Divorce Confidential

Divorce Confidential

By Michelle Dellino + Amy AlpezaSociety & CultureEducationRelationships
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Divorce Confidential episodes

  • Divorce and Real Estate in Washington: What You Need to Know

    What happens to the family home when you're going through a divorce? And when the real estate market is shifting, how do you know whether it’s the right time to sell, rent, refinance, or stay put?


    In this episode of Divorce Confidential, Michelle Dellino and Amy Alpeza explore the intersection of divorce and real estate in Washington — from changing market conditions and home equity to renting, refinancing, buying before selling, keeping children in the same school district, and planning ahead before making major financial decisions.

    🔍 How do you know whether to sell, rent, or stay in the family home?
    🏠 What should you consider when dividing home equity and other assets in divorce?
    📈 How can changing real estate market conditions affect your divorce strategy?
    👨‍👩‍👧 Can you make a move while keeping your children in the same school district?
    💡 Why can gathering information before filing for divorce make a difference?
    🤝 Does hiring an attorney mean your divorce has to become contentious or go to court?

    🎧 Listen now — and learn how to make smarter real estate and divorce decisions before the market, the court, or timing makes them for you.

    #DivorceConfidential #WashingtonDivorce #DivorceInWashington #WashingtonFamilyLaw #DivorceAndRealEstate #RealEstateAndDivorce #DivorcePlanning #FamilyHome #HomeEquity #DellinoFamilyLawGroup

    20 min
  • Career Transitions After Divorce: Where Do You Start?

    What happens when divorce, caregiving responsibilities, or a major life change forces you to rethink your career? How do you move forward when you're not even sure where to start?


    In this episode of Divorce Confidential, Michelle Dellino and Amy Alpeza sit down with Aubrie De Clerck, Career Coach and Founder of Coaching for Clarity, to explore how career transitions often intersect with divorce, identity shifts, caregiving responsibilities, and life's biggest periods of uncertainty.

    Drawing on more than 17 years of experience, Aubrie shares practical guidance for finding clarity, rebuilding confidence, and creating momentum when the path forward isn't yet clear.

    We discuss:

    🔍 Why divorce and major life transitions often trigger career changes
    ⚓ How finding stability and "dropping the anchor" can help during uncertain times
    💡 What stay-at-home parents should consider when returning to the workforce
    📈 How to rebuild confidence after years away from a career
    💬 The difference between career coaching and therapy — and when each may help
    🌟 Why uncertainty can become an opportunity for growth, reinvention, and new possibilities
    🏠 How work, identity, finances, and family transitions are often deeply connected

    Whether you're considering a career change, returning to work after raising children, or simply feeling stuck in your current role, this conversation offers insight and encouragement for navigating your next chapter with confidence.

    🎧 Listen now — and discover how clarity, confidence, and purpose can emerge from life's biggest transitions.

    #DivorceConfidential #CareerCoaching #CareerTransition #LifeAfterDivorce #CareerChange #DivorceRecovery #JobSearchTips #ProfessionalGrowth #DivorceSupport #NextChapter #DellinoFamilyLawGroup

    25 min
  • After Divorce: How to Create a Home You Actually Love

    What does it really look like to rebuild your space — and your sense of self — after divorce, when you’re starting over in a “first me home”?


    In this episode of Divorce Confidential, Michelle Dellino and Amy Alpeza sit down with Sarah Hurt, founder of Seattle Art Source, to explore how art, design, and intentional space-building can transform post-divorce living into something deeply personal, grounded, and empowering.

    Sarah shares how she works with clients — especially newly single homeowners — to take the overwhelm out of designing a home and turn it into a guided, hands-on experience that reflects identity, emotion, and new beginnings.

    We discuss:

    🔍 Why creating a “first me home” is a key part of post-divorce healing
    🎨 How art becomes a powerful tool for identity, control, and emotional reset
    🏠 Why seeing pieces in your actual space changes everything about selection
    💡 How accessible original art can be (and why it’s not just for luxury buyers)
    📦 The value of end-to-end support: selection, framing, and installation
    ⚖️ How divorce clients often reclaim confidence through their living environment
    💬 The mindset shift from “I can’t afford this” to “I deserve this space”
    🌿 Why a home should feel finished, personal, and emotionally safe — especially during transition

    From empty walls to meaningful spaces, this conversation explores how environment shapes healing — and how intentional design can help people step into their next chapter with clarity and confidence.

    🎧 Listen now — and learn how your home after divorce can become your strongest foundation for what comes next.

