Discovering Grayslake: Unveiling the Stories and People That Make Our Town Unique

In this episode of "Discovering Grayslake," host Dave sits down with Alan, a local lawyer, to discuss life, law, and community in Grayslake. Alan shares heartfelt stories from his legal career, insights into family and criminal law, and his passion for giving back through local organizations. The conversation is filled with humor, personal anecdotes, and reflections on Grayslake's vibrant spirit—from favorite pizza spots to community events. With a warm, hometown feel, this episode highlights the importance of connection, kindness, and supporting one another in the Grayslake community.

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Speaker 1 00:01:58 So shout out to Agora for having us here. so I'm not going to mess up your name because you help me. So I'm here with Alan and Ziggy today. That's right buddy.

Speaker 2 00:02:07 Hi, Dave. Nice to see you. And, Hello, internet.

Speaker 1 00:02:09 Yes. So, actually, it's funny that we, Just as we sat down, we went over just a short thing of all the people from Grayslake that we just from just the Grayslake people that we know we have in common.

Speaker 2 00:02:20 Right? I was living in Grayslake for the last 15, 20 years, and, my family lives in Grayslake. My mom does still, even though my dad passed away and I've been active in the Grayslake Exchange Club for a long time. So that's how I kind of got to know the people in that business community, stuff like that.

Speaker 1 00:02:35 Right. Okay, so when I got arrested for the third time when I called you and then I called you, and I've not been arrested.

Speaker 2 00:02:42 I would not be able to disclose the details unless you told me it was okay.

Speaker 2 00:02:45 So just let me know, and I'm happy to. But we have attorney client confidentiality, which prohibits me from talking about it.

Speaker 1 00:02:51 Which means all the fun stories that I want to ask you about to tell me today. You can't.

Speaker 2 00:02:54 I can tell you stories, but I can't say like, hey, you know my client, Sergio. Guess what happened, right? I can't say that, but I can say I had this one guy and this one thing. I could do that, right?

Speaker 1 00:03:03 He looked a lot like Mike Steiner, but.

Speaker 2 00:03:06 Nobody looks like Mike Steiner. No, Mike Steiner is like Mike Steiner.

Speaker 1 00:03:10 Doesn't even look like Mike Steiner.

Speaker 2 00:03:12 He's like a ten. I mean, he's like, maybe mistaken for George Clooney from time to time.

Speaker 1 00:03:17 He gets that a lot. I am.

Speaker 2 00:03:18 Sure.

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Speaker 2 00:03:21 The show is an okay.

Speaker 1 00:03:22 Dude. He's great. okay, so, Grayslake has changed, but what is your job?

Speaker 2 00:03:27 Okay.

Speaker 2 00:03:28 I am a lawyer.

Speaker 1 00:03:29 Okay. What kind of a lawyer?

Speaker 2 00:03:30 Okay, so my background is as a prosecutor. And when I was a prosecutor with the state's attorney's office. I guess I'll answer this in a long winded way. The easy question is, I tell people at Christmas parties. Like, what kind of lawyer are you? Divorces and DUIs. Okay. Okay. Because that's an easy way to break down family and criminal law. Those are my two specialties. I'm in a law firm called Johnston, Tommy Lansky and Goldberg. I'm one of the founding partners of that law firm, and we do everything collectively. I have a partner that does real estate. I have a partner that does business formation. I have a partner that does wills and trusts. We do probate litigation, foreclosures. We do all kinds of stuff. But my particular role at that law firm is family. So your divorces, child custody, child support type cases sometimes, and then also criminal cases. And, like, I have a murder right now.

Speaker 2 00:04:20 So everything from murders down to traffic tickets and suspended licenses.

Speaker 1 00:04:24 Is that normal for me? Because this shows how much I know. Is it normal for an attorney to have such a broad range of things like that?

Speaker 2 00:04:30 So for me, I want two things, you know, so two things is pretty normal. If you're a guy that only, let's say only does criminal, it's I don't know you people do that, but I like to have a second sort of, type of case because sometimes it ebbs and flows in what you're getting. You know, the family law cases are hourly. The, criminal cases are a flat fee. Usually both are great. The family law cases are more, I guess intellectually and emotionally challenging sometimes. Which which maybe surprises some people. My criminal cases are usually a joy. Like family law cases can be tough.

Speaker 1 00:05:08 Yeah, and that's one thing, because, it's no secret that I've been divorced twice. And, you know, for the for the people. And many people listen to the show, I mean, just from the, from the age demographics that I know that if people gone through these, like, heart wrenching, terrible parts of their life where they need someone like you to help guide them through and and hopefully make it as easy as possible.

Speaker 2 00:05:29 Divorces are hard. I mean, a lot of you that are listening, have experienced it or your parents did or whatever. So, divorces are very difficult for people, and the plan with me would be just to get them done on time and under budget with a handshake at the end.

Speaker 1 00:05:44 Okay. And I've never heard that before because I, I unfortunately, you know, I was spending a lot of time in courtrooms and seeing stuff like that, that it seems like, you know, the guys maybe that aren't doing well, or maybe they need to pay off their boat or something, string things along as long as they can.

Speaker 2 00:05:58 They okay. I would never cast aspersions. I tell you, you might be surprised. The family law bar in Lake County is mostly fantastic people. Yeah. most of those lawyers I really like, I get along with the strength of our bench, you know, which means the judges in Lake County is good. Our bench is good. Our bar is good. there are a couple of lawyers that I'm like, oh, I got a case with her again.

Speaker 2 00:06:21 Oh, I got a case with that guy. Right? because sometimes the law, just like any maybe more than some other, professions, can attract people with, like, a type of personality. That's annoying. I don't know, I don't want to. I'm not a psychiatrist or psychologist, so I can't say, like, all my clients come in and they say, oh, my husband, he's a narcissist. Or like, he's gaslighting me. People like those psychological sort of terms from today. Like the now times. Like we didn't know what narcissism and gaslighting was in 1997, right? Or I didn't, but now I do for sure, because all my clients are like, he's gaslighting me, he's a narcissist, he's a blah, blah.

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Speaker 1 00:08:22 Well, at this time of day, everything needs a label, right?

Speaker 2 00:08:24 They throw those labels around.

Speaker 2 00:08:26 Which, I mean, there's there's nothing wrong with it. it helps me to identify, at least. Now, I don't know if the person saying he's a narcissist means that. Really, she's right and he is a narcissist. Or if it just is helping me to flag this case is going to be a little bit tougher than maybe some other ones. Truth, right? I could see that. It's like one. Okay. Like in internet. Now, I'm sure people are, like, watching TikTok. Like red flag. Red flag. Like I see, yes, red flags when those kind of cases walk in.

Speaker 1 00:08:56 Absolutely. Yeah. And I'm sure things changed like that too. Okay. So I want to go back a little bit because you have a it's a very interesting that for me, if I was doing your job I would love it that you could do one day like you have a murderer thing. Totally. But but then you can have a family law case or maybe help a dad get, you know, custody of his child.

Speaker 1 00:09:13 Like, yeah, at least there's a little variety for fun, right?

Speaker 2 00:09:15 It's interesting. I mean, today I had a couple of DUIs up, you know? And DUIs are like a bread and butter type case for a criminal defense attorney. Because most people, especially in Grayslake, especially in Lake County, they're not murderers. They're not gang members, but otherwise good dude or an otherwise good lady who is not necessarily manifesting a criminal intent. Like I'm going to go shoplift. It's a guy saying, I've had too much to drink, I'm gonna drive. He's making a dumb choice to drive home, but he's not having the criminal intent. Like I want to endanger somebody tonight. Right. Right. And so a DUI is usually the first time that somebody that's a good person is in hot trouble.

Speaker 1 00:09:55 Okay. Gotcha. And, you know, it's got to be nice to, some of these, I'm sure, having satisfaction to be able to to help people out and help them navigate through things they have no idea what they're getting into.

Speaker 1 00:10:05 Right.

Speaker 2 00:10:05 So. Okay, I used to work for a really fantastic attorney in Round Lake Beach, and I want to make sure to give a shout out to Round Lake Beach. That is an awesome town full of super awesome people. And this lawyer I used to work with, named Bruce Scotland. He taught me a lot. And he's still out in Round Lake. He's a competitor of mine, but I really respect him. And when I started working for him, he. He said, Alan, we love helping people for money. And I'm like, yeah, I love helping people for money. Right.

Speaker 1 00:10:34 Well put. Right. It wouldn't be as fun as if you didn't get.

Speaker 2 00:10:37 Paid for it. No, but I mean, and that, you know, it's a business. You want to help people? Yes. For money. Right. Right. So. And I'm not trying to sound cold, I do some pro bono. I know it's me, but I don't do pro bono divorces.

Speaker 2 00:10:47 No way. They're too hot. They take too long. I'll do a pro bono traffic ticket. I'll give people. I used to volunteer at a safe place, and they have a, a battered women's shelter in Zion. And I used to go there, and I used to talk to the ladies about free legal advice. How can I help you? What do you. They have questions about everything, and I would just volunteer and talk to them. I love that, but, a really hot case to do pro bono is is a big mistake for attorney, in my opinion. Yeah. Attorney in my position, I'd say right.

Speaker 1 00:11:16 Okay, so the one thing that really, that I found appealing when I was looking through, when we got connected and I went through your website and I was looking at things like places, like a safe place, like, those are people that really need help, right? Yeah. It's tough. I tip my hat to you for going in there and helping out, because I know there's a list of different things that that you do to give back, which is which is extremely generous of you.

Speaker 2 00:11:39 Thanks. I just I just signed up to do the mock interviews at Libertyville High School. That's a cool program. Yeah. Cool. That high school has a really good program where they have these kids that are in the business class, and you give them mock interviews to, you know, improve their skills, to hone their hone their interviewing abilities. And I was blown away by how great the kids were. Really? I was like, you're really smart. You're really smart. Wow. You're what an active, wonderful person. And I was like a bump on the log. When I was in high school, I wasn't active like.

Speaker 1 00:12:10 I would have loved to seen what my interview would have been like in high school.

Speaker 2 00:12:14 I don't know, they were fantastic, but. So some of the stuff I do, yeah. In Libertyville, I was been active in Grayslake because I lived in Grayslake for many years. over there on West Trail. my mom lives in Harrison Farms and, yeah, that's we were living in Grayslake ever since about the turn of the millennium.

Speaker 2 00:12:32 So that that wave of people that like third wave of of immigrants to Grayslake that began in the 90s when the, you know, when they started building the subdivision.

Speaker 1 00:12:42 Farms, right? Yes. I think that I was one of the first off the Mayflower to when I landed at Avon on the Prairie, one of the first ones off of Atkinson. That was like one of the first things that wasn't in, you know, Grayslake proper. Right. So to say. Right. Right. That's what we showed up. But but so then how long ago is that?

Speaker 2 00:13:01 So we moved here in like 2001. Okay. So my mom and dad bought a place in Grayslake on West Trail North in Harrison Farms. And I remember the first day we came to graze. Like, I'm from Florence, Illinois.

Speaker 1 00:13:12 Okay. I was just gonna say. Where did you originally come from?

Speaker 2 00:13:14 I'm from philosopher. I went to Homewood Philosopher High School. I was born in Harvey, at Ingalls. and, But that's why sometimes I get, like, a Chicago accent.

Speaker 2 00:13:22 I don't know, whatever. It's like, it's a but but floss more is is a nice town in the 90s. I mean, it's like the lake bluff of the south side. Yeah. So we we had a good time growing up.

Speaker 1 00:13:31 They should put that on their sign.

Speaker 2 00:13:32 By the way. Yeah. Right. The lake bluff off.

Speaker 1 00:13:35 The.

Speaker 2 00:13:35 South side. I need the.

Speaker 1 00:13:36 T.

Speaker 2 00:13:36 Shirt. I mean, it is. I mean, it's kind of like being the tallest midget, you know? I mean, but no offense to people that are little people. I love them, too. but, you know, I don't know where I was going at that.

Speaker 1 00:13:51 Time of growing up in Hollywood or more.

Speaker 2 00:13:54 Grew up there. So then I came to, I lived in Champaign because I went to school down at U of I and Champaign, and it was fantastic. And my parents moved up to to Grayslake. So I come up to Grayslake, and on our first day, the restaurant they took me to was Bill's Pub North.

Speaker 2 00:14:08 Yeah, right. Engages like and I just thought in my mind I'm like, I'm in the woods. My parents moved to Wisconsin, you know, where am I? I'm like, this is the woods. I mean, here in Wisconsin, there's a polar bear hanging there and there's fish every on, on the wall. And I thought, this is this is great. And it turned out Lake County's not quite Wisconsin, but it's close. It's an interesting.

Speaker 1 00:14:29 Perception, I guess if you've never been here. And that's the place they took, I had to.

Speaker 2 00:14:33 The only thing I had done with Grayslake before that when my parents moved here, Let's go to Prairie Crossing. Okay. Because my aunt and uncle lived in Prairie Crossing, which is a interesting. I wouldn't say the word weird, but it's an anomalous little part of the world. Prairie crossing is.

Speaker 1 00:14:51 Absolutely.

Speaker 2 00:14:51 I had never seen anything like that before, because I think that community at the time was novel and maybe still is. so I thought that all Lake County was like that.

Speaker 2 00:15:00 And then I saw Bill's Pub and I went, oh my gosh, I'm in Wisconsin.

Speaker 1 00:15:03 What's going on? You have no idea.

Speaker 2 00:15:04 Where you're at. Am I at the U.P.? I mean, how is ten feet of snow? You know, this is I came from 708. You know, the land of good pizza and terrible baseball. Now, here I am.

Speaker 1 00:15:15 The lake bluff on the south side.

Speaker 2 00:15:17 Right, right. Yes.

Speaker 1 00:15:18 That's awesome. okay, so, when you're studying law. So when you went to, you went to U of, I, law school?

Speaker 2 00:15:25 No. So I went to I was an undergrad at u of I. Okay. and then I went to law school at DePaul.

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Speaker 1 00:15:44 She's a Grayslake girl helping out Grayslake people. And when you when you went to law school, did you know what you wanted to practice?

