Married Life Management Podcast

Do You Even Know Why You're Getting Married?


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Are you preparing for a wedding… or preparing for marriage?
In this eye-opening episode, we tackle the most overlooked but life-defining question every engaged or dating couple must answer: “Do you even know why you’re getting married?”

🎯 Whether you're engaged, seriously dating, or simply desiring a God-honoring marriage, this episode will challenge your mindset, break myths, and equip you with the tools and truth to build love that lasts.

🎙️ Hosted by a global marriage trainer and award-winning pre-marriage coach with over 40 years of experience, this 30-minute episode reveals why preparation beats passion — and how ignorance about marriage can lead to divorce, disillusionment, or disaster.

🧠 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

✅ Why your “why” for marriage matters more than your feelings
 ✅ The 5 silent dangers of entering marriage without purpose
 ✅ Why most marriages fail—and how you can avoid their mistakes
 ✅ How to discern if you’re marrying potential or proven patterns
 ✅ What preparation looks like for emotional, spiritual, and covenantal success
 ✅ Red flags when your partner resists premarital growth
 ✅ The biblical blueprint for building a marriage that mirrors Christ
 ✅ How coaching and intentionality can save you from heartbreak later

📌 Episode Breakdown:

  • 0:00 – The Marriage Mistake Most People Make
  • 2:30 – What Does It Really Mean to Know Why You're Getting Married?
  • 6:00 – 5 Dangers of Not Knowing Why You’re Getting Married
  • 12:00 – Modern Marriage Motives That Lead to Regret
  • 16:00 – Why So Many Marriages Fail (and How to Stop Yours From Being Next)
  • 19:00 – Why Preparation is Non-Negotiable
  • 22:00 – When Your Partner Doesn’t Want to Prepare — Now What?
  • 25:00 – The Life-Saving Benefits of Pre-Marriage Coaching
  • 28:00 – Final Words & Your Pre-Marriage Mindset Shift

📖 Scriptures Mentioned:

  • Proverbs 24:3 – “Through wisdom a house is built...”
  • Ephesians 5:25 – Marriage is a reflection of Christ’s love
  • Amos 3:3 – “Can two walk together unless they agree?”
  • James 1:5 – Ask God for wisdom in decisions

💬 Listener Call to Action:

If this episode challenged or helped you, don’t scroll away.
 ✅ Drop a comment: “I choose to prepare for a marriage, not just a wedding.”
✅ Share this with your fiancé, your friends, or your small group.
✅ Subscribe for weekly relationship and marriage insight that can change your future before it begins.

Because marriage without preparation is a setup for heartbreak.
But with wisdom, vision, and faith — you can build a marriage that doesn’t just last, but thrives.

🔔 Subscribe now for more:

  • Christian pre-marriage coaching
  • Marriage transformation stories
  • Relationship growth tools
  • Emotional and spiritual connection strategies
  • Real talk for couples who want more than just a ceremony

Love doesn’t make marriage work. Preparation does.
🎧 Let this episode be your first step toward a covenant that endures.

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Married Life Management PodcastBy chindah chindah