    #DivorcePodcast
    #DivorceConfidential
    #LifeAfterDivorce
    #HomeAfterDivorce
    #InteriorDesign
    #SeattleArtSource
    #PostDivorceHealing
    #FreshStart
    #DivorceRecovery
    #WomenAndWealth
    #HomeDesign
    #EmotionalWellbeing
    #SeattleDivorce
    #WashingtonLaw
    #NewBeginnings

    25 min
  • Beyond the Decree: How Fiduciaries Execute Complex Legal Settlements with Robert Zielke

    What happens after the divorce is finalized — when the court order is signed, but the financial and operational execution still has to happen? 🏛️💼


    In this episode of Divorce Confidential, Michelle Dellino and Amy Alpeza sit down with Robert Zielke, CEO of Altruist Trust Co. & Fiduciary Services, to break down the critical role fiduciaries play in high-conflict and high-net-worth transitions.

    With three decades of experience as a former trial attorney and fiduciary executive, Robert explains how neutral fiduciary administration helps remove conflict, confusion, and repeated litigation from complex financial settlements.

    We discuss:

    🔍 What fiduciary administration actually does in divorce and estate matters
    💡 How neutrals help prevent post-decree disputes and relitigation
    📈 How trust structures and fiduciary oversight support business and real estate assets
    ⚖️ Why “clear standards, clean documentation, and consistent execution” matter so much
    🏠 How fiduciaries can manage real estate, businesses, and financial flows during transition
    📝 When and why fiduciary services may reduce legal costs and emotional stress

    From trust administration to asset management to special needs planning, this episode explores how legal intent is carried out in the real world — with structure, neutrality, and accountability.

    If you’ve ever wondered what actually happens after the decree, this episode is essential listening.

    🎧 Listen now — and understand how fiduciaries help turn legal orders into real-world execution.

    #DivorcePodcast
    #DivorceConfidential
    #FiduciaryServices
    #TrustAdministration
    #DivorceAndFinance
    #HighNetWorthDivorce
    #EstatePlanning
    #RealEstateAndDivorce
    #AssetProtection
    #FamilyLaw
    #PostDecreeLitigation
    #SeattleDivorce
    #WashingtonLaw
    #FinancialClarity
    #AltruistTrust

    17 min
  • Divorce Financial Planning: What the Non-Moneyed Spouse Needs to Know with Jennifer Lee

    Divorce is emotional — but your financial decisions don’t have to be.

    In this episode of Divorce Confidential, Michelle Dellino and Amy Alpeza are joined by Jennifer Lee, founder of Modern Wealth, to unpack what the non-moneyed spouse needs to understand before, during, and after divorce.

    If you’ve ever wondered:

    🔍 What assets do I actually have access to in divorce?

    💡 Should I keep the house — or will that leave me house-poor?
    📈 How do I prepare financially for mediation or settlement?
    💬 What is “financial triage,” and why does it matter early in the process?
    📝 What is a “family love letter,” and how can it protect my loved ones?

    We talk retirement realities, budgeting after divorce, emotional vs. strategic decisions, and how to build a financial plan that supports your next chapter — not just survives it.

    If you’re feeling unsure about money, assets, or your financial future, this episode will help you move from fear to clarity.

    🎧 Listen now — because clarity creates confidence.

    #DivorcePodcast

    #DivorceFinancialPlanning
    #NonMoneyedSpouse
    #WomenAndMoney
    #DivorceSupport
    #FinancialTriage
    #DivorceMediation
    #AssetDivision
    #RetirementPlanning
    #EstatePlanning
    #RealEstateAndDivorce
    #SeattleDivorce
    #WashingtonDivorce
    #DivorceAdvice
    #FinancialClarity
    #DellinoFamilyLawGroup

    17 min
  • Divorce, Homes & Money: 2026’s Biggest Insights

    What’s changing in real estate, divorce trends, and financial planning this year? 🏡💰

    In this episode of Divorce Confidential, Michelle and Amy break down the key questions every individual navigating divorce and homeownership in 2026 should ask:

    🔍 How is the housing market affecting divorcing homeowners—interest rates, inventory, and affordability?

    💡 What life events are driving people to sell, keep, or buy homes after divorce?
    📈 How can pre-planning and early consultation help you make smarter financial and real estate decisions?
    💬 What trends are we seeing in divorce planning—more consultations, proactive strategies, and awareness than ever before?

    Whether you’re downsizing, refinancing, or buying a new home post-divorce, this episode gives you the insights to plan your next chapter with confidence.

    🎧 Listen now to get the real-world tips and trends every divorcing homeowner needs in 2026.