Speaker 2 00:15:52 Yeah. So I don't mean to be, like, whatever, a little bit, emotional or emo in the, in the interview, but it was September 11th of 2001. Right. And you probably remember that day, but I could remember that day. I wanted a date with the girl. I looked in the sky and I saw there was no jet contrails. What a what a crazy day. And after that day, I thought to myself, I would like to be in law enforcement because I'd like to help our country for, I don't know, because America, I like America. Amen. And I was mad. Oh, I'm nine over 11, right? I mean, come on.

Speaker 1 00:16:27 Everybody was. Yes.

Speaker 2 00:16:28 So. But after that, I thought I'd go into criminal law. I thought I wanted to be a prosecutor, So then I got a job with Mike Waller, at the State's Attorney's office.

Speaker 2 00:16:39 And I tell you, you know Mike Waller, I owe him everything. I love the guy. I know some people don't, but he's a politician. There's people that hate his guts, people that love and support him. He always was a gentleman to me, and I never. I just thought that, the decision making he made was good, and he gave me a job saving my bacon. You know, and so I got to begin my career as a prosecutor. And I was a line assistant state's attorney in Waukegan. They start you off as a DUI assistant. So, you know, brand new 25 year old kid. I was prosecuting DUIs. Misdemeanor DUIs. Right? Misdemeanor traffic cases out in the branch courts. And that was very good. Fulfilling. Fun work, I liked it. Okay. You know, you did. and then, they switched me to just misdemeanor stuff. And I was prosecuting your retail thefts. And back when weed was illegal, I was prosecuting your weed cases and your trespassing.

Speaker 2 00:17:31 And here's your fights. And then they stuck me in the domestic violence division for a long time.

Speaker 1 00:17:35 Okay, so how was that?

Speaker 2 00:17:38 Okay. You know Lew Frank. Of course. Okay. Lew Frank is a fantastic Grayslake. And he would say felt like five minutes underwater, you know, to to be a line assistant in the domestic violence courtroom is hard.

Speaker 1 00:17:55 I.

Speaker 2 00:17:55 Bet. Because you have to look at the cases. And so, like, are you familiar with the cycle of violence? This is this theory.

Speaker 1 00:18:02 I am not.

Speaker 2 00:18:03 Okay. So it's a theory that's a big part of criminal prosecutions of domestic violence. And the cycle of violence goes like this. Right now we're having a fight, and I'm going to use the gender of he and she, you know, whatever. But sometimes women can be the victim of domestic violence. Sometimes guys can. But in a classic situation, let's say he slaps her. Okay. Then she calls the police. He's arrested. But then in a few days she's like, maybe he's not that bad or I need him out of jail so he can, like, work and pick up our kid from school.

Speaker 2 00:18:35 Like you've been a parent, you know? And so maybe she takes them back and then they have a honeymoon period where it's, like, passionate, like we love each other, and then it can happen again, you know? And that cycle of violence. The State's Attorney's office was really keen to interrupt it. Right. But then that meant that lots of times you'd have the victims, I guess recanting, they'd say, hey, that didn't happen like that, or I'm not coming to court, you know? And so that was frustrating. And then sometimes you had cases, not all, sometimes you had cases where it was a situation where the family's going through a domestic violence thing. Maybe. But maybe what it really is, is a child custody thing. And somebody ringing the bell of domestic violence to get a leg up on somebody in a child custody type proceeding. Right. Like, like I'm going to get an order of protection against him. So I get our kid, which, I mean, I get that, but you need to really be careful about abuses of the system.

Speaker 2 00:19:32 So as a line assistant with the State Attorney's office, as back then, I mean, things have changed a little bit now. They have had two different, changeovers between the state's attorney. but anyway, long story short, you still have to use your discretion to decide what really happened. And at least at the time I was a state's attorney, we were empowered with a good amount of discretion. It was awesome.

Speaker 1 00:19:53 Really.

Speaker 2 00:19:54 So.

Speaker 1 00:19:54 Yeah. And and I'm sure with that, too, like, you probably get to be a really good read of people. but then sometimes you probably think you are and then people bamboozle whatever. And you probably don't even know.

Speaker 2 00:20:06 I mean, you ever been lied to about your own kid, right?

Speaker 1 00:20:09 I mean, you believe.

Speaker 2 00:20:09 Him, and then you believe him, and you're like, I have egg on my face. I was lied to in kind. You know, so sometimes, you know, you just you don't have a, a lie detector that buzzes when she lies or he lies, you don't know.

Speaker 2 00:20:25 So you have to do your best with what the facts are. But there was a good team at the time. But yeah, I did. Two and a half years as a as a domestic violence prosecutor. And then so when I left the State's Attorney's office, I thought to myself, well, I've been doing family law cases basically already. I may as well do them as a business. Sure. You know, so that's what I did. So now my practice is a hybrid. That's why I say divorces and DUIs. It's family law cases. And then it's criminal law cases too, because I've done all that.

Speaker 1 00:20:52 Wow. So your resume is quite deep for all kinds of different things, right?

Speaker 2 00:20:58 I guess.

Speaker 1 00:20:59 Right.

Speaker 2 00:20:59 You know, it's just like, I don't know how other people get through life. This is just what I did. Right.

Speaker 1 00:21:05 Well, and everybody, you know, people look at different people, whether you're a doctor, whether you're a lawyer, whether you're a podcaster, where whatever you do that, everybody does something for a line of work that, you know, people are.

Speaker 1 00:21:16 You deal with very delicate situations, people going through stuff. And especially the one thing about the family law stuff, it it must be hard for you to stay. You have to almost train yourself to not get emotionally involved in some of those things, right?

Speaker 2 00:21:28 I sometimes.

Speaker 1 00:21:28 Do.

Speaker 2 00:21:29 I remember my first adoption. You know, we had a case that was a very ugly family law case, and it went on a long time. And then at the end of it, the dad, he agreed to put the child up for adoption. To the mom and her new husband. Okay. So the dad was making a very hard choice. Because, I mean, to give up your child, you know, and to look in the mirror and say, all right, I wasn't doing that good of a job. This new dude who's married my ex girl, he'll do better in the best interest of my child. It takes kind of like a man to do that.

Speaker 1 00:22:06 Oh, that's a big decision, right? It's a big leap of faith.

Speaker 2 00:22:08 But on the other hand, too, you know, maybe people are judging him about. You walked away from your kid, you didn't fight harder. So it's very tough, you know. And that's the type of case I remember I had, like, one manly tear going down my.

Speaker 1 00:22:18 Face.

Speaker 2 00:22:19 Looking into my steely eyed gaze. No it wasn't. I was bawling like a baby. I was so happy for them, you know? But also that's that's. Those are big moments. Yeah.

Speaker 1 00:22:30 So you cool stuff too? Yeah, right. And to see people come through stuff that they deserve that the, the law can either work in your favor or against you. And it's nice when it actually works, right.

Speaker 2 00:22:40 It's hard. I will say, okay. I was worried as a kid that I would come into the law and see a lot of weird stuff, like judges tossing cases in exchange for Cubs tickets. I have never seen any of that in Lake County. Really? I have never seen anything crooked or weird.

Speaker 2 00:22:58 Everybody's been really professional. I mean, and I'm like, me that right? It's not just because I want to keep on working with these people. Most of them are fantastic.

Speaker 1 00:23:06 Well, well, the Cubs have been doing that.

Speaker 2 00:23:08 Well, no better than the White Sox, sadly.

Speaker 1 00:23:11 Now, if somebody did something bad.

Speaker 2 00:23:12 For White Sox.

Speaker 1 00:23:13 Tickets, we really question what.

Speaker 2 00:23:15 I heard. You could buy some chili at Wendy's and you get free season tickets to the White Sox, right? A cup of chili at Wendy's.

Speaker 1 00:23:22 So well. In all seriousness, it is really good to hear you say that because, you know, everybody watches all these TV show, every law TV show and court TV show that people have this fantasy of things, how how they how they go along.

Speaker 2 00:23:34 I don't ever watch any legal TV at all. Ever. I just don't. That's probably a good idea. The last legal movie was probably Liar Liar with Jim Carrey, which is a fantastic movie.

Speaker 1 00:23:46 Very serious movie about the law.

Speaker 2 00:23:48 I don't because I like do it for a living. And then honestly, at 502 when I'm at home, I'm like, I'll see you tomorrow. That sounds like a a modern day problem, al.

Speaker 1 00:23:58 Right. Right.

Speaker 2 00:24:00 So no, because otherwise you go insane.

Speaker 1 00:24:02 No. Yeah, well, everybody needs a break from their job. Nobody wants to go home and do it. And that's why, you know, I've been self-employed for a very long time. That's why most self-employed people end up getting in office in hopes that when you go to the office, you can leave and leave your work there and go home. And if they can make that work.

Speaker 2 00:24:20 That's why I don't work from home. Ever.

Speaker 1 00:24:22 Yeah, well, good for you.

Speaker 2 00:24:23 I mean, I guess ever is a word, I mean. I, I don't. Never say never. I don't like to work from home. And I very, very, very seldom.

Speaker 1 00:24:30 Do.

Speaker 2 00:24:30 It.

Speaker 1 00:24:30 Right. Okay. That's good.

Speaker 1 00:24:32 let's do something, because I have a couple other questions to ask you, but, you've said you've listened to a couple of podcasts. Sure. so we do something about halfway through. I call the Grayslake hot seat, where we have some rapid fire questions to get to know you just a little bit better.

Speaker 2 00:24:45 I ain't scared enough.

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Speaker 1 00:25:26 Now for the Grayslake hotseat. Hey. Thanks, Joe. This is where we need the, This. We should have done with a surveillance camera to do this, I think would have been really good.

Speaker 2 00:25:36 I've seen lots of those police interviews. I'm looking around for the mirror with the guy behind it.

Speaker 1 00:25:42 It's just. It is behind there. We just have the, newer ones, so to say. okay. So, Grayslake. Casey, did you play a, a sport in high school in the lake bluff of the the swimming.

Speaker 2 00:25:58 I was on my country club swim team. The floss. More flyers. Yeah. Wow.

Speaker 1 00:26:03 Yeah, that sounds bougie as all good.

Speaker 2 00:26:05 It was kind of bougie, but, I mean, at the time, I didn't think it was. And at the time, I thought I looked fat in that Speedo. But now I look at those pictures, I'm like, you looked awesome, right?

Speaker 1 00:26:13 Well, you got to look back.

Speaker 2 00:26:14 Were you wearing a Speedo and everything? It was the 90s.

Speaker 1 00:26:17 Were you good?

Speaker 2 00:26:18 I mean, okay. Okay. I didn't come in last place because I'm kind of tall, right? And they made me swim a lot. I mean, in the morning, they would say it's 7:00 in the morning, do a bunch of laps. And when you're 14, 15, 16, you do that a lot. You get to be fit.

Speaker 1 00:26:32 Oh, absolutely. It's the best.

Speaker 2 00:26:34 That was nice. I like that I played T-ball as a little kid. but no, swimming was my jam. And then I became a lifeguard. I was a lifeguard for the H.F. Park district. That was fantastic.

Speaker 1 00:26:43 Yeah, that's not a bad gig to have. Awesome gig. Yeah. Nice. First car.

Speaker 2 00:26:48 Well, Volvo 740, a blue baby blue Volvo 740.

Speaker 1 00:26:52 Nice. I'm a Volvo.

Speaker 2 00:26:54 It helped me get one of my first girlfriends who was, honest to God, a Swedish foreign exchange student at my high school. No way. Anne-Marie. Honest to God.

Speaker 2 00:27:04 And she.

Speaker 1 00:27:04 Got her with a Volvo.

Speaker 2 00:27:06 Because they make them in Sweden. And she. She sees it and she goes, oh, she goes, what an awesome car. But I wish it was a Saab.

Speaker 1 00:27:14 You did?

Speaker 2 00:27:15 She did. Totally.

Speaker 1 00:27:16 That's so great. And, folks, I want you to listen closely. Maybe. Hit the rewind button there, because that is the first and last time you'll ever hear on the show about how a guy got a girl because of a Volvo.

Speaker 2 00:27:25 That was unlikely.

Speaker 1 00:27:27 The only reason that it will happen, totally.

Speaker 2 00:27:29 But it was it was. That was my Volvo. It was my in with the Swedish girl. I was fine by me.

Speaker 1 00:27:34 That was hilarious. Yeah, and they don't make many blue ones like that either. So it.

Speaker 2 00:27:38 Was cool. It was a baby blue Volvo. I mean, whatever, I don't think it was. No, it wasn't cool, but it got me from A to B and. Right.

Speaker 1 00:27:45 Whatever, man.

Speaker 1 00:27:46 Hey, I got 200,000 on mine sitting in the parking lot.

Speaker 2 00:27:48 I had a Dodge Neon for a while. I love that Dodge Neon. Right. I can talk about cars.

Speaker 1 00:27:51 Yeah. You were, Yes. The the, two of the hottest cars. I could think of. Hot stuff in my head. speaking of that. So this is what? Oh, maybe this would be a fun one for you. What's the fastest you've ever gone in a in a vehicle?

Speaker 2 00:28:06 Well, I got, like, an airplane, like.

Speaker 1 00:28:07 No, no, no, we'll leave that out.

Speaker 2 00:28:09 Like in.

Speaker 1 00:28:10 A car. In a car.

Speaker 2 00:28:10 I don't know, a hundred.

Speaker 1 00:28:12 Just a.

Speaker 2 00:28:12 Hundred, you know. Yeah. Because, I mean, I was a kid and stepping on it. Right. And nowadays, if you do that, like, I never do that anymore. I don't speed anymore. I don't, because the consequences. And I don't mean like death and dismemberment. Yeah.

Speaker 2 00:28:24 That happens.

Speaker 1 00:28:25 That's all legal consequences.

Speaker 2 00:28:26 Yeah. The cops light you up, you know, and the the cases are class A misdemeanors. and they're punishable by up to a year in jail and or a fine of $2,500.

Speaker 1 00:28:36 Wow.

