Are you preparing for a wedding… or preparing for marriage?
In this eye-opening episode, we tackle the most overlooked but life-defining question every engaged or dating couple must answer: “Do you even know why you’re getting married?”

🎯 Whether you're engaged, seriously dating, or simply desiring a God-honoring marriage, this episode will challenge your mindset, break myths, and equip you with the tools and truth to build love that lasts.

🎙️ Hosted by a global marriage trainer and award-winning pre-marriage coach with over 40 years of experience, this 30-minute episode reveals why preparation beats passion — and how ignorance about marriage can lead to divorce, disillusionment, or disaster.

🧠 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

✅ Why your “why” for marriage matters more than your feelings
 ✅ The 5 silent dangers of entering marriage without purpose
 ✅ Why most marriages fail—and how you can avoid their mistakes
 ✅ How to discern if you’re marrying potential or proven patterns
 ✅ What preparation looks like for emotional, spiritual, and covenantal success
 ✅ Red flags when your partner resists premarital growth
 ✅ The biblical blueprint for building a marriage that mirrors Christ
 ✅ How coaching and intentionality can save you from heartbreak later

📌 Episode Breakdown:

• 0:00 – The Marriage Mistake Most People Make
• 2:30 – What Does It Really Mean to Know Why You're Getting Married?
• 6:00 – 5 Dangers of Not Knowing Why You’re Getting Married
• 12:00 – Modern Marriage Motives That Lead to Regret
• 16:00 – Why So Many Marriages Fail (and How to Stop Yours From Being Next)
• 19:00 – Why Preparation is Non-Negotiable
• 22:00 – When Your Partner Doesn’t Want to Prepare — Now What?
• 25:00 – The Life-Saving Benefits of Pre-Marriage Coaching
• 28:00 – Final Words & Your Pre-Marriage Mindset Shift

📖 Scriptures Mentioned:

• Proverbs 24:3 – “Through wisdom a house is built...”
• Ephesians 5:25 – Marriage is a reflection of Christ’s love
• Amos 3:3 – “Can two walk together unless they agree?”
• James 1:5 – Ask God for wisdom in decisions

💬 Listener Call to Action:

If this episode challenged or helped you, don’t scroll away.
 ✅ Drop a comment: “I choose to prepare for a marriage, not just a wedding.”
✅ Share this with your fiancé, your friends, or your small group.
✅ Subscribe for weekly relationship and marriage insight that can change your future before it begins.

Because marriage without preparation is a setup for heartbreak.
But with wisdom, vision, and faith — you can build a marriage that doesn’t just last, but thrives.

🔔 Subscribe now for more:

• Christian pre-marriage coaching
• Marriage transformation stories
• Relationship growth tools
• Emotional and spiritual connection strategies
• Real talk for couples who want more than just a ceremony

Love doesn’t make marriage work. Preparation does.
🎧 Let this episode be your first step toward a covenant that endures.

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Are you married, but feeling alone?
Do you and your spouse share a house, bills, and parenting — but not your hearts?

This episode is for couples who feel more like roommates than soulmates. Whether you’re 20 or 55, if the passion has faded, the late-night talks have stopped, and your marriage is surviving but not thriving — this episode will awaken your connection and give you the tools to turn things around.

🎙️ Hosted by an award-winning marriage coach with over 40 years of experience, this session offers faith-based and psychological insight into why emotional disconnection happens — and how to fix it before it’s too late.

🔍 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✅ The 5 silent killers of emotional intimacy in marriage
 ✅ Why many couples become emotionally distant and stay stuck
 ✅ The difference between physical presence and emotional presence
 ✅ Signs your marriage is in "roommate mode"
 ✅ How small habits, screens, and unspoken pain sabotage closeness
 ✅ Real steps to rebuild emotional safety and restore warmth
 ✅ Why prayer, love languages, and micro-connection moments matter
 ✅ How to reconnect weekly with emotional check-ins (and what to ask)

🧠 Key Takeaways You Can Apply Immediately:

• Simple strategies to rebuild trust, affection, and communication
• Daily and weekly tools to increase emotional safety
• Real advice on how to touch without expectation
• How to speak your spouse’s emotional language (not just yours)
• How to invite God back into the center of your marriage

📌 Perfect For Couples Who Are:

• Feeling emotionally distant or disconnected
• Arguing less but also loving less
• Constantly busy but rarely bonded
• Struggling with unspoken resentment
• Longing for deeper emotional and spiritual intimacy

📖 Featured Scriptures:

• James 1:19 – “Be quick to listen, slow to speak…”
• Ecclesiastes 4:12 – “A cord of three strands is not easily broken.”

