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In episode 11 of The Anatomy of an Affair, David Feder discusses why your heart can’t be two places at the same time during an affair.

Comparing your partner to the affair partner is an unfair comparison that will either create more confusion for you or keep you stuck. You will not discover why you are where you are. Your heart cannot be in two places at the same time and your partner will almost always come up wanting in any comparison test. Instead it will be more helpful if instead of directing blame onto your spouse, you focus on yourself and become more aware of your beliefs, values and needs.

The way a person feels when in an affair will almost always trump feelings had in a long-term relationship. An affair is a fantasy built on a foundation of secrecy, exclusive focus and excitement. Absent are the financial and childcare responsibilities that often distract committed partners from one another and robs the committed relationship of passion. Hence, the affair will often appear more exciting and leave participating partners thinking that they finally met someone who truly understands. But, do they?

For more information on David Feder, visit: http://www.mylifeafteranaffair.com

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In this episode of Ask Henry, family law attorney Henry Gornbein discusses the first steps to consider when contemplating divorce.

Topics include:

• Filing a complaint or petition putting husband or wife on notice what to expect

• Serving the divorce petition to your husband or wife How to do it with the least amount of discourse.

• Trolling – How some lawyers “troll” or solicit for clients How this can be harmful if domestic violence has been part of the marriage

• Checklist for this to consider during the divorce process

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On this episode of Being Single, Travel and Divorce Coach Julie Morey join us to talk about the healing powers of traveling after divorce… even if you’re alone.

The world is our playground. It is waiting for us to come and play. There is so much to see and do out there and I KNOW how life changing travel can be.

You know there is something more out there and you want to EXPERIENCE it – to live life fully and completely. Travel stretches your boundaries, takes you the edge, teaches you, challenges your assumptions, and gives you a chance to live LIFE in a way could never imagine.

Through travel, Julie healed from divorce, made lifelong friends, saw the wonders of the world, danced on a beach at midnight, spent ten days in silence at a monastery, watched the sunrise over ancient ruins, - and became the amazing person she is today.

In Julie’s book Travel, Sex, and Train Wrecks you can learn more about her journey. If you would like to learn more about Julie’s travel or divorce coaching, visit: www.ALifeMoreTraveled.com

The nation's premier family law attorney Henry Gornbein returns with a new program titled "The Four Aspects of Divorce.

Henry describes the four aspects which include:

• The Legal Divorce
• The Psychological Divorce
• The Economic Divorce
• And The Religious Divorce

These topics are also included in Henry's book Divorce Demystifed available on Amazon.com.

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What do you do when the life you’re living no longer fits on the foundation where it’s settled? How do you access the strength to make a dramatic shift that will rock your whole world? When you’ve had enough, how do you get to what’s next?

In this episode of Being Single with Steve Peck and Toni Morales, Nancy Levin joins us. Nancy is the author of the best-selling book Jump and Your Life Will Appear – An Inch-by-Inch Guide to Making a Major Change.

Nancy shares her personal journey of turning an extremely painful moment in her life into one of personal growth, self-discovery and happiness.

Nancy believes that whatever you’re facing at this time in your life It’s time to face and embrace your fears, create the courage necessary to take the leap toward self-love, and reap the rewards of the unforseen gifts and opportunities that await you upon landing.

For more on Nancy and her book, visit: www.NancyLevin.com.

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Welcome to another episode of Being Single with Steve Peck and Toni Morales!

So straight up, this is a strange show. Toni had been in a horrible mood the week before and even cancelled a show and lost a guest Steve had been wanting to bring on-air for a year. Let’s just say Steve’s frustration shows through during the beginning of this show a very passive-aggressive way.

Once they get through their personal issues the show explores how some parents who remarry seem to forget about their biological children in favor of children they have with their new spouce and how damaging that can be. John Lennon’s son Julian is used as an example.

And then the show goes totally off the rails as the conversation shifts to woman and manscaping and Steve’s aversion to hair. (This has nothing to do with his Alopecia.) And why do men have to be so hairy and do women really like it?

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As Steve and Toni spread their terrestial radio wings, we present their radio demo program with the "best of" their last two shows.

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David Feder returns with the Anatomy of An Affair on Divorce Source Radio.

In this show, David helps those who have experienced an affair find the missing link in the recovery process.

Topics include:

• What people need in recovery after an affair
• Dealing with the trauma and pain
• Having a plan for therapy
• Keeping hope alive after an affair
• Regaining trust after an affair

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Is it possible to go to court and make the process less costly, less acrimonious and actually helpful? Find out how with Deborah Moskovitch and Steve Peck as we discuss with our guest, Justice Rebecca Love Kourlis of IAALS, access to justice, and what it means for family court litigants. Judge Kourlis is the author of more than 200 opinions and dissents during her tenure as a judge, and also spearheaded significant reforms in the judicial system relating to juries, family law and attorney regulation. Her contribution to the justice system is significant and impressive.

IAALS, the Institute for the Advancement of the American Legal System, is busy working to make the process of separation and divorce more fair, dignified and affordable. And, most importantly, preserve families in the most positive way they can be during a difficult time.

IAALS’ Honoring Families Initiative has successfully developed an interdisciplinary model for reaching out-of-court resolutions in cases of separation and divorce. That model is now at work at the Resource Center for Separating and Divorcing Families at the University of Denver. They are at work tackling the challenges of the in-court divorce process, identifying the issues and compiling research on a number of fronts. That research will help IAALS along with some of the best minds in the country to suggest real solutions to improve the system.

We explore:

• What does access to justice mean for family court litigants
• What are some of the access to justice issues facing family court litigants today?
• Is cost a significant issue in family court cases?
• How are courts and individual judges dealing with these issues
• ……and much more!

If you are contemplating divorce, in the throes of divorce and not sure what to do, then you won’t want to miss the valuable information shared by Becky Kourlis. Empower yourself with information and knowledge so that you can divorce more holistically to avoid the pain and scars that can emerge!

Learn more about IAALS and the Honoring Families Initiative at http://iaals.du.edu/

Resource Center for Separating and Divorcing Families at the University of Denver

IAALS web site

IAALS Online (blog)

Questions, comments, suggestions:

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For more ideas on divorce reform and what you can do see Deborah’s article in the Huffington Post – Solving the Problem of Divorce, Have Your Say!

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Steve and Toni return with another blazing show. Steve manages to get Toni furious when he plays a recording from a male chauvinist pig. (Steve’s always been good at pushing buttons.)

Topics include:

• Toni invites fans to join her for a concert downtown Chicago this weekend (3/23/2014)
• Steve gets called a metro-sexual by a listener
• Steve finds an amazing song on American Idol – The Story of My Life is the song and the verse Steve Loves it the one Toni hates! A fight ensues…
• Steve’s Favorite American Idol is…
• Steve play’s Toni a cut from radio personality Tom Leykis, that gets Toni furious with his anti-women and marriage comments. Tom claims women don’t deserve spousal support.
• Is the divorce industry corrupt?
• Steve shares his personal story of why his relationships don’t work. Deep stuff here.
• A Radio Syndication deal could be in the works for Being Single
• What are the possibilities of having sex in space and how would you do it?
• And much more.

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