Speaker 2 00:28:37 Back when I was a prosecutor, I became friends with some police. And maybe they don't say this anymore, but I used to hear nine year fine, 11 year mine. Okay. All right. Which is consistent with my lived experience.

Speaker 1 00:28:49 Of going nine miles over.

Speaker 2 00:28:50 Nine year fine 11 year. Mine is what the police would say. And and that bears with what I've seen during the time that I've, I've done lots and lots of traffic tickets as a, as a prosecutor and as a defense attorney. And you never see somebody getting pulled over for five over. Right? You know, they are looking at you for 11 to 15 starting at 11, maybe 15 now 20. They want you right? You know, but like I said, nine. You're fine.

Speaker 2 00:29:15 11. Your mind. I think that's pretty good. That's the advice I give a lot of the kids that I represent. This is.

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Speaker 4 00:30:09 And now back to the program.

Speaker 1 00:30:11 Interesting. That's good advice, too. which is funny. I won't tell you how fast I've gone then, because I would not have been fine. Tell me something. Do you like to travel? You have not been.

Speaker 2 00:30:25 So I've been like Johnny Cash. I've been everywhere, you know. I have been to lots of different places in this country because my wife is a maniac for travel. She loves it. And we have little kids and we take road trips. But we had little kids. Now they're getting old. my oldest is a sophomore in high school.

Speaker 1 00:30:40 Oh, my gosh, it goes fast. It does it really. It just moves. It moves moves, moves so fast. And then I think I heard you have a ten year old too, right?

Speaker 2 00:30:46 He's he's a wonderful guy. Awesome guy. but yeah, I have a of a 16 to 12 and a ten, and we've always done road trips around the country. you know, I don't know, early ones where? Tennessee and Kentucky, Upper Peninsula of Michigan, all through Wisconsin.

Speaker 2 00:31:00 Indiana. Out to Maine. East coast, Florida. A lot of times we've flown out to California, Utah and Nevada. so around the country And then, like I used to, I lived in Europe briefly. I lived in London for a few years.

Speaker 1 00:31:14 Did she really? How cool is that?

Speaker 2 00:31:16 My mom, she was a lawyer at, Amoco. Right. The the gasoline company, you know, Amoco. They used to have that big white tower in downtown Chicago. The Amoco building, right? Absolutely. Formerly Standard Oil of Indiana. John Rockefeller's thing. And then they trust. Busted it. Whatever. Monopoly busted it. Right. So. But Amoco, if you remember, in the 90s, merged with BP, British Petroleum. So they moved my mom's job from Chicago to London. So we lived there for a while, and I was kind of in school in champagne and going to London in the summertime. That was awesome.

Speaker 1 00:31:47 Oh yeah, especially at that age. But it was really cool.

Speaker 2 00:31:50 I worked at a bar. I worked at a pub called the Prince Albert Stafford. That is the guy. It was awesome.

Speaker 1 00:31:58 Folks, this isn't a real interview. Just so you know, I just brought one of my buddies in.

Speaker 2 00:32:02 I worked at a at a pub called the Prince Albert, and it was in, Notting Hill. Right. You remember Notting Hill with the Hugh Grant movie? You've probably never seen that movie.

Speaker 1 00:32:11 I've seen the movie poster.

Speaker 2 00:32:12 I saw the poster. Yeah. So Hugh Grant, I thought he was good in the dad movie. But I never saw Notting Hill. But I worked in Notting Hill. so. Yeah, I don't know. Travel places.

Speaker 1 00:32:23 There's nothing that you have, like a bucket list. Like I gotta.

Speaker 2 00:32:26 Go. Like I don't need to go to Thailand. I don't know. I guess if I had infinite money, I'd travel Europe again, I like it. Sure.

Speaker 1 00:32:32 You know, when the. The age of your kid. It sounds like you did your traveling and you did what you wanted to.

Speaker 1 00:32:36 And your kids have got, like, some of the best education that kids can get is traveling all over the United States because the United States is cool.

Speaker 2 00:32:43 It's fantastic. And like when you travel the United States, like the other day I was coming back from Florida on I-65. We stopped at the Bucky's in Athens, Alabama, which is, you know, a Bucky's is like a like a, you know, if you, you know, a Bucky's, of course. Yeah. It's a giant gas station in front of a giant Walmart, basically. You know, or maybe more like a Kmart.

Speaker 1 00:33:03 But one of my favorite places, one of my favorite things, if anybody goes on TikTok right now, there's a woman that explains what Buc-ees is and is the most brilliant thing I've ever seen in my whole life. I love it. Like, if you want to feel like your true, true white trash, she explains exactly what it is. And because we all get excited to go to a Bucky's right.

Speaker 2 00:33:22 My kids were stupid excited. They were. And I'm like, guys, it's a gas station that's in front of a K-Mart. What are you talking about? You know.

Speaker 1 00:33:29 Exactly what.

Speaker 2 00:33:30 It is. I mean, whatever. Back in the old days, Kmart used to have barbecue sandwiches, too. True.

Speaker 1 00:33:35 You just couldn't get a puzzle. A sweatshirt and a, you know, corned beef sandwich? No. All at the same time.

Speaker 2 00:33:40 It's a fancy dress I've traveled around. It's great. I like.

Speaker 1 00:33:43 The train. I like the Bucky's. Was one of the highlights on your trip. Kept coming back. It kind of was. It's kind of. It's kind of fun. And we're getting one close to here now. I keep seeing the signs. God love. Yeah.

Speaker 2 00:33:53 God love them. I hope that they take over. I'm ready for Bucky's to be the only employer in the United States.

Speaker 1 00:34:00 Did we talk? What was your first job when you were. So you lifeguard was a lifeguard?

Speaker 2 00:34:05 Yeah, I was a lifeguard.

Speaker 1 00:34:05 Did we call that a job? Is that a job?

Speaker 2 00:34:07 Oh, really? Man. Lifeguard. It could be my career. That is a fantastic job.

Speaker 1 00:34:12 Maybe when you want to retire, you can go back and be a lifeguard.

Speaker 2 00:34:14 My uncle, actually, he was like a car salesman and stuff. And then when he retired, he used to be a lifeguard at his, you know, apartment complex. Like, that's a great job, dude. Come on.

Speaker 1 00:34:24 Wow. Maybe when I grow up, I'll look into that.

Speaker 2 00:34:26 Be a lifeguard.

Speaker 1 00:34:27 It's cool. I'm gonna.

Speaker 2 00:34:28 It's cool.

Speaker 1 00:34:29 I think it could be a.

Speaker 2 00:34:30 Tad creepy.

Speaker 1 00:34:31 If I applied at the Grayslake pool right now.

Speaker 2 00:34:33 No, I mean, they need people that with with with maturity and experience. Yes. You know.

Speaker 1 00:34:39 I have a shirt that says that that's for my requirements.

Speaker 2 00:34:42 And it was nice. And I worked at Jewel. I worked at the library in summer. I mean, it was great.

Speaker 1 00:34:47 So you had a lot of different jobs? Yeah.

Speaker 1 00:34:48 So you actually were taught some work ethic as a as a child from your parents as well?

Speaker 2 00:34:53 Well, they worked hard. My parents, they loved each other. They stayed together the whole time. They were both lawyers. They worked. And I just wanted to work. Right.

Speaker 1 00:35:01 I don't know. They said very good examples, right? That's awesome. first concert you ever attended?

Speaker 2 00:35:07 Man, I don't know. okay. It was, the World Music Center, right? Yeah. Q101 had one of those concerts that's like, not it wasn't, not not, Twisted Christmas. It's the one they did in the summertime. And I remember that garbage. Jamiroquai. Mighty, mighty.

Speaker 1 00:35:27 Boston's nice.

Speaker 2 00:35:29 Were there. I mean, that's, like, awesome. And I went with a Swedish girl. Really? So. Yeah.

Speaker 1 00:35:34 Did you drive the Volvo.

Speaker 2 00:35:35 There, though? Maybe I might have got dropped off by my parents, so.

Speaker 1 00:35:39 Good, good. Good concert.

Speaker 2 00:35:41 I saw the Smashing Pumpkins down there, but that was a different day.

Speaker 2 00:35:44 Oh, nice. Billy Corgan, love that guy.

Speaker 1 00:35:46 Yeah. He, Billy was at that because I had forever. I forget that where they're from, around North Shore. Yeah, right. And I was hanging out, and I was doing a daddy daughter dance, and a guy came up that looked a lot like Billy Corgan and asked for a song. And I had told him no. Yeah, because it wasn't really. It wasn't really appropriate. Yeah, right. And then somebody came back and one of the people said, well, Mr. Corgan asked for a song, and I guess you told him that you weren't going to play it. And I'm like, okay, well, it just didn't fit with what we were going to do, because I like to think that I do the right thing, right? You do the wood, you work music, you do the right thing for the party. You got to know your audience, unless it's Billy Corgan. And then you just say.

Speaker 2 00:36:23 Do what he says.

Speaker 1 00:36:24 Right?

Speaker 5 00:36:24 Despite all my rage, he's awesome.

Speaker 2 00:36:27 It was the best.

Speaker 1 00:36:28 And it wasn't a pumpkin song, though.

Speaker 2 00:36:29 Oh, that's too bad.

Speaker 1 00:36:30 I wish I knew what the song was, though, to look back.

Speaker 2 00:36:32 I would think that Billy loves putting on pumpkin songs. I would think that he lists the pumpkins all the time.

Speaker 1 00:36:38 He's driving around right now listening.

Speaker 2 00:36:40 To all these new stuff because his old stuff is for posers. He's like that old stuff. I'm over it. Only my new stuff. Only Billy and Machines have got to listen to right now.

Speaker 1 00:36:48 Yeah. That's hilarious. if you had to have a superpower, what would it be?

Speaker 2 00:36:54 Being the greatest golfer ever.

Speaker 1 00:36:57 Really?

Speaker 2 00:36:57 Yeah.

Speaker 1 00:36:58 Come on. That would be good. But then you wouldn't have. Would it be any fun? Because then you beat everybody all the time. But yeah, you could play with people though.

Speaker 2 00:37:05 Then you'd be good at golf. And that's what my dream would be. I would love to.

Speaker 2 00:37:08 I'm not that good at golf. I wish I were okay. I practice and practice and the people that are naturally gifted, I look at them with such envy, you know?

Speaker 1 00:37:17 Now, being a being an attorney makes you a better golfer, though. Doesn't like doctors and attorneys and like.

Speaker 2 00:37:22 Yeah, yeah. And some of the attorneys really suck, which is great because I can just stuff them. You know, these old guys especially that that don't play that much. Oh, I'm way better than them. That makes me feel so good about myself just to stuff them. Yeah. Hey. Nice chat counsel. Oh.

Speaker 1 00:37:38 That's fantastic. what do you wish you learned sooner in life?

Speaker 2 00:37:43 Spanish. Really? Totally, dude.

Speaker 1 00:37:45 It's a great answer.

Speaker 2 00:37:46 Spanish.

Speaker 1 00:37:47 Wow. Okay. So, you know, young people, people in high school, people go in and they're like. I have to tell them. It's probably one of the best things you can do. Right. As an education level, Just.

Speaker 2 00:38:00 Your friends, your coworkers, your clients. You know, I mean, learning Spanish is awesome. I personally have a super awesome, legal assistant, and, she is bilingual and she helps me do so much. So I shout out to Crystal. Crystal, you're fantastic. But, like I said, if only I had paid more attention in school and I was better at Spanish, I wish. Right?

Speaker 1 00:38:21 Yeah. No. And it's really. That's a great answer. I'm going to. Maybe I'll start learning a different language. have you ever eaten a roller dog from a gas station? No, really? With all the all the road trips you've taken.

Speaker 2 00:38:34 I don't do that.

Speaker 1 00:38:35 Maybe I'm smarter than me.

Speaker 2 00:38:36 Because I'm worried about, like, dying from bacteria. Like it's. Guys, it's only ten more hours to Chicago. Stop 11.

Speaker 5 00:38:43 Times.

Speaker 2 00:38:43 Or having.

Speaker 1 00:38:44 Explosive diarrhea on a.

Speaker 2 00:38:45 On a road trip. You know, I don't either. I never eaten, I mean, I've bought stuff at gas stations, beer, I've bought smokes, I've bought lots of things.

Speaker 2 00:38:53 if I'm gonna shop for food at gas stations, it's probably beef jerky.

Speaker 1 00:38:57 They do have some coffee.

Speaker 2 00:38:58 Beef jerky. Maybe some candy.

Speaker 1 00:39:00 Okay, nice. what's the chance that, Bigfoot exists?

Speaker 2 00:39:04 0%.

Speaker 1 00:39:05 Really?

Speaker 2 00:39:05 It's a hoax.

Speaker 1 00:39:06 Really?

Speaker 2 00:39:07 Yeah, I don't believe. I don't think so. Cryptids.

Speaker 1 00:39:09 Really?

Speaker 2 00:39:10 I'm not aliens. I'm not sure. Ghosts I don't believe in. Okay, okay.

Speaker 1 00:39:15 All right. Okay. We were friends right up until. Let's see, what's the mark on there? 3605.

Speaker 2 00:39:21 It's okay. You think that Bigfoot exists?

Speaker 1 00:39:23 I. I think that the best, the best answer I ever got from it was from Doctor Terry Silky. our wonderful big. One of the biggest philanthropists in town. who's a orthodontic specialist for Lake County. Big shout out, Terry. he said that we think about all the things that we've gone through, like from history, from dinosaurs, to, like, all this thing. He's like, if you don't think it's a distinct possibility that we have a Bigfoot, maybe.

Speaker 1 00:39:48 Maybe not today. Right. But maybe in the past. Like with all the things that we've had, he said. But, you know, this guy's been on 20 safaris and you've seen the whole thing.

Speaker 2 00:39:58 You would think that there would be, like, Bigfoot heads mounted in the Smithsonian, you know.

Speaker 1 00:40:03 Or at Bill's Pub.

Speaker 2 00:40:04 Or Bill's Pub. Definitely. You know. I mean, there would be that. And I mean, the fact is, like, I know people lie and they sometimes lie for attention. So ergo, could it have been a hoax, too? Oh.

