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What is dissociation, and why does it happen? In this episode of Not Your Therapist Podcast, licensed therapist Kayla Reilly explains dissociation in simple, relatable terms so you can understand why your brain "checks out" during stress, conflict, or trauma—and what you can do to reconnect.

If you've ever felt numb during an argument, forgotten parts of your childhood, zoned out while driving, or felt disconnected from your emotions, you may have experienced dissociation. Learn why it's one of your brain's most powerful survival strategies, how it develops after childhood trauma, and practical grounding techniques to help you become more present and support your healing.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• What dissociation is and how it differs from everyday zoning out
• Why trauma and childhood adversity can lead to dissociation
• Common signs and symptoms of dissociation
• How to recognize when you're dissociating
• Why dissociation makes trauma recovery more challenging
• Grounding techniques to help you reconnect with your body and the present moment
• How trauma therapy helps reduce dissociation over time
• Why your brain developed dissociation—and why it isn't your fault

Whether you're healing from childhood trauma, emotionally immature parents, narcissistic family dynamics, or chronic stress, this episode will help you better understand your nervous system and take the first steps toward feeling more connected, present, and emotionally safe.

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