    #DivorceConfidential #DivorcePlanning #DivorceAndRealEstate #WashingtonDivorce #HousingAfterDivorce #FinancialClarity #HighAssetDivorce #EmpoweredAdvocacy #LifeAfterDivorce #DellinoFamilyLawGroup

    15 min
  • Money, Mortgages, and Divorce: Planning Your Next Chapter with Jody Bruns

    What really happens to your mortgage, home equity, and credit when divorce enters the picture? 🏠


    In this episode of Divorce Confidential, Michelle and Amy talk with Jody Bruns, Founder of the Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP®) designation and national authority on divorce and real estate finance. With over 35 years in mortgage and finance, Jody breaks down the questions every divorcing homeowner needs answered:

    🔍 How does divorce impact your ability to refinance or qualify for a new home loan?
    💡 What’s the smartest way to handle joint mortgages, home equity, and buyouts?
    📈 How can strategic mortgage planning support your long-term financial goals post-divorce?
    💬 What steps can you take now to protect your credit and financial stability?

    Whether you’re keeping the home, selling, or buying a new one, this episode will help you plan your next chapter with confidence.

    🎧 Listen now — and learn how to turn financial uncertainty into an informed strategy.

    #DivorceConfidential #DivorceFinance #MortgagePlanning #DivorceAdvice #CDLP #DivorceSupport #HomeAfterDivorce #FinancialPlanning #DivorceRecovery #DellinoFamilyLawGroup

    29 min
  • Protecting Inheritance During Divorce with Myra Salzer

    💡 What should you do when you suddenly inherit wealth—or receive unexpected assets in a divorce?


    In this episode of Divorce Confidential, Michelle Dellino and Amy Alpeza sit down with Myra Salzer, founder of The Wealth Conservancy, TEDx speaker, and author of Living Richly: Seizing the Potential of Inherited Wealth.

    We tackle the big questions many people ask when facing life-changing financial transitions:
    ✔️ What are the first steps to take after inheriting money—or receiving assets in a divorce?
    ✔️ How do emotions impact financial decisions, and how can you avoid costly mistakes?
    ✔️ What’s the difference between scarcity mindset vs. abundance mindset—and how does it affect your future?
    ✔️ What should you look for in a financial advisor (and how they’re paid) so your interests come first?
    ✔️ Why do inheritors and divorcees often struggle with conflict resolution—and how can coaching or therapy help?

    Whether you’re dealing with inheritance, divorce, or widowhood, Myra shares practical strategies for slowing down, making wise choices, and aligning your financial resources with your values and goals.

    🎧 Listen now and learn how to turn unexpected wealth into a foundation for a more fulfilling future.

    📌 Connect with Myra: thewealthconservancy.com | wayintowealth.com

    #DivorceConfidential #InheritedWealth #DivorceSettlement #FinancialCoaching #WealthManagement #MoneyMindset #ScarcityVsAbundance #ConflictResolution #FinancialAdvisorTips

    22 min
  • Loyal to the Accuracy with Special Guest Andrea Roth

    🎙️ How Much Is Your Art Really Worth? Understanding Asset Valuation in Divorce 🎙️


    When divorce involves fine art, antiques, jewelry, and luxury goods, getting an accurate valuation is crucial. In this episode of Divorce Confidential, we sit down with Andrea Roth, founder & CEO of Roth Art Group, to discuss the complexities of appraising high-value personal property.

    🔍 What you'll learn:
    ✔️ The difference between fair market value vs. replacement value
    ✔️ Why appraisals matter in divorce settlements and estate planning
    ✔️ How the art market is shifting and what it means for asset division
    ✔️ Common mistakes people make when valuing their household contents

    Andrea and her team provide customized appraisal services nationwide, helping clients make informed financial decisions about their valuables.

    🎧 Tune in now and gain expert insights!

    #ArtAppraisal #LuxuryAssets #DivorceLaw #AssetValuation #FairMarketValue #EstatePlanning #DivorceConfidential #DellinoFamilyLawGroup

    21 min
  • Relocating with Children

    🚨 New Podcast Episode 🚨


    Thinking about relocating with your children after a divorce? In this episode, we break down everything you need to know about Washington's Relocation Act, including:
    👉 When does the Relocation Act apply?
    👉 What steps you must take if you want to move with your child to a new school district
    👉 How to increase your chances of getting a relocation approved
    👉 Important factors the court will consider

    We also discuss real estate strategies for families on the move:
    🏡 Should you rent or buy when relocating?
    📍 Key considerations when moving locally vs. long-distance
    📈 Current trends in the Pacific Northwest housing market

    Whether you're moving for a new job, a fresh start, or to be closer to family, planning ahead is essential. Tune in now to get the advice you need! 🎧

    #RelocatingWithKids #WashingtonRelocationAct #FamilyLaw #DivorceSupport #DivorceConfidential #DellinoFamilyLawGroup

    18 min

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