Speaker 1 00:40:15 Maybe.

Speaker 2 00:40:16 Right.

Speaker 1 00:40:16 And actually, if anybody's watching, I just got this shirt as a gift. It's come from. It's from Logan, Ohio. And they have a, in the summertime. They have a Bigfoot festival there. Yeah. So my only thing is, if he doesn't exist, because this is this podcast is really about Bigfoot. It's not about you. Just so you know.

Speaker 2 00:40:35 But I.

Speaker 1 00:40:35 Hear you. But why or why is it such a big hoax everywhere? Then why do they have festivals for these?

Speaker 2 00:40:40 Cute. I mean, like, people, you know? I mean, people, like, they think he's adorable. He's funny. He's like a meme. I think before memes.

Speaker 1 00:40:47 Kill people, I think that might be.

Speaker 2 00:40:49 What about Harry and the Hendersons? He was nice.

Speaker 1 00:40:51 Yeah, that was just a. That's fiction. Like, he was nice, like Notting Hill.

Speaker 2 00:40:54 He would always be like. He would always, like, hide bashfully in the closet. He's cool.

Speaker 1 00:40:59 And John Lithgow, isn't that too?

Speaker 2 00:41:00 He's nice. Right? He's always frustrated here. He does something.

Speaker 1 00:41:04 Well, when I have evidence, I'm calling you.

Speaker 2 00:41:06 Call me. I would love to be proven wrong about this, and I will. I would be happy to to to shake Bigfoot's hand.

Speaker 1 00:41:12 Okay, good. Because now that we have these new phones that have better, you know, they focus better.

Speaker 1 00:41:16 Now we'll get a clear picture of them, not just the fuzzy ones.

Speaker 2 00:41:19 I only wish that Nessie was existing. The Loch Ness monster, that's my favorite cryptid. And I have never seen any good proof of that. That's a darn shame.

Speaker 1 00:41:28 Yeah, well, hey, you never know. We're finding out all kinds of fun things these days. You never know. All right, so I think it's time we switch off of our hotseat. Questions that we've covered the really important stuff. Thank you. one thing I want to thank you for, because I know that you are a part of an organization, here, which is the Exchange Club. Yeah. so I know that, let's talk for people that aren't familiar with the Exchange Club. What is it? What is it based upon?

Speaker 2 00:41:53 Okay, so the Exchange Club is cool. It's really an old organization. It's from, I don't know, 1913. And it is a group that I like in Grayslake because I just get together with my friends and have lunch.

Speaker 2 00:42:05 Right. You know, so it's a bunch of business and community leaders. or not even, I mean, not at all. Some of them are just regular people. We have a, you know, like, I don't know, I want to say a retired teacher, not a community leader, but, you know, retired teachers come. And we had a retired accountant lady for a long time. And, you know, people that are just townies. Right. and, they come on, they have lunch where at first draft it's noon. if anybody wants to come to the Exchange Club, it's free lunch. Call me. (847) 549-0600. You can be my guest, but I like the Exchange club, because the main thing is that they plan big parties for the town. You know, they have the craft beer festival, you know, they do, stuff with, I got a taste of Grayslake downtown summer thing. Yeah.

Speaker 1 00:42:46 And what did you change the name of all the time? Summer days.

Speaker 1 00:42:48 Summer days, Summerfest.

Speaker 2 00:42:50 They. but they they do cool stuff. They raise money and then they give that money away to kids in grades, like to go to school, right?

Speaker 1 00:42:56 SIPs for scholarships. That's what the, the the craft beer festival is.

Speaker 2 00:42:59 Yes. And then and it's good money. They're like, here's a thousand bucks, kid. And it's a Grayslake student that's a top student to go to college. You know, they do good stuff like that. They promote Americanism. you know, what is that? It is what? It's that Americanism is like liking 911 and being interested in our country and like. Right. You know, so it's a cool organization. Check it out.

Speaker 1 00:43:21 Yeah. And I like all the nice things they do and the, the men and women that are involved in that. I happen to be fond of a lot of them. Yeah. I think the one day that I knew I knew nothing about the Exchange Club, and I think it was the day that you guys were doing your, you you had picked a couple of kids for scholarships.

Speaker 1 00:43:36 You were giving them. And I saw these kids first. I was walking down to have an afternoon beer at the first draft or something like that. So I saw these two kids, like walking back to school and these big smiles on their faces. right? So I get to the bottom and a bunch of the Exchange Club members are hanging out, and to see these men that were standing there, and they were so blown away and so happy and so just straightforward, just happy about what they did. It was it made me really have a fondness for the organization.

Speaker 2 00:44:05 And I just want to shout out to the Grayslake kids from North and Central. They're like really fantastic kids, you know? the some of the kids that are winning these awards, I mean, back when I was a kid, I tried to get good grades. I tried to do well in my tests, but otherwise I just went home.

Speaker 1 00:44:22 How did I get so smart?

Speaker 2 00:44:23 I don't, and they. And they have the energy, this boundless energy that is really.

Speaker 2 00:44:27 It's admirable and kind of scary. So God level, I mean, whatever.

Speaker 1 00:44:33 Which is.

Speaker 2 00:44:34 Good. Don't you ever nap, you know, don't you ever eat too much pizza and then go to sleep, right, like me. So.

Speaker 1 00:44:39 Right. Right. And especially as a high school kid. Right. And these guys are doing really, really well with things. Yeah.

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Speaker 1 00:45:09 Cool! So I love to see people that get involved with organizations, especially like when going back, like the Safe Place kind of things. So explain this to me too. Are there more than one location for Safe Place? Because there's one in Zion.

Speaker 1 00:45:21 Is there also one in Mundelein?

Speaker 2 00:45:23 So okay, that is the family visitation center. Okay. Okay. That I believe has moved. Okay. So you'd want to check with Safe Place about the details for when I was involved in the organization. They had two places. They had a women's shelter. That was like a big apartment building in Zion, and it's tucked away. So you don't know about it, right? God love them. But then they also have a really important role that they play, having to do with, facilitating visitation or exchanges of parties that have, like ops against each other. Orders of protection. Yep. Okay. So you've got to go there. You, like drop off your kid in the front, and then dad comes in the back, and then they have like a meeting and they hang out for an hour and have pizza. And then there's people watching, like little child. Jimmy smiled when you saw dad. Right. And they take notes and they give that to the court and the safe place.

Speaker 2 00:46:16 Like, honestly, so many exchanges, so much visitation just couldn't happen because of the acrimony between the parties. But for what a safe place does. So they're cool. They're they're fantastic.

Speaker 1 00:46:27 I love them and it's nice. And I like places that are put together that look for the best for the children and to keep them safe to and keep, because sometimes just two people just don't get along. So that's a nice way to then get in there.

Speaker 2 00:46:38 It's one of the toughest things about family cases is when you have a tremendous amount of acrimony, even like a good divorce, where it's just. I don't love him anymore. You know, you've got to co-parent the kid. But when it's a situation where it's like he raped me or he beat me up, or he right got 60 Y's or he. Whatever those cases, you know, the judges are very reluctant to totally shut out a parent. So they'll give him or her sometimes. Sometimes it's a her, you know, supervised visitation, wrangled by a safe place or supervised by perhaps somebody else, like a mom or grandma or whatever.

Speaker 2 00:47:13 Okay. but those, those organizations that facilitate the, the best interest of the kid and the, the parenting time, the the courts. I don't know how they could function before that. That, safe place started doing that.

Speaker 1 00:47:26 Yeah. No, it must be a really, really hard thing to do. well, one of the things that I really enjoy, I have to tell you, because I was having a conversation before we got together today, and a man was, who's potential, guest on another show was asking me my my, my motivations on why he wanted to come on. And the guy clearly, wanted to come out and just advertise his business. Right. And I was trying to explain to him that this these are the conversations you are having. You and I are having right now that I really like that. very soon, hopefully, we're gonna have Chief Myra chief of police on, because I really like humanizing. some people have jobs or positions that people don't really get to know, right? So if I had to hire somebody for a family attorney or a DUI attorney or a criminal attorney, I hope that I get to listen to the show so that they get to know your personality, to know that you're a human being, right?

Speaker 2 00:48:16 My personality is is unique, but there are a lot of really good attorneys in Lake County.

Speaker 2 00:48:21 I'm happy to help people. Whatever.

Speaker 1 00:48:23 Yeah. Well, no. And I think it's nice.

Speaker 2 00:48:24 I like to be humble. I'm not trying to. Well, you're very humble out there, right? I'm not. I'm not trying to be like. Oh, yeah. I'm like the only one around because I'm not, you know, and like I said, in Lake County, we're blessed with a strong bench and bar, right. You know, and honestly, I get along with just about all of them.

Speaker 1 00:48:40 That's cool. Okay, so let's do this. because of people. So let's, to help our listeners out there listening. So let's talk. first of all, when starting to divorce proceedings like they're they know they're going to get divorced, maybe some advice on how they go about finding an attorney that would be right for them. Is that a hard question?

Speaker 2 00:49:00 Yeah. So finding an attorney. I mean, a lot of people want to do word of mouth. They talk to their their cousin.

Speaker 2 00:49:06 How you got divorced in Lake County. Tell me who you use and then call that guy. That's probably a good decision.

Speaker 1 00:49:12 Not to tell you who not to use.

Speaker 2 00:49:13 Right?

Speaker 1 00:49:14 In their opinion, though, totally right. maybe the decision didn't go their way so it could be false information, right?

Speaker 2 00:49:21 Totally. A lot of people just go to Google and they'll Google like Libertyville divorce attorney or Lake County divorce attorney or whatever. And you can get hits there. And you look at their Google reviews we have I mean, my law firm has fantastic reviews, but that's just because we try to just, I don't know, do a good job and then clear the case. You know, try to Because, like, if you take one guy's divorce case and you're like a vampire on his neck and you drain him till he's totally out of blood. Well, you know, that's one case, okay? I'd rather just, like, help a guy and then get a good review and help another guy and get a good review and help a guy and get a good review, and then just, like, kind of build it up that way.

Speaker 2 00:49:56 That's way better, right?

Speaker 1 00:49:58 And with integrity, when you're walking away, then you can sleep at night and make sure that you know that you can help people out.

Speaker 2 00:50:04 I sleep.

Speaker 1 00:50:04 At night. Right. That's good. Yeah. All right, so how about, DUI?

Speaker 2 00:50:09 So. Okay. How to find a DUI attorney or. So same.

Speaker 1 00:50:13 Thing. I know how to get one.

Speaker 2 00:50:14 I know.

Speaker 1 00:50:15 It's just not the.

Speaker 2 00:50:16 Attorney. So, I mean, man, I use Lyfts now. Yes. You know, I, I really do I.

Speaker 1 00:50:21 I cheapest thing to do. Right.

Speaker 2 00:50:23 It's 20 bucks here and back and you don't have to worry about. Am I going to get in trouble. Right. You know, and you don't have to worry about. Am I going to hurt somebody or whatever?

Speaker 1 00:50:32 So yeah, I heard somebody. Maybe it was another stupid social media thing I saw. But there again, like it was a $20 ride home, right? For, let's say I have to go from Grayslake up to Atkinson, like at the bar.

Speaker 1 00:50:42 How many Lyft rides would it take to equal to a two? Would it cost to hire an attorney to go through the DUI process?

Speaker 2 00:50:51 So I think it was NHTSA, the National Highway Transportation Safety Administration, one of those organizations, used to run a billboard campaign here in Lake County. And one of the billboards I remember was a picture of a kid blowing into a portable breath test. And there's the police cars, lights behind him, and it says, you just blew $10,000.

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Speaker 2 00:52:02 You know, which I think is like not inaccurate.

Speaker 1 00:52:06 Ten.

Speaker 2 00:52:06 Grand right. Because like so the legal fees like, I don't know, cheap one 2500, you know, a hot felony DUI 568, whatever, $1,000. So that's good money there. But even for your first time misdemeanor DUI, you're spending 2500, $3,500 on a lawyer. And then you get the fines, the court costs. There are 3 or $4000. There's treatment that you must do, you know, so you do alcohol or risk evaluations and pay for the classes and then woo woo. It gets to be expensive. So yeah, you know, and like I said, and everybody hates you.

Speaker 2 00:52:40 It's the shame.

Speaker 1 00:52:42 Right? Right. And it is the shame for it. Shame. Yes. So with that too. So hiring hire an attorney for that. You suggest to either kind of same thing. Word of mouth. Yeah. Listen, listen.

Speaker 2 00:52:53 Listen. Not talking about call me or call somebody else who's good, you know. that people know. And, definitely, I would recommend that you're hiring an attorney in the community in which you got the DUI. So, you know, you.

Speaker 1 00:53:05 That's great.

Speaker 2 00:53:05 Advice. You know, like, you know, if you're getting a DUI in Champaign, you don't want to bring some Chicago attorney, right? You want to hire like, the dude from Champaign who's been practicing there. And he sees the judge and goes, hi, Randy. You right. That's what you want, right? You know, you don't want the guy coming down with the D's and thumbs and those from the South side of Chicago. That's not what Champaign wants to see, right?

Speaker 1 00:53:29 Right.

Speaker 1 00:53:29 And that's just human nature. That's probably to do with anything in the world, right? Sure.

Speaker 2 00:53:34 That's awesome. Sure. So, an established name that is from there.

Speaker 1 00:53:37 Wow. I find it interesting. Like when? So. Did you know, like, with your both your both your parents were attorneys. Right, right. So what? How how old were you when you were like, this is what I'm going to do.

Speaker 2 00:53:48 It's like 23.

Speaker 1 00:53:49 Yeah. Oh, until then, I was old.

Speaker 2 00:53:51 Because I didn't really I mean, I don't know, the kids that are coming up through the Grayslake Central Grayslake North, they seem to like, know what they want to do. They're like, I want to be this kind of thing when I'm a junior in high school. I didn't know I was like, I want to graduate high school. Okay. And I'm going to go to college. Which one? That one. Okay. Now, what I want to do, I guess I'll work in an office, right? You know, and I didn't know anything.

