brittany’s journey offers a blueprint for anyone looking...

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Discovering Grayslake: Lessons in Creativity, Community, and the Toy Industry with “The Rock Father”

Welcome to another in-depth exploration of “Discovering Grayslake,” where host David Wohl sits down with local luminaries to uncover the stories that make Grayslake a vibrant hometown. In this episode, David welcomes James—better known as “The Rock Father”—whose journey from the film and music industries to the heart of the toy world offers a masterclass in creativity, resilience, and community engagement.

Whether you’re a local business owner, a creative professional, or simply someone who loves a good story, this episode is packed with actionable insights and expert advice. Let’s break down the main themes and tips from the conversation, offering you a comprehensive guide to building a meaningful career and community presence—right here in Grayslake or wherever you call home.

Table of Contents

The Power of Community Connections Building a Creative Career: Lessons from “The Rock Father” Navigating the Toy Industry: Trends, Challenges, and Opportunities Balancing Digital and Physical Play for Kids Giving Back: Leveraging Your Platform for Community Good Celebrating Grayslake: Local Favorites and Family Life Actionable Takeaways for Listeners

1. The Power of Community Connections 

Key Insight:   Even in a small town, it’s easy to miss out on knowing everyone. But the magic of Grayslake lies in the connections you make—whether at the farmers market, a local restaurant, or through shared community projects.

Actionable Advice:

Attend Local Events:**     James and David both highlight the importance of participating in community events like the farmers market, holiday tree lighting, and pride parade. These gatherings are not just fun—they’re opportunities to meet neighbors, support local businesses, and build lasting relationships.

Join Local Organizations:**     Bill Mack’s mention of the Grayslake Chamber of Commerce underscores the value of joining local groups. Membership offers networking, support, and a platform to amplify your business or cause.

Support Local Businesses:**     Frequenting spots like Cinco Hermanos, Bake Share, Tony’s Butcher Shop, and Andy’s Records not only enriches your own experience but strengthens the local economy.

Expert Tip:   If you’re new to town or looking to expand your network, start by volunteering at community events or joining a committee. You’ll quickly find your place in the fabric of Grayslake.

2. Building a Creative Career: Lessons from “The Rock Father” 

Key Insight:   James’s journey from a young writer in the Chicago suburbs to a leading voice in the toy industry is a testament to perseverance, adaptability, and the courage to take risks.

Actionable Advice:

Embrace Your Passions Early:**     James’s first writing award in 1987 set the stage for a lifetime of storytelling. Don’t underestimate the power of early interests—they can shape your career trajectory.

Diversify Your Skills:**     From cable access TV in high school to interviewing major bands and working in retail, James’s varied experiences gave him a broad skill set. Be open to learning in unexpected places.

Take Calculated Risks:**     Leaving established companies to start his own platform was a leap of faith. While not every risk pays off, each one offers valuable lessons and new opportunities.

Learn from Failure:**     James is candid about setbacks, emphasizing that failures are stepping stones to growth. Reflect on what didn’t work, adjust your approach, and keep moving forward.

Expert Tip:   Document your journey—whether through blogging, social media, or a personal journal. Not only does this help you track progress, but it can also inspire others and open doors to new collaborations.

3. Navigating the Toy Industry: Trends, Challenges, and Opportunities 

Key Insight:   The toy industry is a microcosm of global trends—shaped by manufacturing shifts, tariffs, technological innovation, and changing play patterns.

Actionable Advice:

Understand the Manufacturing Landscape:**     Most iconic toys have always been made overseas (e.g., Barbie in Japan, G.I. Joe in Hong Kong/Vietnam, Hot Wheels in Malaysia).   Offshoring since the 1970s means U.S. manufacturing infrastructure is limited; reshoring requires massive investment and time.

Monitor Tariff Impacts:**     Current tariffs on Chinese imports are around 30%, affecting prices for both businesses and consumers.   Small business owners often absorb these costs, but ultimately, higher prices reach the end user.

Stay Ahead of Technology:**     AI and digital integration are reshaping toys (e.g., Mattel’s partnership with OpenAI).   Not all tech-enabled toys succeed—2023 saw several underperforming launches, showing the need for thoughtful innovation.

Engage with Industry Resources:**     Publications like The Toy Book (trade-focused) and The Toy Insider (consumer-focused) offer valuable insights, gift guides, and trend analysis.

Expert Tip:   If you’re a business owner or creative in the toy space, attend trade shows (like Toy Fair or Comic-Con) to network, spot trends, and build relationships with industry leaders.

4. Balancing Digital and Physical Play for Kids 

Key Insight:   Children’s play is evolving, with digital experiences increasingly competing with traditional toys. The challenge—and opportunity—is to find a healthy balance.

Actionable Advice:

Encourage Hybrid Play:**     Look for toys that merge physical and digital elements, such as those that interact with platforms like Roblox or offer augmented reality features.

Be Mindful of Screen Time:**     James advocates for a measured approach—introduce technology thoughtfully and ensure kids have plenty of hands-on, imaginative play.

Evaluate Play Value:**     When choosing toys, consider not just the initial excitement but the potential for long-term engagement and developmental benefits.

Expert Tip:   Use resources like The Toy Insider’s website to filter toys by play duration and developmental focus, helping you make informed choices for your family.

5. Giving Back: Leveraging Your Platform for Community Good 

Key Insight:   True community spirit means using your resources and connections to lift others up—especially those in need.

Actionable Advice:

Partner with Local Organizations:**     James’s work with Avon Township to provide holiday gifts for families in need is a model for impactful giving. Find local groups that align with your values and offer your support.

Leverage Industry Connections:**     If you have access to products, services, or expertise, consider how you can channel these to benefit local schools, community centers, or families.

Be Proactive:**     Don’t wait for the holidays—needs exist year-round. Reach out to community leaders to identify ongoing opportunities to help.

Expert Tip:   If you’re in Grayslake and need toys or support for a community project, don’t hesitate to contact James or similar local advocates. Building a network of helpers multiplies your impact.

6. Celebrating Grayslake: Local Favorites and Family Life 

Key Insight:   Grayslake’s charm lies in its blend of small-town warmth, diverse events, and family-friendly amenities.

Actionable Advice:

Explore Local Events:**     From the farmers market to Central Park concerts and the holiday tree lighting, there’s always something happening. Make it a family tradition to attend together.

Support Local Dining:**     Favorites like First Draft, Sammy’s, Cinco Hermanos, and Bake Share offer not just great food but a sense of belonging.

Get Involved in the Arts:**     With opportunities for kids in theater, dance, and music, Grayslake nurtures creativity at every age.

Expert Tip:   If you’re new to town, ask neighbors or local business owners for their favorite spots and events. You’ll quickly feel at home.

7. Actionable Takeaways for Listeners 

Network Locally:**     Attend events, join organizations, and support local businesses to build meaningful connections.

Pursue Your Passions:**     Don’t be afraid to take risks, diversify your skills, and learn from setbacks.

Stay Informed:**     Use industry resources to keep up with trends, especially if you’re in a fast-changing field like toys or media.

Balance Technology:**     Encourage both digital and physical play for kids, and be mindful of screen time.

Give Back:**     Use your platform, however big or small, to support those in need in your community.

Celebrate Your Hometown:**     Embrace the unique events, businesses, and people that make your town special.

Final Thoughts

James’s story is a reminder that every path—no matter how winding—can lead to fulfillment when rooted in passion, resilience, and community. Whether you’re

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