💬 Listener Call to Action:

If this message spoke to your heart, don’t just nod and move on.
 ✅ Drop a comment: “We choose to reconnect.”
✅ Watch or listen with your spouse this week.
✅ Share this episode with another couple who needs hope.
✅ Subscribe for weekly emotional & spiritual marriage coaching that works.

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Ever wondered if conflict could be the key to a stronger, more fulfilling marriage? This episode of the Married Life Management Podcast challenges the traditional view of disagreements as obstacles and explores their potential to deepen connection and love within relationships. As someone who has navigated the complexities of marriage alongside my wife, I, Coach Chindah Chindah, share personal stories that illustrate how embracing our differences has brought us closer. Unpacking insights from the renowned Gottman Institute and the Journal of Family Psychology, we delve into why ignoring conflicts can spell trouble and how facing them head-on can transform your partnership into a resilient and harmonious bond.

Navigate the path from conflict to connection with practical strategies and heartfelt advice. Discover the importance of creating a safe space for open and honest communication, where respect and understanding take the forefront. This episode highlights the power of empathy and self-awareness, allowing couples to see misunderstandings as opportunities for dialogue, leading to deeper emotional intimacy. By learning to appreciate personality differences and leveraging them to foster growth, you'll gain tools to resolve issues without causing harm, ensuring that your love endures and thrives in the long run.

Turn challenges into opportunities for growth and unity with actionable steps from my book, "Conflict to Connection." This episode not only promises to strengthen your marriage but also invites you to join our community for ongoing support through Married Life Management's resources, including books, articles, and online courses. Engage with us on social media and in our free Telegram groups, where you can find encouragement and updates to help you build an extraordinary and satisfying marriage. Let conflict be the catalyst for a more loving and connected relationship.

I will like to continue the support and ensure your marriage soars each day as God has designed it to be. This is why I am inviting you to join:

• Our 'Love Without Drama' Couple Marriage Satisfaction Masterminds for continuous marriage renewal throughout your life together by clicking Here. Don't settle for less.
• Obtain our award-signature marriage satisfaction online course. This program is nicknamed The MARRIAGE ENCYCLOPEDIA OR MARRIAGE BIBLE. You can have the entire program for lifetime access for a small fee. Click HERE and get on board now

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On today's episode of Married Life Management Podcast, I am talking about why we must not avoid dealing with all sorts of traumas in our lives. 

Trauma can be an extremely distressful and upsetting experience that has lasting consequences in an individual's life. Recognizing and responding to its impact is essential in moving forward and healing; unfortunately, many avoid their trauma out of fear, shame, or a lack of understanding on how best to handle it.

Ignoring trauma in marriage can be extremely damaging. Unaddressed trauma from either partner can create conflict, communication breakdown and an overall lack of emotional intimacy - making it crucial that both partners identify and address any trauma intentionally to ensure a strong and fulfilling relationship.

Identification of trauma can be a challenging task, but it is crucial that you first recognize that you have been exposed to it and its effect. Watch for patterns of behaviour, emotions, or thoughts related to trauma; seek support from a therapist or support group and seek counselling services as necessary in order to work through your experience and develop coping mechanisms.

Finding solutions proactively is also essential, meaning actively searching out resources and support systems to assist with healing from trauma, such as therapy, self-care practices or support groups. Keep in mind that healing from trauma takes time, patience and perseverance - you need not do it all alone!

Avoiding trauma may seem tempting, but doing so could have lasting repercussions for individuals and relationships alike. It is vitally important that trauma be identified and addressed deliberately in order to move forward and build healthy and fulfilling relationships - with proper support and resources, healing from trauma is achievable.

I believe after listening to this episode, you will identify your trauma and fins solutions for them.

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On today's episode of Married Life Management Podcast, I am talking about Anger And Disagreement Is Good In Marriage.  I share why we must be reflective and intentional in dealing with anger and disagreement because spousal anger and disagreements can be caused by various factors, including communication breakdown, financial issues, differences in priorities, trust issues, differences in parenting styles, mental health issues, and stress and fatigue. By understanding the root causes of conflict, couples can work together to resolve conflicts and maintain a healthy and happy relationship.