Speaker 2 00:54:14 I thought I might sell life insurance, but it wound up that I got into law school, and then that was that. Was that. So, you know, and like I said, nine over 11 really wanted me to get into law enforcement. I really was like motivated by a patriotic thing. I don't know if that's cool or not, but I.

Speaker 1 00:54:29 Thought it was. Oh, no.

Speaker 2 00:54:30 I think that was that was important.

Speaker 1 00:54:31 No. And it gives you a reason. And sometimes it takes a while for us to find our purpose. Right. And that something that really drives you to to change your mind. And that was a pretty traumatic day for, for for everybody. Right? okay. So what am I, Oh, I know one thing we were talking about that I wanted. I want to cover. I do not want to turn this off. friend Mark Wilhite.

Speaker 2 00:54:53 Mark Wilhite is awesome.

Speaker 1 00:54:55 You said you may. You may or may not.

Speaker 2 00:54:56 So that's a story.

Speaker 1 00:54:57 And can we tell the story?

Speaker 2 00:55:00 Yeah, we can tell the story.

Speaker 2 00:55:01 So it I want to maybe a trigger warning has to do with death, right? Right. So, so Mark Wilhite is a fantastic guy. He's in the Exchange Club, and he is, the manager or maybe now the owner of Strang Funeral Chapel. over there on 120. Okay, across the street from Saint Gilbert. And very sadly, about ten years ago, my wife's stepdad died. Okay. And his name also was Mark. Fantastic guy. He was only in his 50s, and he had an accident where he fell off a ladder and died from it. Okay. Very sad. So it was a surprise, everyone said. But at the time, our Mark, the stepdad, Mark, he had grown a long, like, scruffy beard. Okay. And it looked terrible, but. So now he passed away. And so, his wife told the funeral home. She said, to Mark Wilhite. She said, all right, shave off his beard because it looks terrible. And so, of course, Mark Wilhite dutifully shaved off my, you know, my wife's stepdad.

Speaker 2 00:55:56 Mark's a beard and left him looking great, clean shaven. So he's laying there, and, Mark's our mark's wife was so mad. She's like, you got rid of his beard and his mustache, too. You should have kept his mustache now. Okay. Mark Wilhite, God love him, was like, all right, well, what we'll do is we'll use some spirit glue and we'll obtain a mustache and we'll put it on him. Okay?

Speaker 1 00:56:25 If everybody knows, Mark, the story is.

Speaker 2 00:56:27 Even I wanted to die laughing because our Mark, who had passed away. I wish they didn't have the same name because it's confusing for purposes of this podcast, but our mark would pass the way. He would have flipped out. Hilarious. The imagine getting a fake mustache fake mustache put on him while he's in his coffin. But actually, Mark Wilhite didn't do that. He used a razor and he cut off some hair, like in a hair transplant from the back of Mark's neck, and he built him a mustache out of spirit glue and his own hair.

Speaker 2 00:56:56 It looked fantastic, like a ten. We we couldn't believe it. He his mustache looked on point.

Speaker 1 00:57:07 Okay, so Mark will I he is the funniest guy and handles so many like he being a funeral director right? Tough he and just shows what like a multifaceted human being right to cover that and handle it. Very nice to shave and then just figure it out. Yeah. And doing a good a good job with the stash.

Speaker 2 00:57:28 And he didn't laugh because I started laughing. Not then because I knew Mark Wilhite from the Exchange Club and I'm laughing like, Mark, want to love this, you know? And and Wilhite was very grave about it. Right.

Speaker 1 00:57:43 Shout out to you, Mark.

Speaker 2 00:57:45 That's love.

Speaker 1 00:57:46 It's just really fantastic. It's pretty funny. Yeah. okay. So what what haven't we covered? We're getting down to towards the end. I know we covered a lot of things. I love to know a lot about people. We got to learn a little bit about your family, your background, what you do.

Speaker 1 00:57:59 You're obviously very passionate about it, and I like that. I like that you still enjoy your job, too.

Speaker 2 00:58:03 Mostly. I mean, you have bad days and good days, right? Right. So it happens sometimes. But to being a lawyer is is overall good. I like it, you know, it's like when you have a job, it is such an important part of one's personhood, especially in the United States where we look at somebody and go like, oh, he's a lawyer or he's a cop or he's a teacher or, you know, whatever. Like it's a part of your identity more than it is just a source of income for you, you know? And so to be a lawyer in Lake County has been good. It feels good.

Speaker 1 00:58:35 Nice. And Lake County must be a good place to work. I like that you have such good things to say about it there.

Speaker 2 00:58:40 I like it. And like I said, I've traveled everywhere. not. I mean, not everywhere.

Speaker 2 00:58:43 I've never been to Timbuktu. But, you know, I've traveled around it, and I'm like, I come back and I'm like, you're not too bad. The weather could be better. And unfortunately, sometimes the property taxes are too high. But there's jobs, there's schools, there's really nice people. There's fantastic pizza. I mean, what do you want?

Speaker 1 00:59:01 Right. Yeah. And by the courthouse, you got some good food and everything, too.

Speaker 2 00:59:04 So Waukegan is hit or miss. There's some fantastic restaurants there. I love talking about pizza. Kwanzaa.

Speaker 1 00:59:11 Come on. I'm coming after them with my Lake County podcast, because I got to hear the Quonset story.

Speaker 2 00:59:15 Kwanzaa. It's fantastic. Their pizza's off the chain.

Speaker 1 00:59:17 Yes. And, And Lennon's over there, too.

Speaker 2 00:59:19 Fantastic. I love their sandwich shop. Can't beat it while Keegan's got good food. I know on your questionnaire you asked me what? My favorite restaurant. Oh, yeah, the world was my favorite restaurants are really close in Homewood.

Speaker 2 00:59:30 You know, the big. The biggest pizza place in the universe. I think it's the best one. But up here in Grayslake, man, they make a good pizza, too.

Speaker 1 00:59:38 Absolutely. Do. Absolutely do. Yeah. I'm only there like three times a week.

Speaker 2 00:59:42 So Italian ovens. I think they went belly up. But I used to love Italian ovens, pizza. And like I said, my first restaurant Bill's fantastic pizza. Amen, Amen. And if I didn't shout at your restaurant, you know what improved your pizza?

Speaker 1 00:59:53 Improves you. So you're really a pizza guy, is what you're trying.

Speaker 2 00:59:56 All I want in my life. If I could just eat pizza and drink beer, I would. But then I'd look like Jabba the Hutt. So I have to do some other stuff.

Speaker 1 01:00:03 Lifeguard job would be out the.

Speaker 2 01:00:04 Window for you. I mean, I just got to get a large swimsuit, you know, it's a one piece.

Speaker 1 01:00:08 Right? I'm much more into a one piece these.

Speaker 2 01:00:11 Days.

Speaker 1 01:00:11 Too, right? That's awesome. Well, I really appreciate you coming on. Thank you. I appreciate your time. and hopefully I won't be calling you for anything except for, Yeah. Maybe, if we find a client for you.

Speaker 2 01:00:22 Well, I'd love to come back some other time. I really appreciate it, Dave.

Speaker 1 01:00:25 Thanks for having me. I appreciate you, buddy. All right. Crazy. Like. Hey, wherever you guys are listening. Do me a favor. whether you're on Spotify while you're on Apple or whether you're on YouTube. we did shoot this one on video, too. So, if you want to check out, we are trying to do some more things to put it on YouTube. but the point is to subscribe, because that way every week you will get an alert that, on every Tuesday, we try to introduce a new guest from Grayslake, for you guys to get to know. And I really think it helps build community. And I do recommend to listen to the people that you don't know.

Speaker 1 01:00:51 because I really think this is like my continuing education. I get to know all these people and all the really cool stuff. and as always, finish to, we never know when our family or friends or even strangers are going through. So get out there and do one random act of kindness. just be kind. smile. Hold the door. maybe make somebody's life just a little bit better. Because those little things can go a long way. And kindness spreads like wildfire. So, Grayslake, thank you very much. Allan. Thank you, buddy. Thank you. I appreciate you. and Grayslake, we will see you next Tuesday, everybody.

In this episode of "Discovering Grayslake," the host warmly converses with Lauriei Lambie, a retiring teacher from Woodview School, celebrating her 32-year career in education, with 23 years dedicated to Grayslake. Lori shares her journey from California to Grayslake, reflecting on her teaching experiences and the deep connections she formed with students and colleagues. They discuss the strong community spirit in Grayslake, memorable classroom moments, and Lori's plans for retirement, including travel and volunteering. This episode highlights Lori's impactful career and the cherished community bonds that make Grayslake special.

Celebrating a Legacy: Laurie Lambie's Journey and Retirement Reflections

In this heartwarming episode of "Discovering Grayslake," the host sits down with Laurie Lambie, a beloved teacher from Woodview School, who is retiring after an impressive 32-year career in education, with 23 of those years dedicated to the Grayslake community. This episode is a tribute to Laurie's dedication, the relationships she has built, and the strong sense of community that defines Grayslake.

Laurie's Teaching Journey: From California to Grayslake

Laurie's journey into teaching began in California, where she spent the first eight years of her career. Her move to Grayslake in 2002 was influenced by her sister's marriage, which brought her closer to family. Laurie quickly found a position at Woodview School, where she has spent the majority of her career.

Key Takeaways: Transition to Grayslake**: Laurie's move to Grayslake was a significant change from her life in California. She found a welcoming community and a supportive environment at Woodview School. Family Connections**: Laurie's family, including her two children, has grown up in Grayslake, further deepening her connection to the community.

Teaching Experience: Building Relationships and Creating Memories

Throughout her career, Laurie primarily taught second grade but also had the unique experience of looping with her students from first to second grade for eight years. This allowed her to build deeper relationships with her students and witness their growth over two years.

Memorable Moments: First Day of School**: Laurie fondly recalls the excitement and nervousness of the first day of school each year. Classroom Celebrations**: She organized various events such as dodgeball nights and lip sync contests, creating lasting memories for her students. Looping with Students**: Looping allowed Laurie to develop stronger bonds with her students, making them feel like family.

Community Connection: The Heart of Grayslake

Laurie emphasizes the strong sense of community in Grayslake, which she appreciates compared to her previous life in a larger city. She loves the local parades and the friendly interactions she has with families in the area.

Community Highlights: Local Events**: Laurie enjoys participating in community events, such as the Memorial Day parade, which she describes as a highlight of community spirit. Supportive Environment**: Woodview School feels like a family, with long-standing staff members who genuinely enjoy working together.

Retirement Reflections: Bittersweet Goodbyes and Future Plans

As Laurie prepares for retirement, she reflects on what she will miss the most—her colleagues and the daily interactions with her students. She shares that her students have been asking her why she is retiring if she loves them so much, which leads to a discussion about the bittersweet nature of leaving a job she is passionate about.

Future Aspirations: Travel**: Laurie and her husband are planning a two-week vacation to Portugal, marking the beginning of their retirement adventures. Volunteering**: Laurie expresses interest in volunteering with animals, a passion she hopes to explore further. Reading**: She looks forward to spending more time reading and enjoying her favorite books.

Legacy and Impact: A Teacher's Lasting Influence

The episode concludes with Laurie reflecting on her legacy as a teacher and the impact she has had on her students. She shares a touching story about a former student who visited her to present a retirement gift, illustrating the lasting connections she has made over the years.

Final Thoughts: Gratitude**: Laurie expresses gratitude for the kindness and support she has received throughout her career. Positive Relationships**: She emphasizes the importance of building positive relationships with students, which can have a lasting impact on their lives.

Conclusion: Celebrating Laurie's Contributions

This episode of "Discovering Grayslake" not only celebrates Laurie's retirement but also serves as a tribute to the teaching profession and the vital role educators play in shaping the lives of their students and communities. Laurie's passion for teaching and her commitment to her students will undoubtedly leave a lasting impression on all who have had the privilege of knowing her.

Call to Action: Listeners are encouraged to subscribe to the podcast for more stories that highlight the unique individuals and experiences within Grayslake, fostering a deeper understanding and connection among community members. Celebrate the educators in your life and appreciate the connections you have with your neighbors, reinforcing the importance of community spirit.

In this episode of "Discovering Grayslake," welcomes Jeff Myhra, the Chief of Police of Grayslake. Jeff shares his inspiring journey from childhood dreams of becoming a police officer to his current role, highlighting his dedication to community service and the challenges of balancing work and family life. The conversation delves into the evolution of Grayslake, the importance of community engagement, and practical safety advice. Jeff's passion for fostering a safe, connected community shines through, making this episode a heartfelt tribute to the values that bind Grayslake together.

Discovering Grayslake: A Deep Dive into Community Safety with Chief Jeff Myhra

Welcome back to "Discovering Grayslake," your go-to podcast for all things related to our beloved community. After a two-year hiatus, we're thrilled to bring you an insightful episode featuring Jeff Myhra, the Chief of Police of Grayslake. In this episode, we delve into Chief Myhra's journey in law enforcement, his connection to the community, and valuable tips for ensuring safety in our town. Whether you're a long-time resident or new to Grayslake, this episode offers a wealth of information to help you stay informed and engaged.

Meet Chief Jeff Myhra: A Journey from Aspiration to Leadership

Early Aspirations and Career Path

Chief Myhra's journey in law enforcement began with childhood aspirations inspired by his grandparents, immigrants from Norway. His early interest in becoming a police officer was solidified during a career day at school, where a police officer's presentation left a lasting impression. After high school, Myhra joined the military, which provided him with the opportunity to further his education through the GI Bill. He attended the College of Lake County, earning his degree while working at Menards in Fox Lake.

From Community Service Officer to Chief of Police

Myhra's career in law enforcement started with a community service officer position in Grayslake. His dedication and work ethic quickly earned him a full-time position as a police officer. Over the years, he has held various roles within the Grayslake Police Department, including investigator and sergeant. His passion for investigations and commitment to community service have been the driving forces behind his successful career.

