We're back for another one, with some more 2020 vision. In this episode, we discuss what love and marriage is. We get into how we feel about re-marrying, arranged marriage, the propaganda of marriage and weddings, and more. Additionally, we talk about what is important to sustain a marriage, and the difference between marriage (past and present). This episode is extremely thought provoking...it has so many gems, you'll definitely need a pen a paper. Love & Marriage...leggggoooooooo!!!

Welcome back! Happy New Year! It’s 2020 and we; Jé Arae and Mie Vaneé are discussing our visions for 2020. We get into what we would like to see and want, such as: the art of real dating, bringing back real conversations, the element of surprise, and ACTION! This year we are setting the stage and professing what’s to come in 2020. Hang tight...you’ll definitely learn something.

Wrapping up 2019! Discussing what, where, and how our year went, from the ups to the downs! We get into new year resolutions, what goals we want for 2020. Also, what the hell we’re throwing in the trash in 2019...as we sip!!! 2019 taught us a lot, so this is a synopsis of it all...good, bad, and indifferent! Fuck with us...Divorced AF!!!

We bring to the stage, Simone Bray, attorney at law @htownlawyer. Simone practices family law in the state of Texas, and came to offer a legal perspective on divorce and its processes. We discuss the differences of having a lawyer versus not attaining one; to having dialogue about the differences in law from state to state, and county to county when divorcing. Get your pen and paper out, this episode has a lot of gems.

JR further elaborates on his perspective from episode 07. He further delves into sex, the differences being married to an African American and a Caucasian woman. JR also expresses that being comfortable with yourself sexually is important and nothing to be ashamed of. We get into it this episode. We ask hard questions, and JR answers. No holds barred!!!

We’re talking divorce with our special guest, JR. He’s bringing so much perspective to the table; not only is he divorced, but he’s divorced twice. To add icing to the cake, he was married to a African American woman and a Caucasian woman; which is interesting enough. JR delves into the differences of being married to two different races, where he went wrong, sexual frustration, and even cheating. JR does not hold back. He answers all the tough questions and brings so much insight in addition. This is a do not want to miss episode. Men we’ve heard you, and here is your answer...JR.

We want to take the time to give “thanks”, offer our perspectives on holidays after divorce, our Turkey Day traditions, and how to cope. Holidays can bring on depressing thoughts when you’ve transitioned to a new normal. We’ll discuss some coping mechanisms and what we endured with holidays after divorce. This episode has its granted funny moments, but some serious heavy topics to address. It is all addressed, good, bad, and indifferent.

We discuss what we’ve done wrong in the our marriages. Talking about things we could have done better, now that we can clearly see with hindsight and maturity. We also discuss how our relationships, or lack thereof, with our fathers can play into what kind of man you choose to be with later on in life. We’re brutally honest, as always; and we’re always right!

To quote the amazing group, Htown, “Emotions Make You Cry Sometimes!” Because they do!!! We discuss topics that were brought to us by followers on Instagram. Questions were posed asking; How do you let go of the hurt? How do you pour from and empty cup? How do you find time for you? How do you find balance in being single with children? And, how to put yourself in a position to love? We address all these things...from first hand experience. Lastly, we discuss the 6 stages of divorce, what our firsthand experiences were emotionally, and emotional continuity and intelligence. This episode offers a lot of insight with hella funny moments.

On this episode we will explore perspectives on dating while divorcing. This episode is exceptional because our special guest, “Cali,” is offering a female perspective. She sheds some light and insight on her experience dating a man who was separated and divorcing. We take it a step further, by exploring how dating a man who’s technically married can make you feel like “the other woman”. We agree, disagree, and agree to disagree. It’s a taboo topic, but someone has to tackle it...and we’re here to do it!