Anger can be a good thing in marriage if it is managed and expressed in a healthy and constructive manner. Here's why:

1. Helps Identify Issues: Anger can be a signal that something is not right in the relationship. By acknowledging and addressing the underlying issue, couples can work together to improve their relationship.
2. Encourages Communication: Anger can prompt partners to communicate and express their feelings, which can lead to a better understanding of each other's perspectives.
3. Facilitates Conflict Resolution: When anger is expressed in a healthy and respectful way, it can lead to a resolution of conflicts and help to strengthen the relationship.
4. Promotes Growth: Working through conflicts and disagreements can help couples grow and mature as individuals and as a couple.
5. Improves Emotional Intimacy: When partners communicate and work through conflicts, they can deepen their emotional connection and intimacy.

It's important to note that anger can only be a positive thing in marriage if it is managed and expressed in a healthy manner.  Couples can benefit from learning healthy communication skills and anger management techniques to help them effectively express their emotions and resolve conflicts.

I believe after listening to this episode, you will agree with me that anger and disagreement is not completely evil emotion. You can use it to thrive in your marriage and all its benefits are for grabs for both parties in the marital union.

I will like to continue the support and ensure your marriage soars each day as God has designed it to be. This is why I am inviting you to join:

• Our 2023 Couple Marriage Satisfaction Masterminds for continuous marriage renewal throughout the year 2023 by clicking Here. Don't settle for less.
• Obtain our award-signature marriage satisfaction online course. This program is nicknamed The MARRIAGE ENCYCLOPEDIA OR MARRIAGE BIBLE. You can have the entire program for lifetime access for a small fee. Click HERE and get on board now

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 On today's episode of Married Life Management Podcast, I am talking about EThe Difficult Spouse In A Difficult Marriage! 
What are the SIGNS OF A DIFFICULT POUSE?

It is possible to have a difficult spouse in many ways. Each person will experience different signs. These are signs that a person is likely to be a difficult spouse.

1. Emotional or verbal abuse. A spouse that is difficult may use verbal and emotional abuse to control or manipulate the other. This may include criticizing, belittling, or insulting their partner as well as gaslighting and making them question their reality.

2. Control and manipulation: A spouse with a difficult relationship may try to influence their partner's thoughts, actions, and decisions. You might see them using manipulation techniques such as withholding information or affection, threatening to end your relationship, or making you feel guilty for not doing what you want.

3. Unresponsive and uncooperative: A spouse with a difficult relationship may be unresponsive, uncooperative, and not willing to communicate, make decisions, or solve problems. They may be unwilling to hear their partner's viewpoint, dismiss their concerns, or compromise or find solutions.

4. Infidelity: A cheating spouse can either be emotionally or physically abusive. This can cause great emotional pain and distrust in the relationship.

5. Inability to feel empathy or compassion: A spouse who is not able or willing to help their partner may lack compassion and empathy. They may be indifferent or disinterested in their partner’s happiness or well-being or even enjoy causing them distress.

6. Inconsistency. An inconsistent spouse can be difficult to predict what their partner will do or how they will react. This can lead to uncertainty and insecurity within the relationship.
It is important to recognize that every relationship and each person are unique. If you believe your spouse is acting out of control, it is important that you seek professional help to resolve the problems in your relationship. Remind yourself that change is possible and many couples can improve their relationship through counseling, therapy, and other support.

Listen, subscribe, share, and let us learn about marital transformational tips together.

• Our Couple Intimacy Masterclass is here. Click  HERE to register for this 4 weeks transformational boardroom-to-bedroom reconnection masterclass.
• You can plan to join us in America or the United Kingdom for our Reconnection Couples Retreat in 2023. 
• Obtain our award-signature marriage satisfaction online course. This program is nicknamed The MARRIAGE ENCYCLOPEDIA OR MARRIAGE BIBLE. You can have the entire program for lifetime access for a small fee. Click HERE and get on board now

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 On today's episode of Married Life Management Podcast, I am talking about Every Marriage Has A Narcissist. 

I share why we must be intentional in finding out how to manage and deal with a narcissist.
A narcissist is someone who has an inflated sense of self-importance and a lack of empathy for others. They often seek constant validation and attention and can struggle with feelings of insecurity and vulnerability. These traits can manifest in a variety of ways in a romantic relationship and can have a significant impact on the quality of the marriage.

One of the most common ways narcissism can manifest in a marriage is through a lack of emotional intimacy and connection. Narcissists often struggle with vulnerability and may have difficulty opening up to their partners emotionally. They may also prioritize their own needs and desires over those of their partner, leading to a lack of empathy and consideration in the relationship.

