We spend a lot of our lives finding our calling. We’re on a journey, thinking our calling is waiting out there to discover. Finding your calling is a matter of looking inwards. “Do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life!” Is an adage thrown around in far too many pieces […]

Learning it the hard way. If the thing is worth learning it will always be hard. The feeling of the friction of change will make the more important things harder to accept. If you are a highly agreeable person you will often find yourself being taken advantage of. You feel an intrinsic drive to help […]

Framework collapses. An unbalanced self-esteem‘s worst nightmare. We can call accept that learning from your mistakes is the best way to grow. We receive so much stimulus from our environments. There is no way we can process it all in real-time. So our brains take shortcuts, genius shortcuts, but shortcuts nonetheless. We live in a […]

Exposure doesn’t make the trigger less scary. It makes you braver.

While your self-esteem is unbalanced, fears can get out of control.

J: “Alright you booked a meeting with X, you a little nervous?” K: “You kidding, my stomach has been flipping over all day, how do I even say hello?? They’re gonna think I’m such a pleb… I’m going in at such a disadvantage. I’ll never be able to sell them…” J: “Nah just be yourself, […]

It is common knowledge that when investing you should not put all your eggs in one basket, so why do we so often do that with our sense of self esteem?