The Evolution of Grayslake: Reflections on Community Changes

Transformations Over 26 Years

During his 26 years of service, Chief Myhra has witnessed significant changes in Grayslake. He recalls the days when local establishments like Carmine's and Pat's Pizza were prominent and praises the vision of village managers and trustees who have worked diligently to enhance the town's appeal. The landscape of Grayslake has changed dramatically, making it unrecognizable compared to what it was decades ago.

Staffing and Community Safety

The Grayslake Police Department currently has 31 designated officers, with a few part-time officers to fill in gaps. Rather than focusing solely on population numbers, the department prioritizes call volume and response times to ensure effective service to the community. This practical approach contributes to the town's financial stability, as they avoid unnecessary debt.

Common Issues and Practical Advice for Community Safety

Opportunistic Crimes and Preventive Measures

Many crimes in Grayslake are opportunistic, often stemming from residents forgetting to lock their car doors or leaving keys inside their vehicles. Chief Myhra emphasizes the importance of simple preventive measures, like locking doors, to reduce crime rates. Identity theft is another concern, particularly with the rise of online scams, which sometimes require federal intervention.

The Importance of Community Engagement

Chief Myhra believes that police work is fundamentally about serving the public and providing excellent customer service. He stresses the importance of listening to the community's needs and building trust between law enforcement and residents. The department aims to foster compliance through education rather than generating revenue through tickets, reflecting a philosophy that prioritizes community trust and cooperation.

Personal Insights and Community Connection

Balancing Work and Family Life

Chief Myhra reflects on the challenges of balancing his career with family life, especially as a father of four. He acknowledges the stress of working in major crime investigations, which often require long hours and can be emotionally taxing. Despite these challenges, he emphasizes the importance of maintaining a strong work ethic and being present for his family.

Personal Interests and Hobbies

Outside of his professional life, Chief Myhra enjoys the outdoors, including hunting and fishing. He recently took up guitar lessons at the age of 45, highlighting the importance of continuous learning and personal growth. His love for the outdoors and fascination with Bigfoot add a personal touch to his professional persona, allowing the community to connect with him on a more personal level.

Practical Tips for Community Safety

Parental Guidance and Technology

Chief Myhra emphasizes the importance of parental vigilance in keeping children safe. He advises parents to stay engaged and aware of their children's activities, especially as they spend more time on their devices. Using apps like Life 360 to monitor children's whereabouts can be helpful until they are old enough to manage their own phones.

Navigating Online Transactions Safely

With the growing trend of online transactions through platforms like Facebook Marketplace, Chief Myhra advises conducting such transactions at the police department, where there is always some level of surveillance and personnel available. He encourages community members to be cautious and to trust their instincts when dealing with potential buyers or sellers.

Payment Safety Tips

For smaller purchases, Chief Myhra prefers cash, while for larger transactions, he recommends using cashier's checks or money orders to ensure safety. He expresses caution about digital payment methods, as they can sometimes lead to complications or disputes.

Conclusion: Fostering a Safe and Engaged Community

This episode of "Discovering Grayslake" provides valuable insights into the challenges of modern parenting, the impact of technology on safety, and practical advice for community members to enhance their personal and collective security. Chief Myhra's dedication to the community, commitment to transparency, and focus on proactive policing strategies highlight the values that underpin the Grayslake Police Department.

As we continue to navigate the complexities of modern life, staying connected, informed, and vigilant is more important than ever. We encourage you to engage with your local officers, recognize their hard work, and perform random acts of kindness to foster a supportive and engaged community spirit.

Thank you for tuning in to "Discovering Grayslake." Subscribe to our podcast for more insights into the Grayslake community and its residents. Let's continue to make Grayslake a vibrant and safe place to live.

Honoring Sacrifice: Veterans Reflect on Their Service and the Meaning of Memorial Day. This poignant discussion on Memorial Day with two distinguished Vietnam War veterans, Vincent (U.S. Navy) and Steve (U.S. Air Force). They share their personal enlistment stories, experiences in Vietnam, and the profound significance of Memorial Day. Vincent and Steve reflect on the sacrifices of fallen comrades, the importance of educating younger generations about patriotism, and the camaraderie that helped them through tough times. The episode underscores the need to honor and remember those who served, particularly through community events like the Grayslake Memorial Day Parade.

Honoring the Sacrifice: A Deep Dive into Memorial Day with Vietnam Veterans

In this special episode of "Discovering Grayslake," we delve into the profound significance of Memorial Day through the eyes of two distinguished Vietnam War veterans, Vincent Mark Taranto and Steve MacInnis. Hosted by Speaker 1, this episode offers a heartfelt exploration of the personal experiences, reflections, and insights of these veterans, shedding light on the true meaning of Memorial Day.

Understanding Memorial Day: More Than Just a Day Off

The True Meaning of Memorial Day Speaker 1 opens the discussion by emphasizing that Memorial Day is not just a day for barbecues and leisure but a solemn occasion to honor those who made the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom. Vincent Mark Taranto (Speaker 2) underscores this by highlighting the importance of educating others about the distinction between Memorial Day and other patriotic holidays like Independence Day. He stresses that saying "Happy Memorial Day" misses the point, as the day is meant to honor those who are no longer with us.

Personal Reflections on Service and Sacrifice Vincent shares his poignant experiences from his time in Vietnam, reflecting on the young lives lost during the war. He recalls the emotional weight of seeing caskets draped in flags and the impact of losing friends in combat. One particularly moving story involves his college roommate, Michael D. Oliver, a lance corporal in the Marine Corps, whose obituary he heard on the Armed Forces Radio. This moment prompted him to pay tribute to Michael during a visit to the Vietnam Veterans Memorial, capturing a powerful photograph pointing at Michael's name on the wall.

Steve MacInnis (Speaker 3) adds to this by sharing his own experiences of returning home from Vietnam and the lack of support and understanding from society. He describes how he and other veterans were met with hostility and indifference, leading to feelings of isolation and frustration.

The Journey to Enlistment: Different Paths, Same Destination

Vincent's Story Vincent recounts his decision to enlist in the U.S. Navy after realizing he would likely be drafted. He chose the Navy based on the uniforms and enlisted on November 17, 1965, going active in January 1966. His journey took him to various locations, including the Philippines and Danang, where he worked with the Marines and experienced the intense atmosphere of a combat zone.

Steve's Story Steve's path to enlistment was different. After a year at Oregon State University, he decided to enlist in the Air Force to avoid being drafted into the Army. Despite trying to avoid the physical exam, he ended up passing and joined the Air Force, eventually serving in Southeast Asia during the Vietnam War. His entry into Vietnam was marked by a sobering realization as he witnessed the return of bodies from the war, a stark reminder of the reality of combat.

Camaraderie and Humor: Coping Mechanisms in Difficult Times

Building Bonds Both veterans emphasize the importance of camaraderie in coping with the challenges of military service. Steve recalls playing softball after shifts and engaging in social activities to unwind and support each other. Vincent agrees, highlighting how they looked out for one another regardless of their backgrounds, forming strong bonds that helped them through tough times.

Moments of Humor Humor also played a crucial role in maintaining morale. The veterans share anecdotes of light-hearted moments that provided much-needed relief from the stress of combat. These moments of levity were essential in fostering a sense of unity and resilience among the troops.

Honoring the Fallen: Personal Tributes and Community Involvement

Remembering Friends Both veterans share stories of specific individuals they honor on Memorial Day. Vincent remembers his close friend, James Edward Hays, a chopper pilot who lost his life in Vietnam. He recalls the profound honor of being a pallbearer at James's funeral. Steve reflects on the importance of remembering those who served bravely and the impact they had on their lives.

Community Events The discussion highlights the significance of community events in honoring the fallen. The Grayslake Memorial Day Parade is mentioned as a key event that brings the community together to pay tribute to veterans. Zoe (Speaker 4) describes how the parade culminates in a ceremony at Memorial Park, where the names of local veterans who lost their lives are read aloud, serving as a poignant reminder of their sacrifices.

Educating Future Generations: Instilling Patriotism and Respect

The Role of Veterans Both Vincent and Steve emphasize the importance of educating younger generations about the values of patriotism and service. Vincent shares his experiences speaking to youth about the realities of military service, urging them to appreciate the sacrifices made by veterans throughout history. Steve highlights the need for veterans to share their stories to provide a more accurate understanding of what Memorial Day represents.

Engaging the Community The veterans encourage listeners to participate in local events, such as parades and memorial services, to honor fallen soldiers. They also suggest simple acts of kindness, such as displaying flags and memorials in their yards, to remind the community of the sacrifices made by veterans.

Conclusion: A Message of Hope and Resilience

As the episode draws to a close, the host thanks the veterans for their service and encourages listeners to engage in acts of kindness, particularly towards veterans. He challenges everyone to show appreciation for those who have served, whether through a simple thank you or by participating in community events that honor their sacrifices.

This episode of "Discovering Grayslake" serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of Memorial Day and the need to honor the sacrifices of veterans. Through their personal stories, Vincent and Steve shed light on the challenges faced by veterans and the need for society to recognize and support them. By educating future generations and participating in community events, we can ensure that the memories of fallen soldiers are kept alive and inspire pride in our nation.

In this lively episode of "Discovering Grayslake," the host welcomes back author and actress Heidi Johanningmeier to discuss her new book, "A Mother's Mission." Heidi shares her journey from aspiring writer to published author, emphasizing the themes of motherhood and resilience. The conversation touches on her experiences teaching at Vagabond acting school, the importance of kindness, and the impact of personal growth.

Discovering Grayslake: Embracing Community, Creativity, and Resilience with Heidi Johanna Meyer

Welcome back to another inspiring episode of "Discovering Grayslake"! In this episode, our host (Speaker 1) sits down with the multifaceted Heidi Johanna Meyer (Speaker 2), an accomplished author and actress, to delve into her journey of writing her latest book, "A Mother's Mission," and her experiences in acting, teaching, and community engagement. This episode is a treasure trove of insights on motherhood, resilience, and the power of local connections. Let's break down the key themes and actionable advice shared in this enriching conversation.

1. The Journey of Writing "A Mother's Mission"

Setting Goals and Overcoming Challenges Heidi Johanna Meyer reflects on her journey of writing "A Mother's Mission," a book dedicated to her sons that explores themes of motherhood and resilience. She candidly shares the challenges she faced, emphasizing the importance of perseverance and setting realistic goals.

Actionable Advice:** Set Incremental Goals: Break down your larger goal into smaller, manageable tasks. This makes the process less overwhelming and allows for consistent progress. Embrace the 80/20 Rule: Understand that the initial stages of a project may seem easier, but the final touches require significant effort. Prepare mentally for this and allocate your energy accordingly.

The Creative Process Heidi's creative process was influenced by her background in acting, which helped her visualize characters and scenes in a cinematic way. This unique perspective enriched her storytelling and character development.

Actionable Advice:** Leverage Your Background: Use your past experiences and skills to inform your creative projects. This can provide a unique angle and depth to your work. Visualize Your Story: Whether you're writing a book or working on another creative project, visualize the end product. This can help you stay motivated and focused.

2. The Importance of Community and Local Support

Promoting Local Businesses The episode begins with a warm promotion of local businesses, including City Chevrolet of Grayslake and Grayslake Rehabilitation Center. Heidi and the host emphasize the importance of supporting local enterprises and fostering community connections.

Actionable Advice:** Shop Local: Whenever possible, support local businesses. This not only boosts the local economy but also strengthens community ties. Engage with Community Events: Participate in local events and networking opportunities to build relationships and support your neighbors.

Teaching and Mentorship Heidi shares her passion for teaching at Vagabond, a Chicago-based acting school. She highlights the importance of creating a supportive environment for students and the joy she finds in helping them avoid the mistakes she made in her own journey.

Actionable Advice:** Be a Mentor: Share your knowledge and experiences with others. Mentorship can be incredibly rewarding and can help others navigate their paths more effectively. Create a Supportive Environment: Whether you're teaching, managing a team, or leading a project, foster a positive and encouraging atmosphere.

3. Embracing Kindness and Resilience

Overcoming Bullying Heidi discusses her experiences with bullying and the importance of teaching children to treat others with kindness. She emphasizes that kindness should be a core value in both personal and professional interactions.

Actionable Advice:** Promote Kindness: Encourage acts of kindness in your community and personal life. Small gestures can have a significant impact. Address Bullying: If you witness bullying, take a stand. Support those affected and work towards creating a safe and inclusive environment.

Balancing Motherhood and Personal Growth Heidi reflects on the balance between nurturing her children and encouraging them to take on responsibilities. She believes that teaching kids life skills instills a sense of respect and accomplishment.

Actionable Advice:** Teach Life Skills: Involve your children in household tasks and responsibilities. This helps them develop independence and a sense of contribution. Prioritize Self-Care: As a parent or caregiver, it's essential to take care of your own well-being. This enables you to be more present and effective in your role.

4. The Power of Creativity and Personal Development

Acting and Emotional Processing Heidi explains that acting classes can be beneficial for everyone, not just aspiring actors. These classes help individuals develop social skills, emotional processing, and confidence.

Actionable Advice:** Explore Creative Outlets: Engage in activities like acting, writing, or art to express yourself and develop new skills. Practice Mindfulness: Techniques like mindfulness and breathing exercises can help manage anxiety and improve emotional well-being.

Yoga and Self-Compassion Heidi shares her journey into yoga and the importance of self-compassion. She emphasizes the need to treat oneself with kindness and to create a nurturing environment for personal growth.

Actionable Advice:** Incorporate Yoga: Consider adding yoga or other mindfulness practices to your routine. These can help you connect with yourself and manage stress. Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself, especially during challenging times. Recognize your efforts and celebrate your progress.

Conclusion: Embrace Your Journey and Foster Community Connections

This episode of "Discovering Grayslake" offers a rich exploration of motherhood, resilience, and the importance of community. Through Heidi Johanna Meyer's experiences and insights, listeners are inspired to embrace their own journeys, face their fears, and nurture both themselves and those around them. Remember, the power of kindness, creativity, and local support can transform lives and strengthen communities.