Living with a narcissist can be emotionally and mentally draining for the partner. They may feel constantly invalidated, dismissed, and unimportant. This can lead to feelings of low self-esteem and self-doubt and can make it difficult for the partner to assert their own needs and boundaries

• Key Highlight
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  • Who Is A Narcissist?(00:03:09)
  • Symptoms of A Narcissistic Behaviour(00:06:40)
  • Border Line Between A Self-Absorbed Narcisist And Self-Love  (00:15:46)
  • Practical Ways In Dealing With A Narcissist (00:23:45)
  • God, Prayer And Narcissism (oo.41.08)

In conclusion, every marriage has a narcissist, whether it's one or both partners. Narcissistic traits can manifest in a variety of ways in a romantic relationship, including a lack of emotional intimacy, manipulation, and control.

Listen, subscribe, share, and let us learn about marital transformational tips together.

• Our Couple Intimacy Masterclass is here. Click  HERE to register for this 4 weeks transformational boardroom to-bedroom reconnection masterclass.
• You can plan to join us in America or the United Kingdom for our Reconnection Couples Retreat in 2023. 
• Obtain our award-signature marriage satisfaction online course. This program is nicknamed The MARRIAGE ENCYCLOPEDIA OR MARRIAGE BIBLE. You can have the entire program for lifetime access for a small fee. Click HERE and get on board now

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On today's episode of Married Life Management Podcast, I am talking about Sex Positions and Orgasm. 

I share why we must be intentional in finding out how to satisfy our spouse's needs by practicing THE PRINCIPLES OF SEXUAL INTIMACY AND COMFORTABLE SEX POSITIONS FOR MUTUAL PLEASURE DURING SEXUAL INTERCOURSE.

Pleasurable sex is an important aspect of a healthy and fulfilling marriage, and comfortable positions can play a significant role in achieving this. Not only do comfortable positions increase physical pleasure, but they can also enhance emotional intimacy and connection between partners.

One of the most important things to consider when choosing a sexual position is the comfort and pleasure of both partners. This includes taking into account any physical limitations or restrictions, such as back or knee problems, and finding positions that accommodate these. Some positions, such as the missionary position, may be less physically demanding and therefore more comfortable for some individuals.

Another important factor to consider when choosing a sexual position is the level of intimacy and connection desired. Positions that involve more physical contact and eye contact, such as the face-to-face position, can foster a deeper emotional connection between partners. Positions that involve more physical separation, such as the rear-entry position, may be more suitable for those who prefer a greater sense of independence or privacy.

Experimenting with different positions can also be a fun and exciting way to spice up a sexual relationship. The "woman on top" position, for example, allows the woman to control the pace and depth of penetration, which can lead to increased pleasure for both partners. 

It's also important to remember that comfort and pleasure are not mutually exclusive and that there are many ways to make a position more comfortable without sacrificing pleasure.

In conclusion, pleasurable sex is an important aspect of a healthy and fulfilling marriage, and comfortable positions can play a significant role in achieving this. Experimenting with different positions can be a fun and exciting way to spice up a sexual relationship while taking into account physical limitations and the level of intimacy desired. 

• Our 2023 Couple Marriage Satisfaction Masterminds for continuous marriage renewal throughout the year 2023 by clicking Here. Don't settle for less.
• You can plan to join us in America or the United Kingdom for our Reconnection Couples Retreat in 2023. 
• Obtain our award-signature marriage satisfaction online course. This program is nicknamed The MARRIAGE ENCYCLOPEDIA OR MARRIAGE BIBLE. You can have the entire program for lifetime access for a small fee. Click HERE and get on board now

Thank you for listening.

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On today's episode of Married Life Management Podcast, I am talking about Foreplay's Secret Of The Bible.  I share why we must be intentional in finding out how to satisfy our spouse's needs by practicing UNCONDITIONAL LOVE from the heart with full selflessness.

Many marriages are not experiencing the full potential of exploring each other's erotic powers. We rush love-making as if we are being pursued and hunted.

You need to start by finding out and then, practicing ways to satisfy each other without judgment, criticism, and being sarcastic. Each spouse deserves to enjoy sexual fulfillment just as much as the other spouse.

It's important you understand your personal urges by knowing your sexual responses and needs. For each individual, what turns them on and what puts them “in the mood” can be different. It also vastly depends on gender. For males, the sensuality and erection stimuli often stem from visual/ sensory cues, whilst for women, it’s often some sort of deeper connection that arouses them.

