Today we’re diving into a question that’s deeply personal—and often fraught with confusion and emotion—for many people of faith: What does the Bible actually say about divorce?

To help us unpack this sensitive topic with wisdom, compassion, and clarity, I’m joined by author, speaker, and Christian teacher Connie Prater. Together, we’ll explore not only the scriptural foundations around divorce, but also address the guilt, shame, and questions many face when religion and real-life experience collide. Whether you’re struggling with religious guilt, questioning your place in your faith community, or just searching for peace after your marriage ends, this episode promises insight, encouragement, and a reminder that there’s always hope—and grace—ahead.

In today’s episode, host Shari sits down with John Pearson—a man of faith, mentor, and the creator of the "Spirit, the Scribe, the Journal" book series and YouTube channel. John opens up about his unexpected experience with divorce later in life, navigating emotional upheaval, faith-based struggles, and the journey toward healing and self-discovery.

Together, they dive into the unique challenges men face in the aftermath of divorce, exploring everything from grief and guilt to rebuilding identity and finding peace. John shares wisdom from his personal transformation, the power of intentional prayer, and practical advice for men who feel lost after a marriage ends. If you’ve ever wondered what divorce feels like for men over 50, or how faith and growth intertwine in the healing process, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

Shari welcomes photographer Ashley Lowe to discuss the powerful, healing role of photography after a major life transition like divorce. Ashley shares how portrait sessions can help women, especially those over 40 and 50, reclaim their confidence and sense of identity following the end of a long-term marriage. She explains that for many women, professional photos are something they haven’t experienced for decades—usually not since high school or their wedding—and that the process of preparing for and participating in a session is transformative. With the support of a wardrobe stylist and professional hair and makeup, clients find themselves seen, valued, and able to express who they are becoming, rather than who they were.

Ashley also opens up about her own post-divorce experience, describing how booking a photography session helped her reframe negative beliefs and rediscover her self-worth. The conversation highlights the importance of being visible and authentic, both personally and professionally, whether it’s for business headshots, dating profiles, or simply restoring family photos that reflect a new phase of life. Shari and Ashley underscore that empowerment sessions—like boudoir photography—play an important part in helping women feel confident and sexy again, regardless of age or body type. To top it off, Ashley shares how her studio provides a supportive, welcoming environment and how listeners can connect with her for a chance to win a complimentary photo shoot tailored to their own journey of self-renewal. 

Connect with Ashley Lowe Ready for your own empowerment session or updated headshot? Check out Ashley’s work at hrtofgoldphoto.com or text/call 859-667-8104 with your questions.

Today's guest is Michelle Kelly, a Mary Kay entrepreneur with a passion for empowering women, especially those finding themselves at a crossroads after divorce. The conversation centers on the profound impact that rebuilding confidence can have after a long-term relationship ends. Michelle shares insights into how refreshing your appearance—not out of vanity, but as an act of self-rediscovery—can be a powerful first step towards reclaiming your sense of self. She emphasizes the importance of small changes, like trying a new lipstick shade or adopting a new skincare routine, as gentle reminders that beauty and vibrancy are still within reach.

Beyond beauty, Michelle talks about the transformative opportunities that come from meaningful work, specifically through Mary Kay's supportive community and flexible business model. She shares inspiring stories of women, some over 50 and newly divorced, who found renewed purpose and confidence by starting their own Mary Kay businesses. With encouragement and practical advice, Michelle assures listeners that it's never too late for a fresh start—whether that's updating your look, embarking on a new career, or simply believing in your own worth again. Listeners are given clear ways to connect with Michelle for both makeovers and career opportunities, and the episode closes with a reminder that thriving after divorce is not only possible, but absolutely within reach.

Shari explores how property is divided during a divorce in Kentucky, focusing on the unique challenges that come with untangling assets later in life. Shari explains the difference between community property and equitable distribution states, noting that Kentucky follows equitable distribution—meaning property is divided fairly, but not always equally. She clarifies important terms, distinguishing marital from separate property, and warns about the complications that can arise when separate assets are mixed with marital ones. She stresses the importance of documentation and highlights the key factors Kentucky courts consider, such as the length of the marriage, each spouse’s contributions, and the economic situations of both parties.

Additionally, Shari speaks to the realities facing people divorcing after 50, acknowledging that accumulated assets, debts, and future financial security are all on the line. She points out that couples can negotiate their own agreement instead of leaving everything to the court, which can save time, money, and stress. As always, Shari reminds listeners to seek professional legal advice for their specific circumstances and shares that a range of experts—financial planners, insurance professionals, and real estate agents—can all be valuable resources during the process.