Stay Connected Don't forget to subscribe to "Discovering Grayslake" to stay updated on future episodes and engaging conversations. Join us next Tuesday for more inspiring stories and valuable insights. And remember, a small act of kindness can make a big difference. Let's continue to support each other and build a stronger, more connected community.

Thank you for tuning in, and see you next time!

Anthony Scala, owner of City Chevy Grayslake, sits down with Dave today. They dive into Anthony's rich family history in the car business and his journey from a porter to a dealership owner. Anthony shares his commitment to community involvement, emphasizing the importance of building genuine relationships and creating a welcoming atmosphere at City Chevy. They discuss the challenges of rebuilding trust within the community and the dealership's focus on customer service. The episode wraps up with playful insights into Anthony's personal life and his passion for fostering a positive work environment.

Discovering Grayslake: A Deep Dive into Anthony Scala's Journey and Insights on the Car Business

In this episode of "Discovering Grayslake," host Tony sits down with Anthony Scala, the owner of City Chevy, at Agora, a co-working space in Grayslake. The conversation is rich with insights into Anthony's background in the automotive industry, his family's legacy, and his journey to becoming a dealership owner. This blog post will break down the key themes discussed in the episode, offering actionable advice and detailed explanations to guide listeners and readers alike.

Family Legacy and Early Experiences

The Scala Family Legacy Anthony Scala's journey in the car business is deeply rooted in his family's history. His grandfather owned a dealership in the late 70s and early 80s, and his father continued the legacy by running the Lynch Auto Group in Chicago. Growing up in this environment, Anthony was naturally drawn to the car industry, although he admits that no child dreams of becoming a car dealer.

Lessons from a Strict Upbringing Anthony shares a personal story about his upbringing, highlighting the strict parenting style of his father. As the oldest of five siblings, he felt the pressure of being the firstborn. He recalls how his father monitored his every move, which he initially resented but later came to appreciate. Anthony reflects on how his father's high expectations and support shaped him, even when he made poor choices as a teenager. This strict yet supportive environment instilled in him the values of hard work and determination.

The Importance of Community Involvement

Building Relationships with Customers Anthony emphasizes that building relationships with customers is crucial. He believes that understanding the local demographic is essential for tailoring services and marketing strategies. Each of the five dealerships he operates caters to different communities, and he recognizes that what works in one area may not be effective in another. This adaptability is key to his success.

Community Engagement Tony expresses gratitude for City Chevy's community involvement, highlighting the dealership's sponsorship of local events. Anthony shares that they have an even more robust schedule of community activities planned for the upcoming spring and summer, emphasizing the importance of being an active participant in the community. This commitment to community engagement helps build trust and fosters long-term relationships with customers.

Customer Service Philosophy

Creating a Positive Experience Anthony explains that while data and demographics inform marketing strategies, the real focus should be on personal interactions. He believes that if a customer doesn't feel a connection with the staff, they are unlikely to make a purchase or return for service. This philosophy drives the hiring and training processes at City Chevy, where he aims to foster a culture of respect and teamwork.

The Role of Authenticity Scala emphasizes the importance of creating a welcoming atmosphere at his dealership. He believes that the first impression is crucial, and he encourages his employees to assess the "vibe" of the store each day. According to him, the dealership has a significantly more positive energy, characterized by friendly and genuine staff. He acknowledges that while some aspects of customer service can be faked, the authenticity and kindness of the team are what truly matter.

Challenges and Rebuilding Trust

Overcoming Past Management Issues Anthony acknowledges that there were trust issues within the community due to past management practices. To address this, he has worked diligently to rebuild relationships and establish a reputation for integrity and transparency. Anthony shares anecdotes about how he has engaged with the community, from sponsoring local events to participating in charity initiatives, all aimed at demonstrating his commitment to Grayslake.

Turning Around Underperforming Stores Scala shares his track record of revitalizing underperforming dealerships. He has successfully turned around every store he has purchased, and he is currently in the process of doing the same with City Chevy. He mentions that General Motors views his dealership as a model for year-over-year growth, even if the progress is gradual. Scala recognizes that his dealership may not be the right fit for everyone, as they cater to logical and rational buyers.

Personal Insights and Competitive Nature

Lessons from Sports Anthony reveals his competitive nature, which he attributes to his background in sports, particularly basketball. He recounts a pivotal moment during his college years when he realized he needed to improve physically to compete with more experienced players. This experience taught him the value of hard work and determination, lessons he applies to his business today. He believes that the same principles of teamwork and respect he learned on the court are essential in the workplace.

Building a Positive Work Environment Tony and Anthony delve into the importance of creating a positive work environment at the dealership. Anthony stresses that every employee, regardless of their position, deserves respect. He shares a personal anecdote about how witnessing disrespect among employees triggers a strong reaction from him. He believes that fostering a culture of mutual respect not only benefits employees but also enhances the customer experience.

The Role of Data in Business

Balancing Data and Personal Interactions The conversation also highlights Anthony's analytical approach to business. He enjoys tracking metrics and using data to inform decisions, but he emphasizes that numbers alone do not drive success. Understanding people and building relationships are equally important. He explains that while data can guide marketing efforts, the real magic happens when employees connect with customers on a personal level.

Future Aspirations and Community Engagement

Expanding Community Efforts As the episode draws to a close, Anthony shares his aspirations for the future of City Chevy and his ongoing commitment to the Grayslake community. He envisions expanding community engagement efforts and continuing to build a dealership that reflects the values of respect, integrity, and teamwork. He believes that by investing in relationships, both with customers and employees, he can create a thriving business that positively impacts the community.

Conclusion

In this engaging conversation, Tony and Anthony explore the intersection of business, community, and personal growth. Anthony Scala's journey from a strict upbringing to a successful dealership owner illustrates the importance of resilience, hard work, and the power of relationships. The episode serves as a reminder that success in business is not just about numbers; it's about the people behind the numbers and the connections forged along the way.

Key Takeaways: Community Involvement**: Building relationships with local customers is essential for long-term success. Customer Service**: Authenticity and personal interactions are crucial for creating a positive customer experience. Work Environment**: Fostering a culture of respect and teamwork benefits both employees and customers. Data and Personal Touch**: Balancing data-driven decisions with personal interactions leads to better business outcomes.

By focusing on these principles, Anthony Scala has successfully turned around underperforming dealerships and built a thriving business that positively impacts the Grayslake community. His story is a testament to the power of hard work, determination, and the importance of building genuine relationships in business.

Dave and Drake dive into Drake's journey from Libertyville to Grayslake, his work in water restoration, fire remediation, and trauma cleanup, and his passion for community. The conversation is a delightful mix of professional insights and playful anecdotes, including Drake's first vehicle—a 1999 Harley-Davidson—and his hidden talent for making people laugh. They also discuss the importance of preparedness, local business support, and the rewarding nature of helping families recover from disasters. Tune in for a heartwarming and informative episode!

Discovering Grayslake: Community, Resilience, and Preparedness with Servpro

Welcome to another insightful episode of "Discovering Grayslake," where we delve into the heart of our community, exploring the stories and experiences that make Grayslake a unique and vibrant place to live. In this episode, host Drake Haig sits down with Drake, a representative from Servpro, a company specializing in water restoration, fire remediation, and trauma cleanup. Broadcasting from the bustling Agora Coworking space, the conversation covers a range of topics from disaster preparedness to the importance of community support. Let's dive into the key takeaways and actionable advice shared during this engaging discussion.

The Journey to Grayslake: A Personal Story

Drake, the guest, shares his journey from Libertyville to Grayslake, highlighting his background in criminal justice and business management. After spending eight years in Phoenix working for a similar restoration company, he and his wife decided to return to the Midwest to raise their children in the family-friendly environment of Lake County. This personal narrative sets the stage for understanding the deep-rooted community values that drive his work at Servpro.

Understanding Servpro's Comprehensive Services

Water Restoration, Fire Remediation, and Trauma Cleanup

Servpro is a one-stop shop for various restoration needs, managing everything from initial cleanup to the reconstruction of homes and businesses. This comprehensive approach allows them to support clients through some of their most challenging times, often forming lasting relationships with those they help.

The Importance of Preparedness

Drake emphasizes the need for homeowners to regularly review their insurance policies, especially as property values increase. Many people may not realize that their coverage limits may not reflect the current value of their homes or belongings. Here are some actionable tips:

Review Your Insurance Policy Annually**: Ensure your coverage limits are up-to-date with the current value of your home and belongings. Ask About Specific Coverage**: Inquire about additional riders for items like sump pumps, which often require extra coverage. Document Your Belongings**: Keep an updated inventory of your possessions, including photos and receipts, to facilitate the claims process in case of a disaster.

The Emotional Impact of Restoration Work

Drake shares anecdotes about the emotional connections formed with clients, who often become like family during the lengthy restoration process. The rewarding aspect of helping families return to their homes after a disaster is a recurring theme, highlighting the personal satisfaction derived from making a positive impact in people's lives.

Community Involvement and Support

Local Business Collaboration

The conversation touches on the camaraderie among local business owners, showcasing how they come together to support community initiatives. Drake shares a heartwarming story about collaborating with Myra, a local barber, and John from The Freeze, to sponsor a back-to-school program for underprivileged children. This initiative involved providing backpacks and meals, exemplifying the spirit of collaboration and community support.

Volunteering and Board Membership

Drake emphasizes the fulfillment that comes from volunteering and serving on the board of a local charity. He encourages listeners to get involved in their communities, highlighting the personal and professional growth that can result from helping others.

Disaster Response: Insights and Challenges

Hurricane Recovery Efforts

Drake recounts his experience responding to Hurricane Ian, traveling to the East Coast to assist with recovery efforts. This experience not only provided financial relief but also marked the beginning of increased business for Servpro. The overwhelming scenes of devastation and the urgent need for assistance underscore the importance of preparedness and community support during crises.

Logistics of Disaster Response

The logistics of disaster response, particularly in hurricane-affected areas, can be complex. Drake explains that the team often finds themselves in situations where many people are seeking help simultaneously. Prioritizing effectively and bringing essential supplies, such as water, are crucial aspects of their response efforts.

Fun and Personal Insights

The Grayslake Hotseat

In a fun segment called the "Grayslake Hotseat," Drake answers rapid-fire questions about his personal preferences and experiences. This lighthearted segment adds a personal touch to the episode, allowing listeners to connect with Drake on a more intimate level. Here are some highlights:

First Vehicle**: A 1999 Harley-Davidson motorcycle, which became less practical during the harsh winter months in Libertyville. Hidden Talents**: Making people laugh, a valuable skill in both personal and professional settings. Nicknames**: Surprisingly, none, despite his adventurous past. Learning from Failure**: Emphasizing that failure is often a stepping stone to success, a valuable lesson for entrepreneurs.

Conclusion: The Power of Community and Kindness

As the episode concludes, the conversation circles back to the importance of kindness and community support. Drake encourages listeners to engage in random acts of kindness, reminding everyone that small gestures can have a profound impact on others. The episode serves as a celebration of community spirit, resilience, and the importance of supporting one another in times of need.

Key Takeaways

Review and Update Insurance Policies**: Ensure your coverage reflects the current value of your home and belongings. Get Involved in Your Community**: Volunteering and supporting local businesses can lead to personal and professional growth. Be Prepared for Disasters**: Regularly review your preparedness plans and ensure you have the necessary coverage and supplies. Engage in Acts of Kindness**: Small gestures can make a significant difference in the lives of others.

Listeners are encouraged to subscribe to the podcast for more insights into the Grayslake community and to stay informed about future episodes. Thank you for tuning in, and remember to spread kindness in your daily lives.

In this episode of "Discovering Grayslake," host David Woll chats with the newly elected mayor, Elizabeth Davies, who recently succeeded Rhett Taylor after his 16-year tenure. Elizabeth, a former trustee with a decade of experience, shares her vision for the town, emphasizing community engagement and development. They discuss exciting projects like new data centers and infrastructure improvements, aiming to boost local businesses and enhance the town's charm. Elizabeth's passion for Grayslake shines through as she talks about her commitment to transparency, accessibility, and fostering a vibrant community. The episode wraps up with a playful Q&A, highlighting Elizabeth's personable side.

Discovering Grayslake: A New Chapter with Mayor Elizabeth Davies

Welcome to another insightful episode of "Discovering Grayslake," where we delve into the heart of our beloved town, exploring its vibrant community, local businesses, and the leaders who shape its future. In this episode, host David Wohl sits down with Elizabeth Davies, the newly appointed mayor of Grayslake, to discuss her transition into the role, her vision for the town, and the exciting developments on the horizon.

Meet the New Mayor: Elizabeth Davies

Transitioning into Leadership

Elizabeth Davies steps into the mayoral role following the long and impactful tenure of Rhett Taylor, who served as mayor for 16 years. With a decade of experience as a trustee, Elizabeth brings a wealth of knowledge and a deep understanding of the community's needs. Her journey to becoming mayor was fueled by a passion for Grayslake and a commitment to strong, effective leadership.

Key Points: Experience as a Trustee:** Elizabeth's ten years as a trustee have equipped her with a comprehensive understanding of the town's operations and the needs of its residents. Community Engagement:** Her active involvement in local spaces, such as parks and restaurants, allows her to stay connected with residents and understand their concerns. Grassroots Campaign:** Elizabeth's campaign was a grassroots effort, relying on the support of friends and community members rather than large external endorsements.

Vision for Grayslake

Elizabeth's vision for Grayslake is centered around community engagement, economic vitality, and sustainable development. She emphasizes the importance of maintaining the town's unique character while fostering an environment where small businesses can thrive.

Key Points: Downtown Development:** Elizabeth highlights the significance of the downtown area as a place of celebration and community pride. She is dedicated to creating a vibrant downtown that supports local businesses and attracts visitors. Infrastructure Improvements:** Recent developments, such as the new nature trail and the planting of 300 trees, aim to beautify the town and create lasting benefits for future generations. Financial Responsibility:** Elizabeth underscores the importance of managing the town's budget wisely, ensuring that investments are made to support growth and sustainability.