As you aligned at different levels of intimacy, you must selflessly stalemate your spouse's erogenous zones, to discover what is working and what you must do more, to take them to their sexual heaven.

Key Highlights

• Don't Take Your Spouse For Granted. Enjoy Him Or Her Now, Before It's Too Late. (02:02)
• Foreplay Is The Bedrock Of Having An Incredible Sex Life (07:08)
• Unconditional Love: The Foreplay Secret Of The Bible (09.48)
• Intimacy Fuels Foreplay Tremendously(16:50)
• Your Erogenous Zones Are Not For Show But For Erotic Touching And Stimulation. (31:51)
• Your Body Was Provided By God To Be Explored In Holy Matrimony: Allow It To Be Touched And Explored For Deeper Treasure Hunting Exercise.
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• Take Intentional Action Today By Acting With Unconditional Love (45:00)

I believe after listening to this episode, you will agree with me that sexual satisfaction is for both genders in the marriage. Sexual healing and all its benefits are for grabs for both parties in the marital union.

I will like to continue the support and ensure your marriage soars each day as God has designed it to be. This is why I am inviting you to join:

• Our 2023 Couple Marriage Satisfaction Masterminds for continuous marriage renewal throughout the year 2023 by clicking Here. Don't settle for less.
• Our 2023 Mature Single Marriage Preparation and Understanding Mastermind Group will help you to discover the secrets of starting well and building on that when you tie the knot with your future half. This will be one of the best things, you have ever done for yourself as a mature single adult in 2023. Click Here to join.
• Obtain our award-signature marriage satisfaction online course. This program is nicknamed The MARRIAGE ENCYCLOPEDIA OR MARRIAGE BIBLE. You can have the entire program for lifetime access for a small fee. Click HERE and get on board now

Thank you for listening, un

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On today's episode of Married Life Management Podcast, I am talking about Sexual Satisfaction Is Only For Men.  I share why we have such a huge gap between the intimate fulfillment of a man and a woman in a matrimonial relationship. This gap is what researchers called THE ORGASM GAP.

Many marriages are struggling because the ultimate secrets of sexual fulfillment in their marriage are not fully implemented and experienced. This episode will show you- The What, The How, and The When to start enjoying your intimate life like never before.

It's important you understand your personal urges by knowing your sexual responses and needs. For each individual, what turns them on and what puts them “in the mood” can be different. It also vastly depends on gender. For males, the sensuality and erection stimuli often stem from visual/ sensory cues, whilst for women, it’s often some sort of deeper connection that arouses them.

Given the visual urges of a man, it’s a no-brainer that men are attracted to their wives. Similarly, for women, a thoughtful conversation and talking about feelings can be the ideal foreplay.

Key Highlights

• The missing link between male and female sexual satisfaction in marriage (02:43)
• What is the average time it takes a male and a female to climax during sexual intercourse? (05:37)
• Sexual response circle of a man and a woman in marriage (07:26)
• Why do we have this orgasm gap in marriage? (10:13)
• Types of orgasm to explore in your marriage (17:39)
• The Erogenous Zones: Male and Female (22:40)
• Common Sexual Challenges In The Bedroom (24:28)
• Benefits of sexual satisfaction in marriage (31:45)
• Secrets of long-lasting sexual satisfaction in marriage (35:30)
• Plan, prepare and participate in making your sexual life great each time (40:20)

I believe after listening to this episode, you will agree with me that sexual satisfaction is for both genders in the marriage. Sexual healing and all its benefits are for grabs for both parties in the marital union.

I will like to continue the support and ensure your marriage soars each day as God has designed it to be. This is why I am inviting you to join:

• Our 2023 Couple Marriage Satisfaction Masterminds for continuous marriage renewal throughout the year 2023 by clicking Here. Don't settle for less.
• Our 2023 Mature Single Marriage Preparation and Understanding Mastermind Group will help you to discover the secrets of starting well and building on that when you tie the knot with your future half. This will be one of the best things, you have ever done for yourself as a mature single adult in 2023. Click Here to join.
• Obtain our award-signature marriage satisfaction online course. This program is nicknamed The MARRIAGE ENCYCLOPEDIA OR MARRIAGE BIBLE. You can have the entire program for lifetime access for a small fee. Click HERE and get on board now

Thank you for listening, until the next episode. Remain blessed.

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