Shari tackles the challenging decision of what to do with the marital home after a divorce. She begins by addressing the emotional significance of the home, acknowledging that it's more than just a building—it's a place filled with cherished memories and milestones. However, she emphasizes the importance of considering whether staying in the home aligns with one's future goals or if it's just a means of avoiding change. Letting go of the home doesn't have to mean losing those memories; instead, it can be a step toward embracing new opportunities.

She also covers the financial implications of keeping the marital home, emphasizing the need to evaluate whether one can afford it on a single income, including all associated costs like taxes and repairs. She outlines three primary options: selling the home and splitting the proceeds, one party buying out the other, or temporarily co-owning the home. Additionally, she advises listeners to be aware of legal and tax considerations, such as understanding the difference between the mortgage and the title and exploring tax benefits like capital gains exclusions. Shari concludes with encouragement, reminding listeners that a new chapter can bring joy and freedom, urging them to make decisions that support their future selves.

Host Shari Frasure welcomes Pat Fenner, author and podcaster, who shares her insights on navigating life after a gray divorce. Pat discusses her personal journey through divorce after decades of marriage and the inspiration behind her book, "Rebuilding Your Life After a Gray Divorce: A Path to Healing, Significance, and Joy." She highlights the unique challenges faced by individuals over 50 going through divorce, emphasizing the emotional and financial hurdles that often accompany the process. Pat also touches on the importance of self-reflection, counseling, and community support as vital steps toward healing and rebuilding a fulfilling post-divorce life.

Throughout the conversation, Shari and Pat explore the significant shifts in social and family dynamics after a divorce, including the impact on adult children and social circles. They stress the necessity of forming a reliable team of advisors to tackle financial aspects and encourage listeners to seek out resources, such as podcasts and support groups, to help them through the transition. Pat shares her motivation for starting the Silver Women Bright Future podcast and her future plans to become a certified financial planner. The episode offers hope and actionable advice for those experiencing a gray divorce, reinforcing the message that life can be fulfilling and purposeful after the end of a long-term marriage.

Connect with Pat at patfenner.me

Samantha Tishner is a coach specializing in helping women heal and move forward following divorce. Samantha shares her personal journey, explaining how her own experiences with divorce inspired her to assist other women in navigating the emotional landscape post-marriage. She emphasizes the importance of reconnecting with oneself, letting go of past burdens, and forgiving oneself to create space for new and fulfilling relationships. Samantha highlights the significance of understanding one's unique qualities and trusting oneself to build confidence and self-worth.

Shari and Samantha discuss the challenges women face after divorce, such as guilt, self-blame, and the fear of the unknown. They touch on societal pressures that discourage divorce, reminding listeners that healing comes from within and that God offers forgiveness. Samantha encourages women to seek support from friends, faith, or therapy and to engage in self-reflection and growth before entering new relationships. The episode stresses the importance of doing the inner work necessary to recognize and release limiting beliefs, allowing women to approach future relationships with open hearts and trust.

Annemarie Neisz from Trifecta Title in Lexington, KY joins Shari to talk about the crucial role of title companies during a divorce. They explore how these experts manage the legalities of property ownership, uncover hidden liens, and ensure smooth transactions. Whether you're selling your home or buying out your ex-spouse, early involvement of a title company can prevent surprises and delays. Understanding the intricacies of title deeds, mortgage obligations, and equity division is essential. This episode is packed with valuable advice to help you navigate real estate decisions confidently during your divorce. Listen now and empower yourself with the knowledge to make informed property choices. Contact Annemarie at (859) 402-1986

Morgan Murray, a certified divorce financial analyst (CDFA), talks with host Shari Frasure about the complexities of managing finances during a divorce later in life. Morgan shares invaluable insights on key financial considerations such as retirement, healthcare, and the division of marital property. She emphasizes the importance of getting organized, assessing future financial needs, and understanding the long-term impacts of financial decisions made during a divorce. Morgan also highlights the significance of seeking professional financial advice and remaining proactive without making impulsive decisions driven by fear or urgency. Shari and Morgan discuss the empowering process of taking control of one’s financial future post-divorce, stressing that it's never too late to build a secure and fulfilling life. Tune in to learn more about navigating these challenging financial waters and setting yourself up for a strong future.