Divorce & Everything In Between

In today's episode I am speaking on something I am seeing over and over again presenting to me in my clientele.

Clients who are in 'successful' marriages. Who outwardly have everything but who on the inside are emotionally disconnected from their partners, feel they have outgrown the relationship, no longer feel aligned with the life built up around them or who feel more like a friend or even a business partner towards their spouse.

In this episode we will cover:

- The characteristics I typically see in this marriage
-  Why we are seeing this phenomenon occurring in relationships more than ever
- What we are really setting ourselves up for when we stay in this marriage 
- What we are really setting our children up for if we stay in this marriage for them
- What to do if you're staying in this marriage out of loyalty to the other person
- What to do if you're staying in this marriage because of fear and self-doubt
- The one question you can utilise to open up conversation with your partner to express how you really feel, your concerns and to also gauge how they're really feeling inside.

'Successful' marriages without fulfilment. The modern day version of failure.

Wounding on wounding is a phenomenon that I see in my clients who haven't addressed the reasons why their marriage ended and have launched into new relationships only to be wounded again for a shade of the same reasons again.

Clients come to me regularly who are several years past their marriage ending who are still struggling to evolve out of the same patterning that are a consequence of their marriage.

Newly Divorced or long time since you were divorced this program is for you: https://www.carladacosta.com/newly-divorced 

Today I'm sharing my own personal journey and reflections to course correct my life after leaving my marriage in 2016 and the even more pronounced reflections that I've had over the last 6-7 months, since moving interstate to the other side of Australia. And away from Perth where I had been living for the last 19 years.

I hope this podcast inspires you on your own path.

Please watch my instagram and Facebook over the next few days for further information on the masterclass mentioned at the end of this episode.

Does life feel like it never really changes for you since your marriage ended? Despite your best efforts.

This is why!

Learn more about the program I talk about inside this podcast here: https://www.carladacosta.com/newly-divorced

Today I'm sharing my favourite ways to attract and manifest what I desire into my life. You may not be aware but alongside being a Divorce Coach I am also a certified Law of Attraction Coach.

I have been called a powerful manifestor, a Unicorn and a super expander by people in my life. And I guess (!!!) if I look at my journey and my ability to flow into the next thing then this is something I have to own that now comes quite naturally for me.

There is so much to manifesting but I hope this gives you a beautiful introductory start to the process of law of attraction and how to apply it to your everyday life.

www.carladacosta.com

Chatting today about an often asked question that I hear. “Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men? And what does this say about me?”

Hope this one is enlightening for you that while it says a lot, it might actually say more about something that you’re not realising.

The ‘Elevate You’ program I mentioned in this podcast can be found here.

This episode has been created due to demand.

Never in my inbox have had I had so many women (and men) express to me that they are contemplating leaving their marriage and have been considering it for quite sometime.

No one can tell you what to do in this situation. And I never tell my clients what to do in this situation. Only you know your feelings and inner most thoughts.

But...

I can help you find clarity to your own answer. To help you realise is this love or is this fear keeping me in this connection?

To see the forest for the trees so to speak.

If through this podcast you realise you are still in the connection for reasons of fear then this was my recommendation: click here.

If through this podcast you realise you are still in the connection for reasons of love for your partner this is my recommendation:  click here.

With the utmost of love for the space you are currently in

Carla x

Today's episode explores something that I talk about with many of my clients and something that I'm extremely passionate about.

How to create and find our life path as a divorced or single woman.

Why some of us find this challenging.

What blocks us from doing so.

If this episode and the themes inside resonate with you then I highly recommend and steer you towards my online workshop to download and access here. 

Today I'm sharing with you the benefits of using a divorce coach over following the advice of friends/family and well meaning people in your life!

I have been coaching women in this space for the last four years and know this journey intimately.

And I hope this episode gives you clarity on what to expect from a divorce coach, while also highlighting the difference between coaching and counselling. *Hint...the two are not the same.

To learn more about how to work with me through my group coaching program or one on one please reach out to me at: [email protected] or alternatively explore my offerings at www.carladacosta.com

On todays episode I'm talking about that well used, cliché term - "Finding Yourself After Divorce."

What it really means.

What it really looks like.

And why it's far from a cliché.

To learn more about my upcoming online workshop on this topic please visit: www.carladacosta.com and search under the 'Work With Me" tab.