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Do Liars Know They’re Lying? Recovery, Self-Deception, And Trust
What if the most dangerous lie is the one you tell yourself first? We dig into the hard question—do liars know when they’re lying—and follow it through the real-world fallout: broken trust, numbed empathy, and a slow drift from love into image management. From conscious deceit to self-deception and memory distortions, we unpack how small compromises become a lifestyle, and how that lifestyle quietly erodes marriages, faith, and self-respect.
John opens up about the progression from self-protection to self-deception during addiction, and the painful realization that came only when he could finally see the damage up close. We talk about the difference between a quick “sorry” and the long grind of repair, and why allowing consequences to land is often the only way truth gets a hearing. For those navigating faith, we call out the misuse of Scripture to justify control and spotlight mutual submission, humility, and accountability as the actual path back to integrity.
If you’re stuck in patterns of lying, or loving someone who is, this conversation offers a roadmap: name entitlement, stop rationalizing, welcome feedback that stings, and take the first honest step toward repentance. Practical takeaways include building community support, setting clear boundaries, embracing measurable repair (transparency, follow-through, consistency), and recognizing guilt and shame as prompts to seek help rather than hide. Ready to trade image for truth and start rebuilding trust? Listen now, share this with someone who needs it, and subscribe so you never miss an episode. If this helped you, leave a review and tell us the next hard question you want us to tackle.
Thank you for listening! For more information about us and the services we offer, visit www.hurtmeetshealer.com.
Intro & Outro music written, performed, and produced by Kim Capps.
This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered legal, medical, or professional advice. The views expressed by the Host or any Guest(s) are strictly their own and in no way constitute legal, medical, or professional advice.
Copyright ©️ 2025, Hurt Meets Healer, LLC. All rights reserved.
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By Kim CappsWhat if the most dangerous lie is the one you tell yourself first? We dig into the hard question—do liars know when they’re lying—and follow it through the real-world fallout: broken trust, numbed empathy, and a slow drift from love into image management. From conscious deceit to self-deception and memory distortions, we unpack how small compromises become a lifestyle, and how that lifestyle quietly erodes marriages, faith, and self-respect.
John opens up about the progression from self-protection to self-deception during addiction, and the painful realization that came only when he could finally see the damage up close. We talk about the difference between a quick “sorry” and the long grind of repair, and why allowing consequences to land is often the only way truth gets a hearing. For those navigating faith, we call out the misuse of Scripture to justify control and spotlight mutual submission, humility, and accountability as the actual path back to integrity.
If you’re stuck in patterns of lying, or loving someone who is, this conversation offers a roadmap: name entitlement, stop rationalizing, welcome feedback that stings, and take the first honest step toward repentance. Practical takeaways include building community support, setting clear boundaries, embracing measurable repair (transparency, follow-through, consistency), and recognizing guilt and shame as prompts to seek help rather than hide. Ready to trade image for truth and start rebuilding trust? Listen now, share this with someone who needs it, and subscribe so you never miss an episode. If this helped you, leave a review and tell us the next hard question you want us to tackle.
Thank you for listening! For more information about us and the services we offer, visit www.hurtmeetshealer.com.
Intro & Outro music written, performed, and produced by Kim Capps.
This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be considered legal, medical, or professional advice. The views expressed by the Host or any Guest(s) are strictly their own and in no way constitute legal, medical, or professional advice.
Copyright ©️ 2025, Hurt Meets Healer, LLC. All rights reserved.