Community Priorities and Projects

Water Quality and Infrastructure

One of Elizabeth's top priorities is ensuring high-quality services for residents, particularly in terms of water quality. Grayslake has a long-standing partnership with the Kelsey-Joshua Central Lake County Joint Action Water Agency, which has allowed the village to secure Lake Michigan water rights and construct a state-of-the-art water treatment plant.

Key Points: Lake Michigan Water:** The water from Lake Michigan is cleaner than many bottled water options, a testament to effective governance and essential services. Infrastructure Updates:** Elizabeth is committed to maintaining high-quality services and ensuring that infrastructure is up to date.

Downtown Enhancements

Elizabeth discusses specific projects aimed at improving the downtown area, including the burial of power lines to enhance aesthetics and reliability for local businesses. This initiative not only improves the visual appeal of the downtown but also ensures a more stable power supply for businesses.

Key Points: Power Line Burial:** Enhances the visual appeal and reliability of the downtown area. Support for Local Businesses:** Ensures that businesses have a stable power supply, crucial for their operations.

Collaborative Leadership and Community Engagement

Accessibility and Transparency

Elizabeth values open communication with residents and is always willing to meet for coffee or chat on the phone. She emphasizes the importance of accessibility and transparency in her role as mayor.

Key Points: Open Communication:** Elizabeth encourages residents to engage in open dialogue about community issues. Community Support:** She appreciates the support from the community and former leaders, indicating her openness to their insights as she navigates her new role.

Collaborative Governance

Elizabeth explains that the mayoral position is a citizen role, not a full-time career, allowing for genuine leadership motivated by a desire to serve the community. She praises her fellow board members, highlighting their diverse backgrounds and expertise, which contribute to effective governance and decision-making.

Key Points: Citizen Leadership:** The mayoral position is a citizen role, allowing for genuine leadership. Board Collaboration:** The diverse backgrounds and expertise of board members contribute to effective governance.

Exciting Developments in Grayslake

Data Centers and Economic Growth

Elizabeth mentions a significant project aimed at diversifying property tax revenue and reducing the burden on homeowners. This project includes the development of data centers, which are expected to bring substantial investment to the area.

Key Points: Data Centers:** Expected to bring substantial investment and diversify property tax revenue. Strategic Investments:** The village has strategically used connection fees from previous developments to fund infrastructure improvements.

Future Opportunities

Elizabeth is committed to continuing the successful trajectory of Grayslake while remaining open to new opportunities for growth. She emphasizes the importance of collaboration and the need to keep an eye on the future, ensuring that the town remains a vibrant and thriving community for years to come.

Key Points: Continued Growth:** Elizabeth is committed to continuing the successful trajectory of Grayslake. Future Opportunities:** She remains open to new opportunities for growth and development.

Conclusion

This episode of "Discovering Grayslake" provides valuable insights into Elizabeth Davies's vision for the town, her commitment to community engagement, and the exciting developments on the horizon. Elizabeth's passion for Grayslake shines through as she discusses her plans for the future, emphasizing the importance of collaboration, effective governance, and community support.

As the episode concludes, David Wohl encourages listeners to subscribe to the podcast to stay updated on future episodes featuring local community members. He also reminds the audience of the power of kindness, urging them to engage in random acts of kindness and spread positivity within Grayslake.

Call to Action: Subscribe to the Podcast:** Stay updated on future episodes featuring local community members. Engage in Kindness:** Spread positivity within Grayslake through random acts of kindness.

Join us in celebrating the vibrant community of Grayslake and the leaders who are dedicated to its growth and success. Together, we can build a better future for all residents.

In this episode of "Discovering Grayslake," the host celebrates the achievements of two standout wrestlers from Grayslake Central High School, Gianna and Vince. Gianna, a junior, shares her journey from wrestling boys to forming a girls' team and placing third at state. Vince, a sophomore, reflects on his progression in the sport, finishing second at state this year. The episode highlights the growth of girls' wrestling, the importance of community and coaching support, and the life lessons learned through wrestling. Gianna and Vince's inspiring stories showcase dedication, resilience, and the power of breaking gender barriers in sports.

Celebrating Young Wrestlers: The Inspiring Journeys of Gianna and Vince from Grayslake Central High School

Welcome back to another heartwarming episode of "Discovering Grayslake," where we shine a spotlight on the incredible achievements of our local heroes. In this episode, we delve into the inspiring journeys of two standout wrestlers from Grayslake Central High School: Gianna and Vince. Hosted by our ever-enthusiastic Speaker 1, this episode is a testament to the power of community support, dedication, and breaking barriers in sports.

Meet the Wrestlers: Gianna and Vince

Gianna's Journey Gianna, a junior at Grayslake Central High School, began her wrestling journey in the fourth grade. Her story is one of resilience and breaking gender barriers. During her freshman year, she was the only girl on the boys' varsity lineup. Despite the challenges, she persevered and transitioned to wrestling exclusively against girls in her sophomore year. This year, she achieved a significant milestone by taking third place at the state competition.

Vince's Journey Vince, a sophomore, started wrestling at the age of nine. His journey is marked by continuous improvement and dedication. After taking fourth place last year, he improved to second place this year at the state competition. Vince's story is a testament to the importance of perseverance and hard work.

The Growth of Girls' Wrestling

Gianna's Experience Gianna's experience wrestling boys during her freshman year was challenging but rewarding. With the support of her coach, Joseph, she competed on the boys' lineup. Her father also played a crucial role by becoming the volunteer coach for the girls' team. Together, they worked to recruit more girls, successfully forming a team of 11 girls this year. This marks the first year Grayslake Central had a girls' wrestling team.

The Rapid Growth in Illinois The growth of girls' wrestling in Illinois has been remarkable. Every school in their conference now has a full girls' team, highlighting the rapid expansion and increasing popularity of the sport.

Training and Competition Dynamics

Training with Boys Gianna continues to train with the boys, including Vince, who serves as one of her main practice partners. She believes that training with boys has helped her develop toughness and strength, giving her an edge in competitions against girls.

Vince's Perspective Vince shares his perspective on wrestling Gianna, noting that he has a sister, so he is accustomed to wrestling girls. The host humorously asks who would win in a match between them, to which they both respond that it depends on the day.

Wrestling Backgrounds

Vince's Early Days Vince started at the Grayslake Wrestling Club in fourth grade. Despite setbacks due to the COVID-19 pandemic, he continued to train at home with his brother, which helped him improve significantly. By eighth grade, he went undefeated and won the state championship.

Gianna's Early Days Gianna initially joined the sport to support her younger brother. Encouraged by her coaches, she found potential in herself and continued to wrestle at the Lake Zurich Wrestling Club until sixth grade. She then participated in middle school wrestling, where she made it to sectionals and became the first girl in her district's history to qualify for state.

Future Goals and Community Support

Gianna's Aspirations Gianna aims to win a state title next year. She also plans to return to competitive cheer for her senior year, balancing her passion for both sports.

Vince's Aspirations Vince aspires to bring home a state title after finishing second this year. He emphasizes the competitive nature of high school wrestling and the need to continually prove himself.

Community Support The sense of community surrounding the wrestling program is strong. Vince mentions that Warren Nash, another teammate, qualified for state and had a remarkable season after recovering from an ACL injury. Gianna adds that their girls' team was composed of first-year wrestlers, with one girl, Miranda Tellez, coming close to qualifying for state.

Life Lessons from Wrestling

Dedication and Discipline Wrestling teaches dedication and the importance of doing what is necessary to achieve goals, even when it is challenging. The sport requires discipline, as athletes must wake up early for practices and workouts.

College Wrestling Plans Both Gianna and Vince express their desire to continue wrestling in college. Gianna is exploring colleges and keeping an open mind about her choices, while Vince prefers to stay close to home due to family ties.

Influences and Inspirations

Gianna's Mentors Gianna cites Maddy Jones, a former wrestler, as a mentor and supportive figure in her journey. She appreciates his guidance and encouragement, especially during her early days in the sport.

Vince's Role Models Vince reflects on the influence of the Kramer brothers, who were successful wrestlers in the area. He admires their achievements and aspires to follow in their footsteps as he progresses in his wrestling career.

Community and Coaches

Gratitude for Coaches Both wrestlers express gratitude for their coaches. Gianna thanks her early coaches, including Mike and Kyle Zarek, as well as Coach Joseph for his support. Vince mentions his first club coach, August Trexler, and the impact he had on his early wrestling career.

The Role of Community Gianna and Vince appreciate the close-knit nature of the Grayslake community, where everyone supports one another and celebrates each other's accomplishments. The host encourages the community to support local wrestling, whether through attendance at matches or by contributing to wrestling clubs.

Final Thoughts

Encouraging Future Wrestlers Gianna encourages other girls to try wrestling, reassuring them that it's okay if they don't enjoy it—at least they will have tried. She emphasizes the importance of breaking down gender barriers and pursuing passions regardless of societal expectations.

Acts of Kindness The host concludes the episode by reminding listeners of the importance of kindness in everyday interactions. They encourage everyone to perform small acts of kindness, reinforcing the idea that even simple gestures can make a significant impact on the world around us.

Conclusion

This episode of "Discovering Grayslake" not only celebrates the achievements of young athletes but also highlights the importance of community support, mentorship, and the courage to challenge societal norms. Gianna and Vince's stories serve as an inspiration for others, demonstrating that with dedication and support, anything is possible.

Stay tuned for more inspiring stories from our wonderful Grayslake community. Until next time, keep supporting each other and spreading kindness wherever you go!

Julie Jason dive into the heart of the Grayslake Farmers Market. David sets a welcoming tone, highlighting the market's role in fostering community connections. Julie, a market veteran, shares her journey from volunteer to manager, recounting the market's growth and the camaraderie among vendors. They discuss the market's history, logistical challenges, and the adaptations made during the pandemic. With playful anecdotes and a hometown feel, this episode celebrates the market's vibrant atmosphere, the local businesses it supports, and the sense of community it nurtures.

Discovering Grayslake: The Heartbeat of Community at the Farmers Market

Welcome to another enriching episode of "Discovering Grayslake," where we dive deep into the stories and experiences that shape our beloved community. In this episode, host David Woll sits down with Julie Jason, a long-time participant and manager of the Grayslake Farmers Market, to explore the market's history, its impact on the community, and the vibrant life it brings to Grayslake. Whether you're a local resident or a curious visitor, this blog post will provide you with valuable insights and actionable advice on how to make the most of your farmers market experience.

The Grayslake Farmers Market: A Community Staple

A Brief History

The Grayslake Farmers Market has been a cornerstone of the community for nearly 30 years. Originally run by the Chamber of Commerce, the market has grown from a modest gathering of about 20 vendors to a bustling hub featuring over 70 vendors. Julie Jason, who started as a volunteer in 2006, has been instrumental in this growth, eventually taking on the role of market manager.

The Market's Evolution

Over the years, the market has adapted to meet the needs of both vendors and shoppers. One significant change came during the COVID-19 pandemic, when the layout was modified to create wider pathways for social distancing. This change not only ensured safety but also improved the overall shopping experience, making it easier for visitors to navigate the market.

Tips for Navigating the Farmers Market

1. Plan Your Visit

Timing:** The market operates for 17 weeks each summer, typically opening in early June. Arrive early to avoid the crowds and get the best selection of fresh produce. Parking:** Parking can be a challenge, especially on busy days when attendance can reach up to 2,000 visitors. Consider parking a little further away and enjoying a short walk to the market.

2. Know Your Vendors

Consistency:** Traditional vendors, such as farmers and food suppliers, are encouraged to commit to the entire season. This consistency allows shoppers to know exactly where to find their favorite vendors each week. Variety:** The market features a diverse range of products, from fresh produce to value-added items like olive oil, wine, cheese, and unique food offerings such as pierogies and tacos.

3. Engage with the Community

Local Businesses:** The market provides an excellent opportunity for local businesses to engage with the community. Storefronts on Center Street can set up signage and tables outside to attract market-goers. Sponsorships:** Local businesses can also support the market through sponsorships. Julie mentions several local businesses, including City Chevrolet, which has recently become a ruby sponsor.

4. Family-Friendly Activities

Entertainment:** The market offers various activities for children, such as face painting, balloon art, and live music. This family-friendly atmosphere ensures that parents can shop while their children are entertained. Special Events:** The market hosts special events throughout the season, including Halloween festivities where Farmer Gray hands out candy to trick-or-treaters.

Overcoming Challenges

1. Vendor Management

Quality Control:** Julie and her team carefully vet farmers and vendors to ensure high-quality products. This vetting process helps maintain the market's reputation for offering fresh and reliable goods. Support System:** The market fosters a supportive environment where vendors can share their experiences and learn from one another. This sense of community is crucial for new vendors who may feel nervous about their first market experience.

2. Adapting to Change

Pandemic Adjustments:** The market's response to the COVID-19 pandemic, including layout changes and safety measures, highlights its ability to adapt to changing circumstances. These adjustments have proven beneficial for both vendors and shoppers. Weather Challenges:** Local farmers often face difficult growing seasons, which can impact the market's offerings. Despite these challenges, the market remains a resilient and vital part of the community.

The Importance of Community Support

1. Building Connections

Personal Stories:** Understanding the stories behind local vendors fosters a deeper connection with the community. David and Julie share anecdotes about vendors like Michael from Bake Share, who started his journey at the market and has since become a successful community figure. Friendships:** The market is not just a place to buy fresh produce; it's a gathering spot where friendships are formed and community bonds are strengthened.

2. Random Acts of Kindness

Community Spirit:** David encourages listeners to perform random acts of kindness, whether it's a simple smile, holding the door for someone, or being courteous in traffic. These small gestures can create a ripple effect, enhancing the sense of community in Grayslake.

Conclusion

The Grayslake Farmers Market is more than just a shopping destination; it's a vital part of the community that brings people together, supports local businesses, and fosters a sense of belonging. Whether you're a long-time resident or a first-time visitor, the market offers a unique and enriching experience that showcases the best of Grayslake.

So, mark your calendars, plan your visit, and immerse yourself in the vibrant life of the Grayslake Farmers Market. And remember, every visit is an opportunity to connect with your community, support local vendors, and enjoy the simple pleasures of fresh, locally-sourced products.

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